Why is alcohol and drug use seen as "sexy"....?

I think the point I was making was, trying to find that "wave state" (aka flow state - as waves flow - quelle suprise), can so often be degenerative in itself.

i.e. getting "fucked up" = more "wave like", more chilled, more easy going, more approachable etc., but as outlined above, can so often make folk look insanely foolish, not to mentioned health implications.

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Obviously there's also certain stigma associated with "drinking alone".

See I notice in groups, such as at a venue/bar etc., that uplifting mood elevation or kind of collective energy, that in itself also seems to assist with achieving that dissociative "wave state".

So that, in conjunction with an additional effector like alcohol = pretty much the basis of socialization in Ireland.

And - "live for the weekend" - many people just grind out the working week for those dissociative Fri/Sat nights getting shit faced in the "da pub".

i.e. attaining that "wave state", care free, unburdened, almost a means to decompress, and naturally that's the time when the average dude/gal is gonna try and get laid.

= we must embody the wave state to have decent sex.

"Let's get crazy tonight!!"

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Therefore, alcohol/drug use = "sexy" (i.e. the closest association the common person has with getting laid or embodying a state where they can experience that dissociative intimacy).....