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Blindboy cancels himself.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 428 ✭✭Madeoface


    Can you not call anyone a spaz/spa no more?

    Hilarious.

    It was up there with the 'r u a Benny tied to a pole?' primary school vocabulary. Absolute nonsense a grown man didn't know what the word meant.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    The overreactions are to be expected. Some people have been reasonable in their criticism.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭HBC08


    Aren't you wokies supposed to be inclusive,understanding, respect other people's point of view,be kind yadda yadda?

    You get personal with posters you don't agree with ( I've noticed you throwing out the same insults every time) Are you excused from this because you're "calling it like it is"?

    It's seems a bit hypocritical, shallow and insincere ,a bit like blindboys non apology.

    For the record I don't mind blindboys and he had nothing to apologise for but he is gone up his own hole lately.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,937 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Aren't you wokies supposed to be inclusive,understanding, respect other people's point of view,be kind yadda yadda?

    No. That's what some people paint it as so they can try to act a particular way and not be called on it.

    What do you mean BB has gone up his own hole lately? Can you be specific?



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭HBC08




  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭CGI_Livia_Soprano
    Holding tyrants to the fire


    You should be embarrassed after that tirade. You made an absolute tit out of yourself.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,639 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    I really wish he could have just dedicated himself totally to the Trout Of No Craic and left it at that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭HBC08


    Ok buddy,you seem a bit wound up.

    Feel free to keep getting personal and throwing out the insults.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭HBC08


    I've only listened to maybe three podcasts, a few people recommended it to me.He just sounded a bit sanctimonious and well....not funny.

    That's my memory of it anyway.

    it wasn't for me.

    I liked some of the stuff he'd done earlier in his career.

    Also that statement re Spastic Hawk is disingenuous nonsense, I don't like the dishonesty of it,it's a bit cowardly.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 12,904 ✭✭✭✭Rothko




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,483 ✭✭✭✭MEGA BRO WOLF 5000




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,027 ✭✭✭✭breezy1985


    A fair bit of Flying Circus was a rebellion against stuffy old grey little Englanders and he does seem to have turned into one of those himself and not just on the censorship issue he just seems to be a moany bitter grump about everything



  • Registered Users Posts: 9,841 ✭✭✭buried



    Why did I think you were addressing me? Well, this is what you wrote directly underneath my point - "The reasons for ridiculing and despising them aren't important and like the poster above demonstrated, they aren't even consistent"

    Fair enough if you were talking about somebody else, but you never made it clear who you were discussing in the first place

    "You have disgraced yourselves again" - W. B. Yeats



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭growleaves


    First of all, anyone who make political statements in public instantly make enemies regardless of which 'side' they've picked.

    If you're giving out tiresome lectures on progressive right conduct there are going to be people waiting to stick the knife in yes. That is inevitable.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I have never really understood either the deep love or deep hate of Blindboy's stage character. Though it is comical the the "intellectual" effort of a rebuttal people throw at me when I defend him ever is of the calibre of saying things like "Go start a fan club" :) Some people and their sense of irony and self awareness I guess hehehe.

    As for the deep hate: I have posted on a few threads about him in the past - not because of any love for the guy himself but because something he said was being massively straw manned and I was more interested in arguing for the truth of what he actually said than I was in defending what he actually said. The main examples of this I can recall are:

    1) The meaning of the bag of glue song which contrary to claims (including on this very thread) was not about glorifying drug use but in fact the exact opposite.

    2) His recent appearance on TV - Claire Byrne I think it was - where he did not say half the things people attacked him on the Byrne thread for saying. And their efforts to attack the things he actually did say were deeply comical. Such as the guy who went off on one because Blindboy (accurately) described himself as an "artist".

    3) His Late Late appearance where he defined "Feminism" and then said why the thing he defined was a good thing - and then a cohort on boards attacked him for defending "feminism" - but offering their own definitions of what "feminism" means to do that attacking. In other words - straw man attacking what the guy once again never actually did or said.

    So I found myself defending the reality of what he actually said rather than whether I agreed with the content of what he actually said. Which sometimes I do. Sometimes I do not.

    As for the deep love: I can not recall him saying anything too special worthy of dedication or worship to be honest. I am certainly no devotee on any level.

    That said however I find myself recently working with young mostly males in a kind of "Jedi Academy" I founded. Problem males. And quite a few times when I identified some issues they had with mental health or depression or negative thinking - there was no resource I could point them to that they could realistically access or benefit from. Except some of Blindboy's podcasts where he detailed his own struggles and how he deals with them.

    And they genuinely did benefit from this. Sometimes they benefited from the suggestions Blindboy made about how to deal with those issues. Sometimes they simply benefited from hearing a relatively successful role model talk about the same issues they have. Not everything has to be about solutions. Sometimes hearing someone detail in long form conversation the same things you are feeling - and articulating it in ways different to how you have done so - can be a deep benefit.

    As such I do see him as a net positive in the world and in Ireland specifically. He is a resource I have been able to point to in my own work. He is causing zero harm I can see. He is giving benefit to some if not many - and he seems genuine enough in his concern to do so. All of which is much more than the keyboard warrior haters will ever be able to claim about their own influence on the world around them.

    So while I do not have a lot of time for him myself - overall I am glad he is out there doing what he is doing and I am in no position to second guess his claims for why he is doing it as people on the thread have been.

    On the subject of the thread itself, the OPs link does not work so I do not know what his statement was yet or why he felt the need to realise one. But I hate online "statements". If anyone knows of the "long form" version in his podcast where he explains the song - his feeling about the song - or his retrospective evaluation of the song - then link me to that episode so I can get the longer version of his thinking on the matter. I do not particularly want to trawl through 5 hours of recent episodes to find it :)



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    This struck me before when you mentioned you are in someway mentoring young lads in a "jedi academy", are you Garda vetted to work with young and vulnerable people and do you have any professional training to deal with their issues? Frankly, "here check out this podcast" doesn't sound like all that great a plan for people who may have deep issues.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Nope. And like you I would much prefer they were working with vetted professionals. But it simply was not happening - and everyone was suffering as a result. To the point where I simply could not stand by like everyone else any more and I felt compelled to do something about it. You will get no argument from me that anything I have been doing is some kind of wonderful ideal. It should have never come to this at all. But it did - and thankfully the result of my having stepped in/up has been remarkably positive and wonderful. In an alternate universe like in star trek the result was probably an even worse car crash. Who knows.

    So you are right it is not a "great plan". At all. But in the abscence of anything or anyone else helping out - it is useful that there is someone out there genuinely concerned about mental health issues - genuinely sharing their own experiences and personal journey towards coping - that I can point to that does appear to benefit the people who listen to it.

    None of that **** show is "ideal" but life is not an either or of "ideal" or "nothing at all". It is a continuum. And I would prefer to fall even a tiny bit closer to the "ideal" end of the continuum than simply do bugger all. There are times in my life where I make myself do nothing. There are times in my life where that fails and I feel compelled to do something. And I rarely do it without deep consideration and introspection and second and third guessing before I finally take action. So far so good. But sure - it might go entirely awry some day when I step up and later realise the world would have been better off if I had not!

    Actually in one of the podcasts I did listen to Blindboy said all of the above himself. That he gets feedback from people that his podcast has helped or that people referred others to his podcast to help. But while he genuinely feels positive about such feedback - the fact that the state of affairs is such that people need to turn to a guy with a plastic bag on his head as a resource for something there should already be multiple easily accessible resources for already - is a complete **** show. He himself laments the fact that anyone would require a podcast like his at all for that - as he is also barely qualified to be speaking on any of those topics (think he has something like 1 year of training on the subject before he dropped out to do art instead or something?).



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    No offence, but if you want to get involved helping kids, join or set up a local branch of a properly vetted organisation with appropriate supports and policies. What you're doing with no oversight (or training, or vetting etc) is part of the reason we have child protection laws. You are in no way qualified (from what I can see) to identify what mental issues the kids could face, and no way qualified to deal with any issues they may have, or any internal issues that may arise (one student injures another or bullies another or whatever).

    You may well be the second coming of Don Bosco or Robert Baden Powell but for your sake and the kid's sake, do it right.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,177 ✭✭✭Fandymo


    You are leaving yourself open to a serious lawsuit, or worse. There is a reason we have child protection laws and Garda vetting.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,164 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,164 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    the new stuffy old grey englanders are the so called woke brigade of which he is rebelling against



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    No offence taken - thanks for the input all - I will take it filed under "consideration". As I said as soon as more "ideal" solutions or paths become available or I become capable of implementing them or turning anything over to people who can do so - I will absolutely be doing so. Until such time however I will continue to be doing the best I can with the resources I have rather than do nothing at all.

    I do wonder how "vetted" or affiliated with established organisations some people are or are able to be when they start doing the work they do too. Random example that entered my recent consciousness would be someone like Jason Wilson in the US and his "Transformational Training Academy". Sometimes people just see other people in need and step up and help out.

    Anyway - apologies to all if this is a derailment of the thread topic.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Pretty sure he's leaving himself open to criminal prosecution if the Gardaí get wind of it. The Child Protection laws aren't there for the craic.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,177 ✭✭✭Fandymo


    I was thinking more along the lines of accusations of CSA, or legal action if a kid takes his own life and word gets back to the parents that they were part of an illegal “Jedi” academy that was offering “advice” on their mental state.



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Absolutely, the laws are there to protect the adults too.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Honestly if you want to continue with your group and don't want to come under the umbrella of any local or national organisation you'd be well advised to formalise your position somewhat, seek charitable status for your group and get vetted. you can add on any expertise you need after that but right now you should focus on what your legal standing is.



  • Posts: 2,725 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The idea that the local street urchins and corner boys were saved from a life of crime, addiction, and mental health issues by a little lad teaching the ways of the Jedi is just really funny. It’s an amusing mental picture.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Again apologies if we have derailed the topic of the thread here at all. It was not my intention.

    Everything is entirely informal now - in fact that I jokingly refer to it on boards as a "Jedi Acadamy" makes it sound more formal than it actually is and more of a thing than it actually is which might be the reason for the majority of your concern. In reality its just a load of people hanging out as friends - during which we happily share and impart some of our skills as we hang out - and if during that the friendships come to a point where like in any friendship someone opens up to me about something like a mental health issue or concern - then like I would with any other friend - I mention all the resources I know of that deal with that particular issue including - which is the only reason I mention this stuff at all - any blindboy podcast where I happen to know he discussed that particular issue.

    If it allays your concerns in any way on the legal front however - one of my girlfriends is in fact working in Law for near 10 years now mostly in an ongoing academic context (some real work in the field but mostly continual ongoing study along with lecturing and writing of papers and thesis or whatever it is legal people do, don't ask me hehehe) so Law and specifically Irish Law is very much her wheelhouse and were I engaged in anything of even moderate concern she would raise it with me before the next cock had a chance to dream about getting up for it's next crow. And in fact I know she lurks on boards and is likely reading this too.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,476 ✭✭✭✭Ush1


    You run a Jedi school and have a harem of girlfriends? Must listen to this Blindbag fella.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,219 ✭✭✭✭briany


    Blindboy says this on the podcast all the time - he's just a lad with a bag on his head, so before anyone goes taking anything he says too seriously, it's worth remembering that fact. His opinions on mental health, feminism, toxic masculinity and any other touchy subject for the Internet are mostly confined to his podcast. Occasionally he's asked to come on some programme and speak on something, but as he says himself, too often he's given just 5 or 10 minutes to talk about something fairly complex and therefore has to reduce it to its most basic form, so he's gradually shied away from doing it. So, now he's mainly just doing the podcast, which is easily avoidable if you don't like him.

    As for the term Spastic, yeah it would have been thrown about quite a bit back when he was in school (late 90s/early 2000s), It could be aimed at a person with disabilities, but also at the weird kid in school. Maybe by the time he wrote that song, usage of spastic for the latter category had disappeared from the lexicon of secondary school bullies, meaning it was now exclusively aimed at the former, but Blindboy wasn't aware of that fact. He was out of the loop with terms of abuse in schools being that he was in his 20s at the time.

    And he could of course just be trying to cover his arse with a clumsy public statement, but it's only fair to consider the other possibilities as well.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I think we can leave this at this point but the fact that you are describing these kids as "friends" already shows you are blurring the lines in the relationship imo. In reality you aren't (and shouldn't be) their friend if you are their mentor. It removes a level of objectivity you need to have if you are going to truly help them. Anyhow, good luck with it.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,177 ✭✭✭Fandymo


    His interview at the time shows that he knew exactly what spastic meant.



  • Registered Users Posts: 230 ✭✭bocaman


    I've not heard "r u a Benny tied to a pole?" in almost 40 years.

    The response: "No"

    Then: "Benny on the loose"

    Classic



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Two is hardly a harem. I do not run a school. Not really - I just jokingly call it that.

    Rather I have befriended a group who were - problematic in our locality - and I have been doing a set of things with them since. When trying to decide what to do with them I decided to imagine what a real world Jedi Curriculum would entail and I used that as inspiration for the activities I suggested. Since I have been training over a decade in a few things like close up magic and martial arts and meditation - it made sense. I also am in a relationship with a linguist with an interest in cultures - as well as knowing other martial arts people into things like knife and sword fighting - and so on.

    So a curriculum centred around Jedi - who are essentially just cultural ambassadors with close combat and sword skills - clicked in a pleasing way. The magical stuff like using the Force and mind control I of course can not teach them - but I can teach them pleasing illusion and mentalism magic that sometimes has similar effects :)

    So I latched on to it as a social structure rather than running any kind of actual school. In reality it is no more formal or structured than a man cave centred around football and DIY :) It's just a group of mates where some mates are teaching the other mates skills they have. Good luck to anyone trying to make a law suit stick to that :) If you made a group of mates and when deciding what to do together you jumped on - say - the name "Dead Poets Society" and that name inspired you in your choices of what to do with your mates - that's not really a structured school or system either. It's just mates doing stuff.

    But I think jokingly calling it a school/acadamy might have made it sound more formal and structured than it actually is - so I can see why it raises legal or social concerns that are in fact not really warranted - but very understandable. And as I said above I appreciate the concern and input even if I do not see it as applicable. That people care at all - is a good thing and I thank them for it.

    Which - returning to the thread topic which we keep derailing - I suspect Blindboy actually does. While I am once again no devotee of his - I find little reason not to take him at face value that he is as concerned about the welfare of people in Ireland as he claims to be. Jordan Peterson springs to mind there too. Often I find him boring and often he espouses absolute woo magical nonsense. But - I have seen him break down in real tears talking about the suffering of young people and for all his many faults I do not at all doubt his concerns and agenda are genuine too. I think Peterson and Blindboy deserve none of the extremes of hate or devotion they seem to attract. I reckon they are overall net positives in our world - even if they have an array of faults.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Again you will get little argument from me. Nothing about it is ideal and theres 100 ways I would have liked the world to work better than me stepping up and entering the life of people who were at that time total strangers. But none of those ideals were realistic or likely at the time. It is easy for us to compare the reality to the ideals - and I agree with nearly all you've said having done so. But at the time the reality compared to the ideals were not the choices before me. Rather it was the difference between my entering into action or inaction. So the context of my choices were different to our discussion here.

    I am someone who obsesses over and reevaluates every choice I make - so I can do little but assure you that I do the best I can with what I got and as soon as a better ideal realistically affords itself - I will access it every time. Other than that - as you say - best to leave it at that point but once again your input is genuinely appreciated as is everyone else's.

    Rogan's recent interview with Jason Wilson was very interesting but it is a shame that despite a 3 hour interview I think they did not really cover the ground you and I are covering in this conversation. I would love to find an intereview where Wilson discusses how he evaluated these concerns and the morality of stepping in to engage in action where in action would have been just as viable. I must re-listen though as I kind of speed listened to the interview at 2x speed and I think it genuinely deserves a closer listen.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,164 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    Ian Drury was asked to apologies back in the 70's but he refused and look at it now!!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,164 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 205 ✭✭Repo101


    There is a big difference between Jordan Peterson and Blindboy. One is a qualified clinical phycologist and the other is a grifter that wears a plastic bag over his head.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I have never seen anyone using the term grifter for him actually do or say anything to make the term stick. And I am someone who has always been of the opinion that "Calling something X does not magically turn it into X". So to be honest without seeing some adhesive - it is not worth commenting one way or another on the accusation I feel.

    Of course being a qualified psychologist is not mutually exclusive with being a grifter. It is not like it is either/or. I am just not seeing too much to suggest either of them deserve that term.

    As for them being different - yes they are different in multiple ways. But I was commenting on a single similarity I perceive between them. Pointing out a single similarity between X and Y is not to suggest X and Y are the same. They sky is blue and my shopping bag is blue - I do not think my shopping bag is the same as the sky :)

    The point I was making is that for all their faults and weird thinking on many subjects and ideas - they both appear _ to me _ at least to be genuine in their concern for the well being of others. Specifically but not solely the well being of young men. I could spend days sitting with Peterson telling him all the things he has said that I disagree with for example. But when he recently spoke about the effect he hopes his work has on young men - and he literally broke into tears while doing so - I personally believed him to be genuine. And whatever I might disagree with when it comes to anything Blindboy says I get the same feeling there too and other than "Call it X until it magically turns into X" enthusiasts I have not seen anyone coherently argue otherwise to be honest.

    As for the bag - I do not think I could possibly find it less relevant one way or the other. People like to make a thing of it - but I have yet to understand why.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,937 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Can I just point out that Blindboy never presents himself as anything other than what he is. He is aware of the perception of him because of the bag and he repeatedly states on his podcast that there are things around mental health that he is in no way qualified to speak on.

    What he does say about mental health is what he is experienced himself, and continues to experience, in relation to it. The empathy and simple language he uses when he talks about mental health probably resonates much more with listeners who have difficulty in this space than the massively generalised overview even someone like Peterson presents. When speaking about mental health, Jordan (and I think he is very highly qualified and capable) can sometimes sound like a fluid dynamics engineer talking about the physics of what is going on within a combustion engine when what most people want to know is why their car won't start or is making a funny noise. I expect that many people have benefitted from hearing Blindboy discuss it as he does whether it is on a dedicated episode, or just in passing on other ones. I've already pointed out on here the support mental health professionals expressed towards Blindboy when someone tried to dismiss him in a newspaper article a couple of months ago. (and as someone with a lot of experience of mental health illness, services, treatments etc, I've never heard him give false or misleading information)

    I'm not suggesting Blindboy should be listened to on mental health policy above suitably qualified people, but he should not be casually dismissed either as a grifter implying that he is spinning some yarn in order to make money. He has never presented himself as anything other than what he is, an entertainer who talks about sh*t in an unusual way.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 896 ✭✭✭DarkJager21


    The problem is he thinks spitting a word salad out makes him sound more intelligent and some of his listeners probably fall for it too. Just because you know big words doesn't mean you can effectively combine them to form an opinion. He's essentially putting on an act that is equivalent to an adult talking to someone they consider a bit thick and people lap it up.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I am generally deeply wary of any judgement of a public personality that is predicated on pretending to know what they think. The moment someone takes that approach - acting like they are some magical mind readers - I usually tune out.

    That said though - having only listened to his podcasts on mental health issues and no interest in any of his others - I have probably only listened to 10% of his podcast material. But of that small proportion the non-mind reading summary above does not describe anything I have listened to. I can think of no "word salad" - I can think of no failure to combine words into a coherent opinion - and I can think of no cases of the condescension or patronisation that is described.

    Not saying that this stuff does not happen in the 90% of stuff I have not listened to of course. How would I know? It just doesn't remotely track with anything I have heard myself. Not even a little. Perhaps you have some good example or citation or quotations or the like to show what it is you mean - with specifics on why you felt it problematic in the ways described?

    As for "lapping it up". I did briefly tune into his Twitch Stream where he makes live music Ad Libbed on the fly. Not something I could do of course - so I was impressed in at least that regard. But the fact remains that while that is mildly impressive he is producing amateur quality music of no real standard. The best I would describe it as is "fun". But his fans in the stream were certainly lapping it up describing it with all kinds of things like "Transcendent" and more while throwing chunks of money at him in the form of tips and subscriptions and more. He clearly does have some "lap anything he does up" following. But sure any moderately successful artist does I guess. So can hardly fault him or any artist for that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,937 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    This is a strawman argument because it is purely your opinion that he speaks in a particular way to make him sound more intelligent. Also, he doesn't actually use big words, but does try to very descriptive in his language which I find entertaining.

    He's essentially talking about a topic that interests him and giving his insight and experience of it and people have the knives out for him like he's trying to re-write the bible. He literally calls these discussions 'hot takes' which the literal definition of is 'a piece of commentary, typically produced quickly in response to a recent event, whose primary purpose is to attract attention.' He's not trying to do anything other than entertain people.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭FFVII


    I'm falling behind, I haven't a clue what this cancel woke crack is about



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,741 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    there's no such thing, it definitely doesn't exist, especially not on twitter



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