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Essentials to have before babys arrival

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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Hi can I ask are these different to normal monitors? Due our first in May and this is something I have an anxiety about, like all parents I suppose! Do these ones clip onto the baby and detect movement or something?

    The pad has an alarm that goes off if the baby doesn't take a breath within 10seconds lf their last breath (or similar, not 100% sure of the time interval).

    We didn't have one ourselves,but a few friends we know did.Seemed fine although there were a lot of complaints about forgetting about the alarm and setting it off in the middle of the night when they lifted the baby out to change them or whatever :-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    I actually remember someone in work saying they had a clip on monitor... It worked by battery or something.

    They said it fell off a fair bit, then when they had their second replacement battery was very expensive so they didn't bother!

    No experience with them myself though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    We had the angel monitor pad too. We thought it was great until we realised it basically doesn't work.

    If your house is in anyway shaky or your floors are in anyway soft it won't go off because it'll pick up footsteps across the floor as being baby breathing. Or for instance if you're using a next to me, movement in the bed will delay the sensor triggering. We realised when we lifted baby out and it took 2 minutes to go off. It did go off straight away sometimes, usually when we forgot to switch it off and least wanted it to. I think it's really only reliable on solid concrete floors.

    The owlet sock seems to have superseded it as the breathing monitor of choice. I haven't used one myself so dont know how good or bad it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    shesty wrote: »
    The pad has an alarm that goes off if the baby doesn't take a breath within 10seconds lf their last breath (or similar, not 100% sure of the time interval).

    We didn't have one ourselves,but a few friends we know did.Seemed fine although there were a lot of complaints about forgetting about the alarm and setting it off in the middle of the night when they lifted the baby out to change them or whatever :-)

    Yup, many a night we set it off doing that!

    Also if you have a squirrel for a baby like I do..... He curls in a tight ball right against the railings, seriously he'll squeeze himself out some night.... The monitor will go off as the baby needs to be somewhat on it/close to the pad.

    If does have a night light on it too, which is handy for night feeding.. Though he had it on all night for the first... Not so much on the second :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,818 ✭✭✭jlm29


    I actually remember someone in work saying they had a clip on monitor... It worked by battery or something.

    They said it fell off a fair bit, then when they had their second replacement battery was very expensive so they didn't bother!

    No experience with them myself though.

    Think that one is called a snooza? It monitors the baby and alarms if baby stops breathing, but isn’t like a baby monitor you would hear the baby on from another room.


  • Registered Users Posts: 154 ✭✭kastasia


    I got one of those angelcare monitors as a present from my friends (they asked me before) but i never used it. We did set it up on the cot when we moved him from moses basket but just never used it and then put it back in the box. Expecting again so maybe we'll use it this time. I had to lie to my friends about it though...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,889 ✭✭✭Third_Echelon


    We used the Angelcare monitor too for our first and now our second. Gives great peace of mind.

    It does give some false positives, but once you set it up correctly with the wooden 'plank' underneath it, I found it worked perfectly. I just tested it every so often to make sure it was working. Always went off within 20 seconds when I tested it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Think we will look into the Angelcare monitor so. Have most of the "big ticket" items now - travel system including car seat, pram and buggy for newborn up to about 3 years I think. We bought a side cot, so obviously coming up to 6 months we will need to get a proper one, but wanted a side cot as planning to breastfeed. Wasn't really sure about clothes. We have a good mix of 0-3 and 3-6 months sleepsuits, vests and then a couple of cute little outfits I couldn't resist. Mostly stuck with the sleepsuits, babygrows and vests. Also have in two weeks supply of nappies and water wipes, as well as about 10 muslin cloths, 2 grobags and several bibs.

    Will focus on the hospital bag this weekend and try to get that sorted. Then the usual feeding paraphernalia.

    I keep thinking there is something big we are missing! :D:pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    Antares35 wrote: »

    I keep thinking there is something big we are missing! :D:pac:

    The baby! :)

    Sounds like you have everything under control :)

    Maybe look into a steriliser just encase you need to go the bottle route, don't need to buy it now obviously, but have one picked out that if you do need it, it can be bought immediately.

    If you are near IKEA they do big freezer bags. I packed vest, babygro and maybe a nappy into a few bags (I had the nappies packed separately too).

    That way the dad just had to pull one freezer bag out and the whole outfit was ready to go..... The last thing you need after birth is the dad emptying the bag out looking for stuff and annoying you asking where its packed :)

    I then sent the dirty clothes home with him in the freezer bag, to keep our items around the bed at a minimum.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    The baby! :)

    Sounds like you have everything under control :)

    Maybe look into a steriliser just encase you need to go the bottle route, don't need to buy it now obviously, but have one picked out that if you do need it, it can be bought immediately.

    If you are near IKEA they do big freezer bags. I packed vest, babygro and maybe a nappy into a few bags (I had the nappies packed separately too).

    That way the dad just had to pull one freezer bag out and the whole outfit was ready to go..... The last thing you need after birth is the dad emptying the bag out looking for stuff and annoying you asking where its packed :)

    I then sent the dirty clothes home with him in the freezer bag, to keep our items around the bed at a minimum.

    Oh yes her! :D Amazing how someone so small can create such chaos :o

    That's a great idea about the freezer bags. Someone in work is kindly gifting me their steriliser, though I was tempted to pick up some of those self sterilising bottles you can put in the microwave, especially if we are going to travel (his family are living abroad).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Oh yes her! :D Amazing how someone so small can create such chaos :o

    That's a great idea about the freezer bags. Someone in work is kindly gifting me their steriliser, though I was tempted to pick up some of those self sterilising bottles you can put in the microwave, especially if we are going to travel (his family are living abroad).

    I've no experience of the self sterilising bottles, I think they either came on the market after my first or else I didn't come across them. I had woeful pregnancies so shopping was a nightmare.

    I still use the freezer bags for changes of clothes when we are out and about, very handy. I think they are 6L so hold a full outfit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    I still use the freezer bags for changes of clothes when we are out and about, very handy. I think they are 6L so hold a full outfit.

    Great for storing any poonami wreaked closed when you are out as well!


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    bee06 wrote: »
    Great for storing any poonami wreaked closed when you are out as well!

    I did not think this through :pac::pac:

    I saw "wet bags" in TKMaxx but remember thinking, sure you could just use a plastic one. Paying a tenner for a design. (They are cute though!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,818 ✭✭✭jlm29


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Oh yes her! :D Amazing how someone so small can create such chaos :o

    That's a great idea about the freezer bags. Someone in work is kindly gifting me their steriliser, though I was tempted to pick up some of those self sterilising bottles you can put in the microwave, especially if we are going to travel (his family are living abroad).

    If you plan on beadtfeeding, hold off on buying bottles, or at least more than one of any type. It’s sometimes tricky to get a breastfed baby to take a bottle and sometimes you’ll need to shop around to find one they like


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    Maybe pack a facecloth for the birth.

    I didn't on my first and didn't need or want one. However a day or so before the birth of my second, my sister mentioned how she loved having a cold facecloth on her face during the birth.

    I thought no more about it, until during the birth when suddenly having a cold facecloth seemed like the best and most important idea ever... Except I didn't pack one.... Ended up with a maternity pad on my forehead... Ffs dignity well and truly at the door :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,441 ✭✭✭NSAman


    Grandparents,,,essential to throw the new baby at now and again..;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Oh yes her! :D Amazing how someone so small can create such chaos :o

    That's a great idea about the freezer bags. Someone in work is kindly gifting me their steriliser, though I was tempted to pick up some of those self sterilising bottles you can put in the microwave, especially if we are going to travel (his family are living abroad).

    Haven’t used the self sterilizing bottles but the Milton travel sterilizer is dead handy for the odd bottle for a breast fed baby/traveling/pacifiers/teething toys/pump parts. They have it in alot of supermarkets and boots.

    https://www.boots.ie/milton-microwave-and-cold-water-sterlising-travel-unit-10137441


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 850 ✭✭✭Cakerbaker


    If the baby is healthy and full term, you don’t need to sterilize bottles for breast milk or pump parts. A good wash in hot soapy water, rinse and dry.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭scarepanda


    I also use zip lock bags to store the nappies, sitting at the top of the changing bag just under the wipes! I hate when they are loose and always like having an emergency supply on hand so never leave with only 1 or 2 nappies.

    I have a little roll of dog poo bags in the nappy bag as my supply of bags for dirty nappies/clothes. It's so handy and small so takes up so little room in an already packed bag!


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Maybe pack a facecloth for the birth.

    I didn't on my first and didn't need or want one. However a day or so before the birth of my second, my sister mentioned how she loved having a cold facecloth on her face during the birth.

    I thought no more about it, until during the birth when suddenly having a cold facecloth seemed like the best and most important idea ever... Except I didn't pack one.... Ended up with a maternity pad on my forehead... Ffs dignity well and truly at the door :)

    :D:D:D


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    NSAman wrote: »
    Grandparents,,,essential to throw the new baby at now and again..;)

    Unfortunately we are not on speaking terms at present. It is a long story. I hope that we can find a reconciliation before the baby arrives. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,818 ✭✭✭jlm29


    Maybe pack a facecloth for the birth.

    I didn't on my first and didn't need or want one. However a day or so before the birth of my second, my sister mentioned how she loved having a cold facecloth on her face during the birth.

    I thought no more about it, until during the birth when suddenly having a cold facecloth seemed like the best and most important idea ever... Except I didn't pack one.... Ended up with a maternity pad on my forehead... Ffs dignity well and truly at the door :)

    I was reading through your post thinking “face cloth!, I’m sure I had a maternity pad slapped on my forehead. Then I got to the end, glad it wasn’t just me!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    Antares35 wrote: »
    :D:D:D

    I know!!!! :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭DAT64


    I’m a new mum and a few simple things come to mind. We didn’t have time to be running and racing to pick things up and these were things we needed soon after coming home.
    Thermometer
    Cotton wool pads for changing bum if not using wipes
    Bepanthan or similar to manage nappy rash - our little girl got one very soon after she was born.
    A basket to bring to bed every night - what I mean is - we have a two storey house so to save going up and down.... bring all the bits and bobs you’ll need to see you through the night and bring it back down following morning.... bottles, dummy, food for picking during night, water bottle, medicine if needed, phone charger etc -
    Clothes hangers - most clothes do come with hangers but some don’t and it’s easier to know what clothes baby has by hanging them up rather than folding - ikea do lovely wooden white baby ones
    I’m sure I’ll think of more as the days go on :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,471 ✭✭✭CheerLouth


    Arnica tablets for after the birth - great for any swelling or bruising.


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