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What do you desire in a partner?

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    #32
    Signore Fancy Pants
    Registered Users Posts: 3,686 ✭✭✭Signore Fancy Pants


    Treseemme. wrote: »
    This is my thread

    6 tits?


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    #33
    billyhead
    Registered Users Posts: 9,681 ✭✭✭billyhead


    A pulse.


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    #34
    Treseemme.
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 124 ✭✭Treseemme.


    Ok I'll answer this;

    Lust

    Presence

    Desire



    In other words attraction


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    #35
    completedit
    Registered Users Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭completedit


    POWER
    PACE
    AND
    DESIRE


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    #36
    dzsfah2xoynme9
    Closed Accounts Posts: 326 ✭✭dzsfah2xoynme9


    Signore Fancy Pants wrote: »
    3 tits

    Get your ass to Mars..


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    #37
    touts
    Registered Users Posts: 6,459 ✭✭✭touts


    Road Frontage.


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    #38
    Treseemme.
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 124 ✭✭Treseemme.


    Ok so only some people see it

    When you desire you see beyond physicality to attraction and lust


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    #39
    Surreptitious
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    Someone with a username for a shampoo


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    #40
    ShatterAlan
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    Treseemme. wrote: »
    For me the number one thing is sexuality

    It means a lot of things

    Attractive, interesting , beautiful all those things


    Not somebody like you.


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    #41
    Treseemme.
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 124 ✭✭Treseemme.


    ShatterAlan wrote: »
    Not somebody like you.

    Not to you no


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    #42
    Your Face
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    A rifle.


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    #43
    Hamsterchops
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    Giant knockers.


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    #44
    Signore Fancy Pants
    Registered Users Posts: 3,686 ✭✭✭Signore Fancy Pants


    Treseemme. wrote: »
    Not to you no

    7 tits. Final offer


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    #45
    Purple Mountain
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    touts wrote: »
    Road Frontage.

    I'm a double D, will that suffice?

    To thine own self be true



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    #46
    AllForIt
    Registered Users Posts: 8,328 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Nothing.


    I think being in love is to be attracted to someone for your own personal unknown unknowable reasons.


    I never make any demands off anyone when it comes to personal sexual relationships.


    You can't know a person in advance before you've ever met them because everyone is unique - so how could you have expectations in a partner then?


    I think it's a bit cold and clinical to have tick boxes for a person you desire to be with, someone you haven't even met yet.


    Humans are a combination of looks, personality, values I suppose, etc. You'd never know in what combinations those things would work for you. So I think it's a bit pointless in, as I said , using tick boxes.


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    #47
    1874
    Registered Users Posts: 2,384 ✭✭✭1874


    Esse85 wrote: »
    That's she's attractive to me, has similar values, has some common interests/hobbies, brings out the best in me.


    I think thats Compatibility poster,
    I'll add looks after themself healthwise, can manage their own finances, isn't constantly distracted by their phone/social media, not a gossiper.


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    #48
    Strumms
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    Mutual attraction.

    Sense of humor.

    Loyalty.

    Intelligence.

    Good dress sense.

    Socially outgoing.

    Personally easygoing but not a doormat.

    Ambitious.. personal and in professional life.

    Knows how to separate work and personnel life, again not being a doormat.


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    #49
    coffee_cake
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    Surreptitious wrote: »
    Someone with a username for a shampoo

    I don't think it would be very effective though. No suds


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    #50
    Mr. CooL ICE
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    Treseemme. wrote: »
    Lust

    Presence

    Desire
    completedit wrote: »
    POWER
    PACE
    AND
    DESIRE

    FIRE IN THE DISCO


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    #51
    touts
    Registered Users Posts: 6,459 ✭✭✭touts


    Purple Mountain wrote: »
    I'm a double D, will that suffice?

    Arrah sure I'd have to put you and those auld Double Ds out working the streets every night of the week before you'd earn enough to be better than good road frontage.


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    #52
    Lirange
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    Sense of humour
    Authenticity
    Passionate interests (even if we don’t share all of them)
    Shared values
    Independent
    Sensuality (ie sexuality+romance)
    And...must be a brown eyed brunette. There are already enough Von Trapp looking mugs in my family tree.

    Somehow I managed all of these. Eventually. But I admit that beforehand I was fixated too much on the last two. And maybe the first. I had to get lucky to acquire a full appreciation of the others. And luck...or chance does play a role. We only found each other after I had nearly given up.


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    #53
    [Deleted User]
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    Good-spirited (kind, optimistic, even tempered etc.), funny, smart and loyal. Above that someone who isn't afraid to admit they're wrong (or tell me when I am!) and who doesn't get scared of grown up conversations.


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    #54
    [Deleted User]
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    Compatibility. But it can take quite a while to find that out.


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    #55
    Piehead
    Registered Users Posts: 472 ✭✭Piehead


    Big juicy baps and a tight vajeen that doesn’t resemble a punched lasagne


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    #56
    kat86d
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    Someone who has a good of humour. Is not easily offended or too PC. A northern or Kerry accent. Loves music. Optimistic and self empowed.


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    #57
    dzsfah2xoynme9
    Closed Accounts Posts: 326 ✭✭dzsfah2xoynme9


    Mr. CooL ICE wrote: »
    FIRE IN THE DISCO

    FIRE IN THE TACO BELL...


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    #58
    mariaalice
    Registered Users Posts: 12,412 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    The tick list is nonsense.

    I know this drives people mad but when you meet the right person you just know it's not romantic or love at first sight, it's more spiritual or cosmic or something.

    A significant number of people will tell you they knew within a few hours of meeting the person( obviously they didnt say that to the person not wanting to scare them off like:p)

    This is an excellent example from chef Tom Kerridge.

    "My wife Beth’s first words to me were, “Will you give me £3 for the stripper?” I was 24 and working as a chef de partie in Soho, when one of my best mates dragged me out to a pub to celebrate his brother’s birthday. Beth was doing a collection for the stripper she had ordered and we hit it off immediately. We knew early on that what we had was special and she asked me to marry her at 1am in Leicester Square just six weeks after we met. I hadn’t seen it coming, but I didn’t hesitate to say yes."


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    #59
    fmpisces
    Registered Users Posts: 888 ✭✭✭fmpisces


    Someone legless.
    Not the drunk variety.....just so he couldn't run away :D

    Agree with the post above mine. I feel it's a case of when you know, you know. There's no words to describe how you feel or WHY you feel the way you do. Ah I'm an auld romantic so someone like me....but male :P


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    #60
    CruelCoin
    Registered Users Posts: 4,468 ✭✭✭CruelCoin


    Intelligence
    Independence
    Similar social/political outlook

    Big tits help. Anything else is window dressing that you look for in a ****buddy, and not in a partner.


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    #61
    McGinniesta
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    Sometimes in life someone will point something really obvious to you. Something that you've somehow managed to overlook.

    It was pointed out to me that I have a very definite "type". This person was dead right in what they were saying when I look back.

    Nearly every girlfriend that I've ever had have all had very similar "physical feature" very similar heights, hair colour, etc and wasnt planned in any way

    Is this a thing for everyone or just me


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