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Should I be annoyed?

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  • #62
    thefallingman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,331 ✭✭✭thefallingman


    Good luck op



  • #63
    walshb
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,434 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    The woman had an affair with a married man. Can’t be trusted. Get rid, before you’re back where you started.



  • #64
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118810343#Comment_118810343

    Probably for the best - for her sake as well as yours.

    Good luck with the next one.



  • #65
    soundcrowd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 ✭soundcrowd


    No sorry, I'm protecting myself from here on in. Been far too passive in the past. Came back to bite me every single time.

    Putting myself first for the first time in my life. My acceptance level is up to me.



  • #66
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Yes it is, and you're perfectly entitled to do that.

    But, last piece of advice - remember that no one at this stage of life comes to a new relationship without a history and without baggage.

    And imo its not her baggage that has brought about the end of this relationship, but your own. Your lack of trust, your insecurities, from your own failed marriage that you never dealt with. Despite multiple posters (not just me) advising you not to "go nuclear" on her, that this could be saved. I just find it very sad that you describe such a wonderful, happy relationship in your OP, (a rare thing to find on this forum) but you're ending it without trying to fight for it. I hope you were kind, at least.

    I sincerely do hope you do get the help you need, and look back with no regrets, but have the decency to leave her be now to find someone who will love her unconditionally, now that you've made your mind up.



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  • #67
    soundcrowd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 ✭soundcrowd


    This seems to irk you so much that it comes across as being quite personal with you.

    I'm not getting into it here, but further information has come to light so my gut instinct was right and it was indeed a red flag. I was right to be annoyed.

    Not acceptable to me from where im concerned so that's really it bar the shouting.

    I'm out. There's things worth fighting for but not this.



  • #68
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 15,564 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    @soundcrowdAs you seem to have come to a conclusion I will lock the thread. This was your personal issue, and your relationship and nobody has the right to try somehow make you feel at fault for your feelings. As you have come to a decision there is little point in letting the thread run.

    I wish you well. Take care



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