I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 9)

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-01-2020 03:13PM

I love gifteds life advice

Guy, he’s right! Better to find out now before you invest more time into the “wrong” one!! You’re a great lad, so hold out for the best.
Just home from boxing class. Now we’re sucking diesel. That’s my kinda vibe.

gifted · 12-01-2020 03:20PM

Renata Nutritious Refrigerator wrote: »

I love gifteds life advice
Guy, he’s right! Better to find out now before you invest more time into the “wrong” one!! You’re a great lad, so hold out for the best.
Just home from boxing class. Now we’re sucking diesel. That’s my kinda vibe.

Hush Shoes....I'm working on your neck as we speak....you get your hair done lately???..... aw feck it, I'm dropping the hand all over ya.....lol lol

Kitty6277 · 12-01-2020 03:23PM

Sorry to hear that Guy, but like others have said, the right one will come along and that’s worth waiting for.

Duvet, I hope your dad’s feeling better today and hopefully your shenanigans can be rescheduled

I’m armchair-side with a cuppa at the moment

12-01-2020 03:24PM

Sephiroth_dude wrote: »

Out in Lee valley for lunch , the macroom crowd just came in there with their big thick cork country accents ðŸ˜›

You wont believe this that's where we went last Sunday lol.. I didn't really like it.And yes definitely a country crowd, enjoy.

Spent over 3 hours having breakfast, every one getting lunches around us in the end,sorted the world out and had a great laugh as usual, best friends ever.

Ted_YNWA · 12-01-2020 03:29PM

Sephiroth_dude wrote:

Out in Lee valley for lunch , the macroom crowd just came in there with their big thick cork country accents ðŸ˜›

Banned for mocking country folk

:pac:

Having a bit of lunch & wondering what to do for the day.

Sephiroth_dude · 12-01-2020 03:34PM

Deleted User wrote: »

You wont believe this that's where we went last Sunday lol.. I didn't really like it.And yes definitely a country crowd, enjoy.

Spent over 3 hours having breakfast, every one getting lunches around us in the end,sorted the world out and had a great laugh as usual, best friends ever.

Ya it's only alright, won't be rushing back here 😏

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

Banned for mocking country folk

:pac:

Having a bit of lunch & wondering what to do for the day.

😝😝

Autosport · 12-01-2020 03:39PM

Beachside enjoying the sun

Ted_YNWA · 12-01-2020 03:42PM

Autosport wrote:

Beachside enjoying the sun

Fairly bracing there I'd say.

Autosport · 12-01-2020 03:43PM

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

Fairly bracing there I'd say.

I'll take a pic, it's a bit breezy but still warm

Jordan 199 · 12-01-2020 03:46PM

Autosport wrote: »

Beachside enjoying the sun

Did you bring a copy of Autosport to read?

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-01-2020 03:48PM

On my way to get my hair done

seriously! Just realised why gifted is called gifted... future seeing

12-01-2020 04:12PM

Jordan 199 wrote: »

Did you bring a copy of Autosport to read?

Or better still go to the Autosport show,its on in Birmingham for the last few days,well worth a visit.

Panda Killa · 12-01-2020 04:13PM

Have had sparring sessions on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter since yesterday.... just need here for the complete Panini set!

Kitty6277 · 12-01-2020 04:14PM

Still armchair-side but now trying to decide what to do for the day. Think I’ll wait till tomorrow to start my last chapter of my thesis but other than that, nothing’s coming to mind to do today.

Alonzo · 12-01-2020 04:28PM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Still armchair-side but now trying to decide what to do for the day. Think I’ll wait till tomorrow to start my last chapter of my thesis but other than that, nothing’s coming to mind to do today.

Maybe take a break from your thesis today. Got to have a bit of downtime too.

I used to struggle with summoning up the motivation to do my college assignments.

Trigger Happy · 12-01-2020 04:35PM

I am rocking this whole Sunday thing.

Widdershins · 12-01-2020 04:39PM

Thinking of throwing my phone away. Its starting to feel like a leash. Lit my fire, reading my book,and need to retreat from the world. If it can't wait for me then I won't run after it.

supermouse · 12-01-2020 04:46PM

Guy Person wrote: »

I am planning my week and so far it involves at least two "get out and meet new people" things so I'll see how I get on with that. Enjoy the day lads.

Sorry to hear about the lady Guy - who knows who you will meet this week! Do you mind giving me some inspo - I've just moved to this city and so far my friends all have babies/husbands and little time to be out roaming and adventuring! Thus, new friends are required.... any tips??

Kitty6277 · 12-01-2020 04:55PM

Alonzo wrote: »

Maybe take a break from your thesis today. Got to have a bit of downtime too.

I used to struggle with summoning up the motivation to do my college assignments.

The issue is I may have been taking a bit too much downtime lately, but one more day won’t hurt :pac:

Alonzo · 12-01-2020 04:56PM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

The issue is I may have been taking a bit too much downtime lately, but one more day won’t hurt :pac:

Haha Nice way of thinking! :pac:

Panda Killa · 12-01-2020 05:02PM

Widdershins wrote: »

Thinking of throwing my phone away. Its starting to feel like a leash. Lit my fire, reading my book,and need to retreat from the world. If it can't wait for me then I won't run after it.

Just do what some of us do...take a break from social media, boards etc... even just switch the data and WiFi off on your phone...makes a huge! difference

Princess Calla · 12-01-2020 05:05PM

There's some kids game on the tablet, where you can record yourself singing.

Currently listening to the 4yo giving it absolute socks and then listening to him listening to it played back.

Whitney Houston has nothing on this fella

Widdershins · 12-01-2020 05:07PM

Panda Killa wrote: »

Just do what some of us do...take a break from social media, boards etc... even just switch the data and WiFi off on your phone...makes a huge! difference

It's one real life person who needs more communication from me over message apps but I'm struggling to give it at the moment and he's angry as it's not hard to do, in his opinion, and it's necessary as I can't see him every day. I see his point but panic stations is my reaction.

Time for Alice Deejay "Better off alone".

Wayne Jarvis · 12-01-2020 06:23PM

gifted wrote: »

Guy....take it from me...I've three chicks and herself ( may...may have mentioned them before lol lol)....anyway....don't be in any great hurry to give up your single life.......meet..meet...and then meet more women...enjoy yourself. My oul nan told me to find them, fool them , **** them and forget about them......when you meet the woman that you can't forget about well then you've found the right one....and that's a whole different speech/warning I'll give you lol lol

Well I fell particularly hard for this woman because it was so closely connected to and so soon after the death of our friend but generally I would like to get a girlfriend and not necessarily "play the field" so to speak. I'm a bit long in the tooth for that at this stage personally, I wouldn't be giving up my freedom in my opinion just hoping to find someone to spend some time with a few days a week. Though I may have to do some "playing" to get there! Expect a PM from me regarding advice on hand dropping and thanks for the advice Gifted.

Deleted User wrote: »

Edit..onwards and upwards Guy,there are plenty lovely ladies out there sure look at the beauties on here. ��

Haha! Well as it happens my youngest niece drew two portraits of me today. The first one I was standing for but she wasn't totally satisfied and made me sit for the second one. I'll link to them below and I just want to say to all the female Wherers to please form an orderly queue and patiently wait your turn because this really is what I look like. :pac:

https://ibb.co/0qTFGvK
https://ibb.co/wC9vg8r

Wayne Jarvis · 12-01-2020 06:32PM

supermouse wrote: »

Sorry to hear about the lady Guy - who knows who you will meet this week! Do you mind giving me some inspo - I've just moved to this city and so far my friends all have babies/husbands and little time to be out roaming and adventuring! Thus, new friends are required.... any tips??

I'm recently moved to a new place too. Most of my friends are similar to yours, busy with their lives and now I live farther from all of them. I don't know anyone in my new area so I joined the site meetup .com https://www.meetup.com/ and look on eventbrite.ie https://www.eventbrite.ie/ for things on locally. I also went to the local library to look at the notice boards for groups/clubs etc.. around the area which is how I found out about the running club I joined. I also signed up to a few night courses to get me out a few evenings a week instead of just getting home from work and plonking myself on the sofa until the next day. You could try here for courses if interested but I'd also suggest you try locally too https://www.nightcourses.com/ I don't know if you'll find any of that helpful but good luck to you supermouse and if you want to know any more just ask here or you can send me a PM if you'd like, and I'll be only too happy to try and help.

Widdershins · 12-01-2020 06:33PM

For your sense of humour alone, anyone would be delighted to have your company a few days a week.

I hate modern life and the way romantic relationships are conducted, playing the field etc. If I thought many people were only out to "**** em and fool em and forget em" I'd join a convent. No thank you

12-01-2020 06:38PM

They're lovely guy,I'm sure you'll grow into your head some day.ðŸ˜‚

Just back from Dunnes, honestly it would put years on you shopping there on a Sunday, I'd say all the people Sephers met at lunchtime headed to Dunnes afterwards, definitely all down from the mountains.

My gang are hoping for a red weather warning so they can take tomorrow off and they're also on about the PS5 that's seemingly coming out this year, I've a PS 2,2x3sand 2x4s here so they can forget about a 5.

Between Dunnes and the kids I look about 10years older than I did this morning..beam me up Scotty.

Leg End Reject · 12-01-2020 06:49PM

Sorry things didn't work out, Guy and I'm sure you're slightly less purple in person. On reflection though maybe shared grief isn't the best way to come together. Get out and about and keep up with your plans.

Any rescheduling sorted yet, Duvet?

Just in after doing a few boring essential thing, a night in front of the fire awaits.

Purple Mountain · 12-01-2020 06:52PM

Panda Killa wrote: »

Just do what some of us do...take a break from social media, boards etc... even just switch the data and WiFi off on your phone...makes a huge! difference

I once swopped my smart phone for a dumb one for 6 months and had to live without constant Internet access. It was pretty liberating.

Widdershins · 12-01-2020 06:56PM

Purple Mountain wrote: »

I once swopped my smart phone for a dumb one for 6 months and had to live without constant Internet access. It was pretty liberating.

I've only had a smartphone for less than a year partly for this reason. I like a full on life with lots of people in it but I need some space too. It's also been a strange, busy 4 weeks and things taking a few days to settle down.

I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 9)

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