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Telly · 26-10-2019 08:20AM

confused2019 wrote: »

Because it's a really unnecessary sh*ty thing to do to someone especially after all our time together, ending on good terms and wanting to stay friends. I shared more with this person than I ever did and this is what happens at the end. How could you ever trust anybody again after that.

Stop being so dramatic. You’re sounding like a 14yr old girl. It’s Facebook. She can do what she likes with her Facebook. You need to get over it.

RossieMan · 26-10-2019 08:21AM

It's Facebook, it's not a big deal.

See it from her point of view, she doesn't want that reminder of you and wants to move on. She's obviously finding it tough too.

It's not meant to hurt you, it's a way for her to process this.

If you're getting this disgruntled over Facebook blocking, you need to take a step back and look how to react to situations. This really isn't important. You're taking the wrong information and over analysing it. It won't do you any good.

See it from her perspective.

joe40 · 26-10-2019 08:40AM

I don't know your situation, so I'm not in a position to give advice, but the "staying friends" after a break up never happens.
People may make an effort to be civil and cooperative if kids are involved, but friends... No.
Easy to say but you have move on, the ****ty thing about FB just means there is no getting back together.

Telly · 26-10-2019 08:41AM

confused2019 wrote: »

I don't think you get it so can you please stop replying as your not helping at all

I’m sorry but I don’t think you get it. You give little info about what’s gone on and only tell us you’re blocked from Facebook so when people address the info you have given us you get all pissy cause you don’t like the replies.

Sittingpretty · 26-10-2019 08:56AM

confused2019 wrote: »

I don't actually want hi talk about the break up or reasons, as its still way too raw and I'm absolutely depressed over it. My original post was about where I go now mostly and just mentioning being blocked its just really confusing. I never did anything to justify being blocked so please stop with the insinuations as I'm being completely honest.

I didn’t ask you to go into any detail that’s your own business and hers, not mine.

The gist of my reply was it shouldn’t be your focus. And it appears as though it is as you’ve mentioned it in every single post.

Honestly breakups are very very hard and you’re right it is very fresh and very upsetting. I was merely suggesting you attempt to take on board all the great advice you gotten here, look after yourself and don’t fixate on the Facebook blocking because in the scheme of a relationship ending it’s not at all important

RossieMan · 26-10-2019 09:20AM

Op some advice, get off the internet. It's not helping you. You aren't listening. You aren't reading the advice given. You keep going back to the same thing from your point of view. It's not about you. The blocking is for her piece of mind. It's nothing to do with you.

Get off the internet. Go and watch the rugby. Watch the football. Go for a walk. Do anything else. Stop this obsession with Facebook blocking meaning something more than it is.

If you aren't going to listen to any advice given here, people aren't going to be sympathetic to you as it borders on attention seeking after a while.

Telly · 26-10-2019 01:48PM

How long with you with her, OP?

confused2019 · 26-10-2019 02:47PM

Telly wrote: »

How long with you with her, OP?

A year.

Telly · 26-10-2019 03:30PM

confused2019 wrote: »

A year.

I know it doesn’t seem like it now but in a few weeks from now you’ll feel a little bit better and in a month a lot better. Just try keep busy, reconnect with friends and family and the time will fly in.

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