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Bigger women - secretly liked

  • 13-12-2019 06:50PM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    I'd really like if this could not turn into a fatty bashing thread but I won't hold my breath. So I'm a size 16-18 myself and while I'd definitely like to be toned and less wobbly, I'm not too bothered about my actual size, though my self esteem tends to fluctuate. I actually prefer bigger women myself. I used to be on this feeder website and I was really surprised how many men loved chubby and bigger women. So my question is, do you think it's not as rare as we're led to believe and that some men secretly like bigger women but it's not acceptable in society to say so?


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  • Posts: 5,422 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Marilyn Monroe was a size 16.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,833 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    Every holes a goal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,531 ✭✭✭Car99


    No acceptable to say so ? I never knew it was unacceptable for someone to say they liked curvy women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 22,664 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    Marilyn Monroe was a size 16.

    A US size 16, that's a 12 here. She was very slender before she died.


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Jolie Fat Crossbones


    A US size 16, that's a 12 here. She was very slender before she died.

    I think ours are bigger not smaller eg 10 us is 12 uk

    Fairly sure she wasn't size 16 either way tho


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,922 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    Yeah I think that was a myth about Marilyn Monroe. Maybe sizing has changed since but she was definitely not a size 16 as it measures now. Though that varies from shop to shop.

    I guess maybe it's more along the lines of making jokes about taking the fat one home from the nightclub but not wanting anyone to know kind of thing. That sort of "shame".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 22,664 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I think ours are bigger not smaller eg 10 us is 12 uk

    Fairly sure she wasn't size 16 either way tho

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,037 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40 Don Joe


    If I'm honest I'm partial to a curvy woman, no qualms with a bit of a belly and a chubby bum. It's very sexy.

    But there's a line... That woman that was flouted as the face of obese is beautiful and made it in all the magazines, no, just no.


  • Posts: 12,694 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My mother had this saying as God made them he matched them, everyone has different tastes. The bit I can't figure out is why this is supposed to be some sort of secret or a revelation.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    Don Joe wrote: »
    If I'm honest I'm partial to a curvy woman, no qualms with a bit of a belly and a chubby bum. It's very sexy.

    But there's a line... That woman that was flouted as the face of obese is beautiful and made it in all the magazines, no, just no.

    Yeah I suppose I was thinking along the lines of maybe not bigger than a size 22-24ish.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 82 ✭✭misterme123


    Alecto wrote: »
    I'd really like if this could not turn into a fatty bashing thread but I won't hold my breath. So I'm a size 16-18 myself and while I'd definitely like to be toned and less wobbly, I'm not too bothered about my actual size, though my self esteem tends to fluctuate. I actually prefer bigger women myself. I used to be on this feeder website and I was really surprised how many men loved chubby and bigger women. So my question is, do you think it's not as rare as we're led to believe and that some men secretly like bigger women but it's not acceptable in society to say so?


    Do you mean "chubby and bigger" compared to the average in society or compared to what is medically considered a healthy amount of body fat? Because a very large percentage of people in Ireland (male and female) are overweight nowadays anyway. Skinny people are less skinny, overweight people are more overweight and there are more people at the extremes of obesity too. If the trend continues, it can't be taboo for much longer to be into bigger women because they'll make up the majority of women. That's if it's even taboo to begin with of course. I'll leave it to someone else to open a thread on the dad bod...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    mariaalice wrote: »
    My mother had this saying as God made them he matched them, everyone has different tastes. The bit I can't figure out is why this is supposed to be some sort of secret or a revelation.

    But then why do we rarely see a fat person on tv or in films? Why are most people only considered attractive if they are thin? Different strokes for different folks for sure but it seems like as long as you're not fat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,360 ✭✭✭limnam


    Alecto wrote: »
    But then why do we rarely see a fat person on tv or in films? Why are most people only considered attractive if they are thin? Different strokes for different folks for sure but it seems like as long as you're not fat.

    Plenty of ugly skinny fckers. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    limnam wrote: »
    Plenty of ugly skinny fckers. :)

    Faces matter a lot more to me than bodies so I'm always confused by this. I know people have different tastes but it's like as long as you're thin you can be on tv and face doesn't seem to matter half as much.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40 Don Joe


    Alecto wrote: »
    Yeah I suppose I was thinking along the lines of maybe not bigger than a size 22-24ish.

    I'd be thinking cut off 18-20.

    I dunno. I'll get killed for this, but my personal preference is for a woman who still looks... Womanly, if she's got extra pounds.. Or stone, that's no issue once she's still shapely, boobs much larger than belly.. Some larger people lose shape if that makes sense.

    Not all size 16s or 18s are the same shape, some are sexy as could be, others are just large.


  • Posts: 12,694 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Alecto wrote: »
    Faces matter a lot more to me than bodies so I'm always confused by this. I know people have different tastes but it's like as long as you're thin you can be on tv and face doesn't seem to matter half as much.

    Thats not true, years ago i was friendly with a girl in work who was large but tall enought to carry it off, also very beautiful and very elegant the nails, hair makeup was always done going in to pubs men would turn around and look at her.

    Beauty is a big factor and that is down to genetics.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,386 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    From my observations anyway I've noted that a fair majority of men, Irish men anyway, seem to prefer bigger women and boobs are a near obsession. :D When I say bigger I mean from 14-20 kinda range. Small framed women not so much and what we might see as "curvy" might be "fat" to say a Czech chap. As a very general rule anyway.
    Alecto wrote:
    But then why do we rarely see a fat person on tv or in films? Why are most people only considered attractive if they are thin? Different strokes for different folks for sure but it seems like as long as you're not fat.
    The camera tends to add perceived weight and thin tends to wear clothes better on camera(or clothes are made with thinner people in mind). Plus media will tend to reflect more of the current cultural ideal than everyday life. I've read that one reason thinner people started to feature more on TV and in flims was when more nude and sex scenes came along and thinner bodies look better naked. Though I don't buy that as long before nude scenes were a regular thing in film actors of both sexes were still thin, though people were thinner on average in general anyway.

    As for Marilyn Monroe, at her biggest she was more like a size 12, but more usually a size 8-10 and with a tiny waist. As well as getting heavier people's bodyshapes have changed too. We've got generally taller and broader and hourglass figures in women are a lower percentage in the population compared to 50 or a 100 years ago. We're also fatter at younger ages. Middle aged spread tends to happen before actual middle age. In the English speaking world moreso. EG in Spain and Italy women of 20 are smaller by a couple of sizes on average than Irish and British women, but by 40, all match up more.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,703 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    That is a tragic read. Though I suppose it's been covered in the media alot.
    I had to Google 'apocryphal' so a new word learned today. I never knew there was a size 2 !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭Thespoofer


    Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    From my own personal experience I’ve been both a size 6 and a size 16 as an adult, so very different ends of the spectrum and I feel most confident & get the most attention from the opposite sex when I’m between a size 10/12.

    My confidence was on the floor when I was at the bigger end of the scale which might have been why men didn’t approach me as much. So I can’t really say whether men didn’t like me cause of my size or whether they could smell my insecurity a mile off.
    When I was on the smaller end I looked very sickly, to the point where it was regularly remarked upon. People genuinely thought I was suffering from a serious illness.

    I’m a size 10 now and quite happy at that, though I’d rather be more toned but it’s a work in progress.

    I do think confidence is the most important thing, regardless of size if you are comfortable and happy in yourself that will shine through and make you more attractive.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40 Don Joe


    Wibbs wrote: »
    From my observations anyway I've noted that a fair majority of men, Irish men anyway, seem to prefer bigger women and boobs are a near obsession. :D

    I'll raise my hand here. 14-20. She must be booby :)

    Always perplexed when i see larger women with virtually no boobs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭HappyAsLarE


    I’d tea bag a fatty but I wouldn’t marry one, if ya get me


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    Keep it natural. You grow naturally, enjoy your life and be healthy.

    Real women are more than just their dress size.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,386 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    cjmc wrote: »
    That is a tragic read. Though I suppose it's been covered in the media alot.
    I had to Google 'apocryphal' so a new word learned today. I never knew there was a size 2 !
    Size 2 is IIRC around an Irish size 6/8? This bit stood out for me: The average American woman in the 1950s had a 25 inch waist compared to Monroe’s 22 inches. Whereas today, the average American woman has a waist size of 34 inches 34 inches? Jaysus. Unless she's 6'4...

    And yep Ms Monroe was not even close to being a "bigger woman"

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I'm a big person married to a big person. I don't care if every single person on the planet thinks I'm a big fat disgusting pig, the only opinion that matters is my other half. Once he likes me as much as I fancy him it's happy days. Personally I have no issue with size, some of the sexiest people I ever met were packing a few pounds.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    From my own personal experience I’ve been both a size 6 and a size 16 as an adult, so very different ends of the spectrum and I feel most confident & get the most attention from the opposite sex when I’m between a size 10/12.

    My confidence was on the floor when I was at the bigger end of the scale which might have been why men didn’t approach me as much. So I can’t really say whether men didn’t like me cause of my size or whether they could smell my insecurity a mile off.
    When I was on the smaller end I looked very sickly, to the point where it was regularly remarked upon. People genuinely thought I was suffering from a serious illness.

    I’m a size 10 now and quite happy at that, though I’d rather be more toned but it’s a work in progress.

    I do think confidence is the most important thing, regardless of size if you are comfortable and happy in yourself that will shine through and make you more attractive.

    I think I've never thought to myself "oh god, no one will have sex with me because I'm fat" so if I met someone in a pub I'd be flirtatious and friendly and outgoing. But then again I'd have drink in me too and be done up and that's part of it. I suppose I've thought that casual sex wouldn't be a problem as a larger woman but I think it could hold me back in finding a relationship.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 532 ✭✭✭Turquoise Hexagon Sun


    I like tall and slim. Rarely would I like curvey. To me, it's associated with lack of excercise and/or potential health issues and that's for everyone, not just the opposite sex, obviously.

    I have always had an athletic build but recently because a bit fat, especually on the belly. So I hit the gym. Still trying to work off the belly but getting there.


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