Find Love.

Originally posted by azezil
anywho you're right you shouldn't burry your head in the sand, get out there have fun but never allow yourself get too close to anyone it only ends in hurt and hardship. :P

maybe your right but then you miss out on what makes life worth living or more so who makes life worth living....and then all you left to do is grow old and die all alone never knowing what it is to be loved...to have someone care for your exsistence so much that without you theyre not whole....

....until you come together and become one

yeah...and thats love...no one said its a easy game to play but i think the good times weigh out the heart ache and saddness
its just part of been human

Originally posted by Doodee
err, that isn't love. thats dependance. which is a scary thing. Of course if you loved someone enough you would miss them when they are gone, but when it becomes a situation that you cant be without them then you are depending on them.

i do also understand what you mean by indendance...im not sayin you need to be running out looking for love so you dont die sad and alone but just to be open to it
azezil's point was youll be happy if you just shut yourself off to love so you dont get hurt after

But my point is you can have all good times if you just avoid love, it always ends in tears... unless u kill yourselfs when you've reached a state of pure happiness.

see thats the problem.
everyone has a different definition for love

so how do you know if you're actually in it?

Everything I posted prior to this was pure tripe, i was trolling :P

So anyway, i had a sit down this morning, though about someone i care deeply for and came up with this:

Love – when know the worst thing about a person and its ok, after that nothing else matters, you are free to share yourselves completely, you have nothing to hide.

To be with someone you can’t imagine ever being without, not because of a dependence on that person but because u can’t imagine ever being with anyone else.

You think of them when they are gone, not out of paranoia, but as a source of comfort, for when you think of them you see their image, remember a moment when you knew they were the one. When this person walks into a room your eyes light up a smile creeps onto your face, you feel joy building within you.
Someone you can trust implicitly, you don’t have to know where they are or what they’re doing all of the time for if you love them and you know they love you, you know there can be no other.

You can spend an eternity in each other’s arms, together forever forgetting all else.
Someone you would give your life for without hesitation, someone you could never stand to see hurt.

Their slightest touch or a look can have more meaning than a thousand words, words can be iterated by anyone but when one’s in love words are not need, you just know.

There’s nothing you wouldn’t do for a loved one.
Life can seem brighter, your outlook on the world changes, it’s as if nothing can phase you, everyday is a sunny one.
No matter what your circumstances you know you will prevail as long as you are together. The world can seem a perfect place when you are together.

If you truly love someone you know when to let go. For example if your feelings are not returned you may get sad but in the long term you still wish only the best for the person, you cannot stop loving someone, not if you truly loved them, love is eternal.

Loosing a loved one is like loosing a part of yourself, a void that can never be filled. You may not dwell on it but you will always feel their absence but their memory is enough to give you comfort even in your darkest hour.

***Hugz n kisses*** – azezil :P

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