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Would you date a bisexual woman?

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  • 28-11-2020 6:15pm
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    mr_fegelien
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭


    Being bisexual is stigmatized moreso among men than women. I wonder what you'd think of dating one.

    There's a belief that bisexual people are more likely to cheat which is false.


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    walshtipp
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    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    Being bisexual is stigmatized moreso among men than women. I wonder what you'd think of dating one.

    There's a belief that bisexual people are more likely to cheat which is false.

    No, I would probably not date one. They possibly are more inclined to cheat because of being attracted to both genders, more temptation. I'm no expert though.


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    accensi0n
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    They're twice as likely to cheat.


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    The Continental Op
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    Only if I could date her bisexual partner at the same time.

    Wake me up when it's all over.



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    The Mighty Quinn
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    accensi0n wrote: »
    They're twice as likely to cheat.

    Surely it just means they've twice the options of cheatee if they decide to be cheaters.

    Would imagine it makes them no more or less likely to actually cheat?


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    Esse85
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    Depends how hot she was.


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    The Mighty Quinn
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    I'd imagine also that many men would be a little enticed by the more favourable possibility of a mff threesome


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    mr_fegelien
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    walshtipp wrote: »
    No, I would probably not date one. They possibly are more inclined to cheat because of being attracted to both genders, more temptation. I'm no expert though.

    That's false no? Someone who casts a wider net of attraction doesn't mean they have an increased temptation to cheat.


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    walshtipp
    Registered Users Posts: 333 ✭✭walshtipp


    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    That's false no? Someone who casts a wider net of attraction doesn't mean they have an increased temptation to cheat.

    It depends on the person.


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    Smee_Again
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    I am, doesn’t bother me at all. She picked me over everyone else, I’m doubly special.

    Let’s be honest if a woman wants to cheat she can do so without much effort so the idea that a bisexual woman is more likely to cheat is bollox.


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    Paul Weller
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    I have dated a bisexual woman...it was great, when we were together there were no issues of either of us looking at other women..... relationship just came to a natural conclusion when she moved away


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    circadian
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    walshtipp wrote: »
    No, I would probably not date one. They possibly are more inclined to cheat because of being attracted to both genders, more temptation. I'm no expert though.

    Absolute nonsense. I'm bisexual, as is my wife. Neither of us have cheated on one another. I don't know anyone that is more inclined to cheat based on their sexuality. Morality and personal choice plays a much larger part.


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    walshtipp
    Registered Users Posts: 333 ✭✭walshtipp


    circadian wrote: »
    Absolute nonsense. I'm bisexual, as is my wife. Neither of us have cheated on one another. I don't know anyone that is more inclined to cheat based on their sexuality. Morality and personal choice plays a much larger part.

    I don't think your wife would tell you if she cheated. That's kind of the whole point.


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    accensi0n
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    The Mighty Quinn wrote: »
    Surely it just means they've twice the options of cheatee if they decide to be cheaters.

    Would imagine it makes them no more or less likely to actually cheat?

    Was just joking. Look at who the OP is, the whole thread is already a joke by default.


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    eviltwin
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    walshtipp wrote: »
    I don't think your wife would tell you if she cheated. That's kind of the whole point.

    I’d never cheat on my husband and I say that as someone more attracted to women than men. If you’re the kind of person who cheats then you’ll cheat. Sexual orientation doesn’t come into it.


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    The Continental Op
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    eviltwin wrote: »
    I’d never cheat on my husband and I say that as someone more attracted to women than men. If you’re the kind of person who cheats then you’ll cheat. Sexual orientation doesn’t come into it.

    I think you have it there 100%. Some people will cheat others won't. I've had a few opportunities but at the time didn't even realize them for what they were.

    tbh its hard enough to have one partner so I can't see the point of trying to balance two at the same time - despite my earlier comment :pac:

    Wake me up when it's all over.



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    JustAThought
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    eviltwin wrote: »
    I’d never cheat on my husband and I say that as someone more attracted to women than men. If you’re the kind of person who cheats then you’ll cheat. Sexual orientation doesn’t come into it.

    I don’t agree with you - if your appetite streatches into something you are attracted to and your partner does not have the basix equipment to ehem deliver the good then I would imagine yu would be more likely to feel the loss/need and cheat to scratch that itch.


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    gigantic09
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    Paul Weller wrote: »
    I have dated a bisexual woman...it was great, when we were together there were no issues of either of us looking at other women..... relationship just came to a natural conclusion when she moved away



    By any chance was she called 'the jam'?. 😊


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    Saralace
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    Would a sex change be involved


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    eviltwin
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    JustAThought wrote: »
    I don’t agree with you - if your appetite streatches into something you are attracted to and your partner does not have the basix equipment to ehem deliver the good then I would imagine yu would be more likely to feel the loss/need and cheat to scratch that itch.

    Either you trust someone or you don’t. I’ve never cheated on a partner and never would, I don’t think with my libido and have more respect.


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    Minime2.5
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    The Continental Op wrote: »
    Only if I could date her bisexual partner at the same time.

    So your bisexual too then?


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    The Continental Op
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    Minime2.5 wrote: »
    So your bisexual too then?

    While its my native language I sometimes fail it at but by my logic - no and by any other logic I could be wrong 50% of the time.

    Wake me up when it's all over.



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    [Deleted User]
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    I'm a bisexual male, and I've never cheated. Plenty of opportunities to cheat, but it's never appealed to me. People who cheat are likely to cheat again, and again. There's an addictive aspect to it, and I have enough addictions as it is. :D

    OP, I have dated bisexual men/women, and I had no problems with them. I've had more problems with heterosexual partners, TBH.


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    mr_fegelien
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭mr_fegelien


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I'm a bisexual male, and I've never cheated. Plenty of opportunities to cheat, but it's never appealed to me. People who cheat are likely to cheat again, and again. There's an addictive aspect to it, and I have enough addictions as it is. :D

    OP, I have dated bisexual men/women, and I had no problems with them. I've had more problems with heterosexual partners, TBH.

    What has your experience dating straight women been? I kind of feel that many wouldn't be keen about dating a bi-guy.


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    [Deleted User]
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    Have we figured out yet if Mr. Fegelien is actually a Boards-bot designed to create discussion? I mean look at the post history. Four "interesting" topics in the last 24 hours alone. Date an alcoholic, visit an escort, sex overrated, bisexual dating, would you save a woman, minimum wage enough to live on, vasectomies, using drugs at work, dating in the workplace, LGBT people getting disowned, travelling to asia as a 'non-white', God discussion.. just seems like a trawled net of 'popular topics' discussions.


    I'm growing more suspicious as the days pass...

    Don't get me wrong - more interesting than anything I post, but still...


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    #26
    Rubberchikken
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    If you were bisexual you'd hardly need to date;)


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    Galwayguy35
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    Sure I would.

    The subject appeared on the site a few years ago and surprisingly quite a few women said they wouldn't date a bisexual man.


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    Kraftwerk
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    I'll date anyone that'll have me.


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    skooterblue2
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    I'm a bisexual male, and I've never cheated. Plenty of opportunities to cheat, but it's never appealed to me. People who cheat are likely to cheat again, and again. There's an addictive aspect to it, and I have enough addictions as it is. :D

    OP, I have dated bisexual men/women, and I had no problems with them. I've had more problems with heterosexual partners, TBH.

    People who cheat are someway deficient, they cannot feel fulfilled in a normal relationship due to some deep issue.


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    breezy1985
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    I have done. It was the same as a straight woman except maybe there was less not more talk of a 3some from her than any straight GF I had


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    EICVD
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    walshtipp wrote: »
    No, I would probably not date one. They possibly are more inclined to cheat because of being attracted to both genders, more temptation. I'm no expert though.

    Someone has trust issues


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