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Mother and babies homes information sealed for 30 years

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,460 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    It's the RCC causing and coordinating all of this. FF/FG are just tools.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,768 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    Given the revelations here, in Canada, and now France, why are we not talking of shutting down this social terrorist organisation?

    Post edited by cnocbui on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,189 ✭✭✭Brucie Bonus




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,935 ✭✭✭✭Cluedo Monopoly


    Catherine Corless honoured by Red Cross for her work on Tuam babies (irishtimes.com)

    Catherine Corless honoured by Red Cross for her work on Tuam babies

    Historian’s work is the subject of a documentary to be broadcast this week

    The discovery attracted international attention and will be the subject of a documentary on ITV broadcast on Monday, The Missing Children, which will also be broadcast on RTÉ on Tuesday night.

    What are they doing in the Hyacinth house?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭mrslancaster


    Well deserved award, she was on rte radio recently talking about her book.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭mrslancaster



    wrong thread

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,596 ✭✭✭✭Atlantic Dawn
    GDY151


    Will the religious staff of these homes be chased until their deaths like those working in the Nazi death camps? If not why bother doing any additional investigations whatsover?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,460 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    Is there a statute of limitations on murder in Ireland?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 468 ✭✭Shao Kahn


    Or at the very least, confiscate most of their property and wealth and give it all back to the people of Ireland. (particularly the victims of these crimes against humanity)

    I can never understand why the RCC was still allowed to own so much land and nice big old houses etc, after all these scandals started coming out. They never got these things from the Vatican in Rome. It was the people of Ireland, many of them very poor themselves, who reached into their pockets and built up the power and wealth of these institutions!

    All of these religious institutions have collective blood on their hands. And there should be financial reparations paid for these crimes. "Sorry, that's our land. You can't build your children's hospital." Fcuk off!

    "Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives, and it puts itself into our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday." (John Wayne)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,460 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    In the recent French Catholic church child sexual abuse scandal - another example of scratch the RCC's surface and the festering boil of horrid behavior pops - https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118137080/#Comment_118137080 - the commission that did the investigation has urged the church to pay reparations using the proceeds from sales of Church assets rather than asking parishioners for extra donations. Imagine if we could do the same in Ireland.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 318 ✭✭RavenBea17b


    As vile as the RCC in the role of mother and baby homes, the Irish people were just as complicit. To deny this is to insult the women and wee babies and children again. My grandmother told me often that girls lived in fear of being sent into a home - and not just for fear of falling pregnant.

    Families could send a girl to the home on the say of father or poor abandoned wife at whim - or a jealous neighbour or farmer spreading lies and gossip, the local priest would get involved. How many times - until recent history did this happen. The local guard and priest acted as judge and for want of a better term executioner. If someone felt sorry for the girls and children, but if they tried to help in anyway, they were frowned upon by the others.

    Girls could be sent to the homes, because they were orphaned, or abused and fear of becoming morally corrupt. Unless someone signed you out of these homes you could be there for many years in some cases.

    A family good name was above everything else. The power the church, teachers and guards had over every day life was known and recognised, yet nothing in real terms changed until recently. How many can recall as school children, especially in a more rural background having to bring coal/turf to a school, yet if you couldn't, then singled out. Church donations weekly etc. Teachers severely beating children - usually poorer or from a background that was deemed they could get away with it. Whoa betide a farmers daughter or son getting a belt or strap that would mark them as they had someone with 'local standing' respected to query. If a child didn't have someone, well .......

    This is what I mean by Irish society of the time was complicit. The school worked in tandem with the church and vice versa.

    I know of one occasion in my own mother time at school in early 50's (rural Ireland), where a child was given such a such a clout (my mothers words), picked up by the hair and slapped across the head. This child was a particular scapegoat by account. When they got home, the mother noticed the mark on the face, but was too frightened to speak to the teacher. It was an older lady went to the teacher and commented to the priest.

    In no certain terms was she made aware that should she complain any further then her name would be called in the church.....Frightened, that is what they were. She knew that she would not win. The boy suffered from bad headaches after that and eventually left school. Sometime later, that master left the school.

    The mother and baby homes were discussed in the Dail on the 50's and 60's, the care and condition of the women and children.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,460 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    Umm... we're talking about the Tuam scandal here. Before the RCC apologists pile on, do tell us what you think about the Tuam scandal, the government's abject failure to compensate victims, the poorly done report, and the lack of progress on the coroner's investigation into the deaths? FWIW we're talking about the Tuam M&B home run by the Bon Secours religious order of the RCC. Hope that helps.

    Thanks.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,935 ✭✭✭✭Cluedo Monopoly


    The Missing Children is on at 10:15pm tonight on RTE 1

    What are they doing in the Hyacinth house?



  • Posts: 17,847 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The thread is about Mother and Baby homes, not just Tuam.

    RavenBea has said what a lot of us think. There were more to blame than the Church. Families and the society of the time also played a huge part.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,983 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    And especially the gutless men, who raped and impregnated young woman, and then ran away.



  • Posts: 17,847 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    No, no, no. They were all immaculate conceptions.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 318 ✭✭RavenBea17b


    I understood that this thread was about the homes in general - not just Tuam. Compensation - primarily is OWN IT. OWN and take responsibly. Apologies have been given, rightly so. But paperwork that was held in local county offices, that was sat gathering dust, that is not available openly is very sad.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,935 ✭✭✭✭Cluedo Monopoly


    For the 1000th time, nobody has denied that. Society was utterly warped at the time for many reasons. Why haven't you set up a thread to explore how/why families/society sent their children to these awful homes? You could create a thread on why babies born to unmarried parents were treated as "an inferior sub-species" as Enda Kenny put it. Or why the fathers weren't equally persecuted by the church/society? Is your argument somehow that 2 wrongs make a right or are you trying to dilute the blame to help validate your unquestioning allegiance?

    Michael Martin said: 'We had a completely warped attitude to sexuality and intimacy and young mothers and their sons and daughters were forced to pay a terrible price for that dysfunction. As a society we embraced judgementalism, moral certainty, a perverse religious morality and control which was so damaging.'

    But this thread is about the mother and baby homes and what happened to unfortunate women and their children in these homes (i.e. the forced/illegal adoptions for money, the mass graves, the cruelty & abuse, the horrendous mortality rates, the vaccine trials, the dying rooms, the destruction and forgery of records, the refusal to provide data to survivors, the non-cooperation of religious orders into investigations etc).

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    What are they doing in the Hyacinth house?



  • Site Banned Posts: 5,279 ✭✭✭political analyst


    It's possible that some parents believed they were doing the right thing for daughters pregnant outside marriage when they sent them to the mother-and-baby homes because they didn't believe their daughters would be able to cope with single motherhood.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,146 ✭✭✭uptherebels


    The only thing to blame for the church's atrocities is the church and it's members that facilitated said atrocities.

    You want to deflect blame from the church for its atrocities onto society, yet refuse to acknowledge the influence and control that the church had over that society. why is that?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,935 ✭✭✭✭Cluedo Monopoly


    Whatever the reason, it doesn't excuse the treatment within the homes. The horrors.

    What are they doing in the Hyacinth house?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Shebean


    You chime in with this every so often. Yet you won't hold the governments of the time nor Garda, Doctors etc. to account. You rush in to deflect to families. They were told the church was the leader in all that was heavenly and moral. So when they take an action, supported by the authorities, you want to blame the families for not stabbing the Doctor, Garda, Priest or politician? You want to accuse families of knowingly sending their children off to be abused for decades and their child sold from under them? Do you think the families knew what we only found out about in the last decades? We know the church and state authorities knew. Likely all the families knew was the church and state was going to look after their immoral, as per the church, problem.

    How about blame the church and state for five minutes before blaming the survivors.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 316 ✭✭Mikefitzs


    "Families and the society"? Families and the society were besieged by the church's power, everyone was afraid of the church, afraid they'd go to hell, afraid God wouldn't love them. They handed over every last penny to the church for salvation. The church is 100% to blame for the atrocities of the church. The church groomed society and should be held accountable. Thankfully they were too stupid to see what'd happen when they educated us beyond reading and writing.

    Just a passenger



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Shebean


    It's completely plausible that in doing what the church and state said, families thought they were doing right.

    We did not know about the monstrous and criminal behaviour of the animals in the church supported by the authorities until 20 or 30 years ago. And even now FF/FG/Church are covering it up.



  • Site Banned Posts: 5,279 ✭✭✭political analyst


    I doubt the parents of young unmarried mothers believed they'd be committing a sin by refusing to send their daughters to these institutions.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 316 ✭✭Mikefitzs


    100% agree. You can't blame a society that was groomed by fear. Total BS to even suggest it. 100% blame lies at the church's door and they should be held accountable by stripping them of their assets.

    Just a passenger



  • Site Banned Posts: 5,279 ✭✭✭political analyst


    Upcoming legislation will facilitate adopted people's right to access information about their births. The cat's out of the bag. So what is there left to hide?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Shebean


    They spent decades denying access and putting up roadblocks. The most recent whitewash and slow to act nature of FF/FG speaks volumes. If it wasn't for heroic private individuals we'd still be in the dark.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,983 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Yet some families didn't send their daughters, eg Peggy McCarthy (ref) - and I know others by name, too, who stood by their abused children.

    How come some families managed, and others didn't.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 316 ✭✭Mikefitzs


    Obviously they didn't fear the church as much as the church would have liked. Any further questions on this should be directed at your local bishop.

    Just a passenger



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