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Unsure as to whether I trust my GF or not

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  • #32
    TheBoyConor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,292 ✭✭✭TheBoyConor


    In other words if she is a doormat and appeases his demands.

    I couldn't disagree more. I think the writing is on the wall and they need to pull the plug and start living their lives the way 22 year olds are supposed to.


  • #33
    H8GHOTI
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭H8GHOTI


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    It's not inappropriate unless the nature of their ccombination is inappropriate now...

    Unless the nature of their communication is inappropriate now?

    You think “James” has innocent intentions? He is not just some platonic friend. His most recent message he was asking for a pic. Told her she was stunning. Her reply was positive encouragement to keep the compliments coming.

    Seriously, how many people would be fine if they were in this situation themselves? Watching a movie with your partner & snap arrives.

    “Who’s that?”
    “Ah never mind, just someone I swapped nudes with”


  • #34
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    H8GHOTI wrote: »
    Unless the nature of their communication is inappropriate now?

    You think “James” has innocent intentions? He is not just some platonic friend. His most recent message he was asking for a pic. Told her she was stunning. Her reply was positive encouragement to keep the compliments coming.

    Seriously, how many people would be fine if they were in this situation themselves? Watching a movie with your partner & snap arrives.

    “Who’s that?”
    “Ah never mind, just someone I swapped nudes with”

    I do think some people on this thread have been a bit harsh on me to be quite honest, particularly TheBoyConor.

    This reply has probably been the best one.


  • #35
    TheBoyConor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,292 ✭✭✭TheBoyConor


    I'm sorry for being harsh. I don't mean to be rude.

    It's just I spent my entire twenties in a brutal, toxic horrible controlling relationship that caused me so much stress and changed my life and when I finally got out I went into a relatively normal but still controlling relationship. It has left me with no faith in relationships and a complete aversion to anything with even a hint of being more than a temporary fling. My views on relationships are skewed against them as to me they have been a relentless series of abuses.


  • #36
    Tork
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,606 ✭✭✭Tork


    If your view of relationships is so warped, maybe you shouldn't be advising other people against being in them.


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