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Sweet Jesus. The first “God” talk with a child.

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  • Administrators, Computer Games Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 33,053 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Mickeroo


    beejee wrote: »
    What does "educate together" mean? Together with whom?

    With other children who attend the school.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 508 ✭✭✭Fritzbox


    Tell him straight out that God was invented to scare the ****e out of people, control them and take their money.

    That's probably not true though. Were you there when God was invented?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    Prepare from some very smug answers where people talk about the flying spaghetti monster and the sky fairies.
    I prefer the term sky Daddy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,629 ✭✭✭jaykay74


    Fritzbox wrote: »
    That's probably not true though. Were you there when God was invented?

    Which one ? :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 508 ✭✭✭Fritzbox


    jaykay74 wrote: »
    Which one ? :D

    But there must have been a first one? All these Gods didn't arrive at the same time, did they?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    Mickeroo wrote: »
    With other children who attend the school.

    As opposed to all the other schools in the country???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,942 ✭✭✭topper75


    ... was invented to scare the ****e out of people, control them and take their money.

    Yeah but then the kid will move on to ask about global warming or Brexit stuff and you find yourself in an endless game of whack-a-mole.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    beejee wrote: »
    What does "educate together" mean? Together with whom?

    Together with children from various religious backgrounds. But you know this. Let’s skip to the bit where you make your point.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    Together with children from various religious backgrounds. But you know this. Let’s skip to the bit where you make your point.

    So, the poster I quoted originally, is sending his child to a school for many religions, to avoid questions of religion?

    That's sounds like the wrong choice to me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    beejee wrote: »
    So, the poster I quoted originally, is sending his child to a school for many religions, to avoid questions of religion?

    That's sounds like the wrong choice to me.
    No religion is taught, hence educate together. It's more inclusive than Catholic schools were non Catholics have to sit out religion classes and not take part in communion.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    beejee wrote: »
    So, the poster I quoted originally, is sending his child to a school for many religions, to avoid questions of religion?

    That's sounds like the wrong choice to me.

    Yeah, ET schools have students from many religious backgrounds in them, but they don’t teach religion in school. So it’s a perfectly fine choice for people who either don’t want to teach their children religion, or who want to do the teaching about religion themselves. This suits a lot of people, religious and non religious.

    Maybe you misunderstood what ET schools were about?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    Paddy Cow wrote: »
    No religion is taught, hence educate together. It's more inclusive than Catholic schools were non Catholics have to sit out religion classes and not take part in communion.

    So its a school for people of many religions, but where no religion is taught.

    And I think it would be fair to say that some other non-Catholic religions are far more extreme in their beliefs.

    So, whether the non-religious school for all religions that doesn't teach religion...may not officially teach or instruct upon religion, the child is going to be surrounded by fellow students from more "hardcore" religions, with a huge amount of contradiction.

    So to go back to the point, it would appear that these educate together schools would be the poorest choice if a parent wanted to avoid religious questioning from their children.

    Unless the stated purpose of these schools is a load of hogwash, of course, and it means something else entirely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    beejee wrote: »
    So its a school for people of many religions, but where no religion is taught.

    And I think it would be fair to say that some other non-Catholic religions are far more extreme in their beliefs.

    So, whether the non-religious school for all religions that doesn't teach religion...may not officially teach or instruct upon religion, the child is going to be surrounded by fellow students from more "hardcore" religions, with a huge amount of contradiction.

    So to go back to the point, it would appear that these educate together schools would be the poorest choice if a parent wanted to avoid religious questioning from their children.

    Unless the stated purpose of these schools is a load of hogwash, of course, and it means something else entirely.

    I guess some people think that being around people of other religions isn’t a big deal. Maybe you think differently, your point isn’t very clear.

    Edit: oh sorry, I see your point at the end. ET is hogwash. Fair enough. I guess it’s the best choice that people currently have for separating religious education from academic education, for whatever reason they would want to do that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    I guess some people think that being around people of other religions isn’t a big deal. Maybe you think differently, your point isn’t very clear.

    So being around different religions isn't a big deal. But being around one religion is a big deal.

    That seems to be the crux of it. And it doesn't make sense.

    Why would a person dislike their child to be surrounded by a, by all accounts, relatively mild religion but prefer a surrounding of relatively hardcore religions instead?

    Specific teaching or not, that's the environmental choice you are choosing for the child.

    So in truth, are these educate together schools not really about educating together, but about seeking an atheistic/agnostic environment? (An environment, I may add, that is LESS likely to achieve that aim)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    beejee wrote: »
    So, the poster I quoted originally, is sending his child to a school for many religions, to avoid questions of religion?

    That's sounds like the wrong choice to me.

    What's wrong with it?

    I've no problem with my children learning about religion - which they do in educate together - but I'm not religious so why would I want my child being indoctrinated into the Catholic faith? Would it be "wrong" in your opinion to refuse to send my child to a Jewish or Islamic school too or is that okay because they aren't Catholicism?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    I guess some people think that being around people of other religions isn’t a big deal. Maybe you think differently, your point isn’t very clear.

    Edit: oh sorry, I see your point at the end. ET is hogwash. Fair enough. I guess it’s the best choice that people currently have for separating religious education from academic education, for whatever reason they would want to do that.

    I see your edit now. Yes, that's my point.

    But further to that point, by trying to evade ALL religion, by purposefully sending your child to a school of, probably, more hardcore multiple religions....this is the worst choice you could make?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,139 ✭✭✭Gregor Samsa


    beejee wrote: »
    So being around different religions isn't a big deal. But being around one religion is a big deal.

    That seems to be the crux of it. And it doesn't make sense.

    Why would a person dislike their child to be surrounded by a, by all accounts, relatively mild religion but prefer a surrounding of relatively hardcore religions instead?

    Specific teaching or not, that's the environmental choice you are choosing for the child.

    So in truth, are these educate together schools not really about educating together, but about seeking an atheistic/agnostic environment? (An environment, I may add, that is LESS likely to achieve that aim)

    I think the bit you’re missing is the difference between being surrounded by people of a religion (or many religions), and being taught a specific religion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    eviltwin wrote: »
    What's wrong with it?

    I've no problem with my children learning about religion - which they do in educate together - but I'm not religious so why would I want my child being indoctrinated into the Catholic faith? Would it be "wrong" in your opinion to refuse to send my child to a Jewish or Islamic school too or is that okay because they aren't Catholicism?

    But other posters were just saying that these schools purposefully do NOT teach religion. The whole thing sounds like a mess.

    Last question I'll raise and I have to go. You might refuse to send your child to an Islamic school, but considering the supposed ethos of educate together schools, aren't you far more likely to be surrounded by Islamic families there....rather than elsewhere (considering there are few actual 100% Islamic schools)?

    My whole point hinges on the extremes of different religions, and that if you want to avoid religion, then surely avoiding the more hardcore religions is a better direction.

    Anyway good luck, im off :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    beejee wrote: »
    I see your edit now. Yes, that's my point.

    But further to that point, by trying to evade ALL religion, by purposefully sending your child to a school of, probably, more hardcore multiple religions....this is the worst choice you could make?


    It really doesn’t get more hardcore than being able to make one religion the raison d’etre of the school, as opposed to a school where many religions are barely touched upon and the children get minimum exposure to each religion, whereas the children in the religious ethos school? The school is completely focused on indoctrination in a religious education in an environment specifically designed for the purpose.

    I do see what you mean though, that the child could pick up on the ideas of many religions as opposed to just one, making a number of different ideas much more difficult to work against than just the one single idea. It sounds good in theory, but people are going to believe what they want to believe, and children are no different in that respect.

    A parent could drive themselves demented trying to work the ideas out of their children that they don’t like, but that often tends to have the opposite effect :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    I think the bit you’re missing is the difference between being surrounded by people of a religion (or many religions), and being taught a specific religion.

    Im not missing it at all.

    If anything, its a childs peers that are far more influential than any teacher. If you want to avoid religious questions from your child, there wont be a more confusing place than a pile of people believing 50 different things, with a thousand different customs. And, again, being more likely hardcore religions, the peers will probably follow them more tightly and express their rigid beliefs around your child.

    Ah whatever :P


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    beejee wrote: »
    But other posters were just saying that these schools purposefully do NOT teach religion. The whole thing sounds like a mess.

    Last question I'll raise and I have to go. You might refuse to send your child to an Islamic school, but considering the supposed ethos of educate together schools, aren't you far more likely to be surrounded by Islamic families there....rather than elsewhere (considering there are few actual 100% Islamic schools)?

    My whole point hinges on the extremes of different religions, and that if you want to avoid religion, then surely avoiding the more hardcore religions is a better direction.

    Anyway good luck, im off :)

    No, they teach a class where children learn about all faiths and none but no one religion is promoted as the right one. There are no religious celebrations and no religious services.

    There are Muslim children in the school of course but so what? They are children, they are like every other child. What do you think they do or say that would make them "hardcore"?

    Do you think 8 and 9 year olds are preaching in the playground now? My son and his friends talk about Pokemon and cartoons and toys same as children in a Catholic school I'd imagine....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,085 ✭✭✭The Tetrarch


    Good thread.
    If you could just mix in Northern Ireland you would have a cracking debate.


  • Posts: 5,249 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    As above they are multi denominational- teaching about all religions and none.

    The handful of community national schools are non denominational.

    Every other school is denominational.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    eviltwin wrote: »
    No, they teach a class where children learn about all faiths and none but no one religion is promoted as the right one. There are no religious celebrations and no religious services.

    There are Muslim children in the school of course but so what? They are children, they are like every other child. What do you think they do or say that would make them "hardcore"?

    Do you think 8 and 9 year olds are preaching in the playground now? My son and his friends talk about Pokemon and cartoons and toys same as children in a Catholic school I'd imagine....

    I wouldn't be so sure myself. One last point, I was reading recently about the mental health aspects of belief systems.

    Most research, apparently, indicates that having belief in one religion (specific faith) is strongly tied to a decrease in mental problems, suicide, depression etc. Less research has found that there may be a similar link between those that absolutely have no religious belief.

    The overall reading I have done points to a purity of belief being better for a person overall. The other side of the coin was that those of mixed, tenuous beliefs suffer more mental health problems than anyone else.

    So, I would tend to lean towards "multiple, different, contradictory" religious exposure being an overall negative for a person.

    If anyones interested im sure they can go looking for the relevant research. Now I really have to get back to studying!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,443 ✭✭✭sondagefaux


    LirW wrote: »
    The agreement we came to was that he doesn't have to participate in any religious activity and spends his time doing work sheets but if he wishes to join he's free to do so.

    The Constitution guarantees your child the right (which is exercised by parents/guardians) to withdraw from any classes of religious instruction.

    Some schools take a much more obstructive approach, making parents collect their children from school during the relevant classes or leaving children outside classrooms in corridors, unattended, for the duration of the classes.

    These schools are a Supreme Court challenge waiting to happen.

    As to the OP, you can tell them whatever you want. If you'd prefer them to decide for themselves when they're older, I guess telling them that some people think there's a God, some people don't and that you don't (I'm assuming), just like some people like chocolate ice cream and some people don't, should do the trick.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,924 ✭✭✭Reati


    Tell him straight out that God was invented to scare the ****e out of people, control them and take their money.

    Like Santa?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,443 ✭✭✭sondagefaux


    beejee wrote: »
    Im not missing it at all.

    If anything, its a childs peers that are far more influential than any teacher. If you want to avoid religious questions from your child, there wont be a more confusing place than a pile of people believing 50 different things, with a thousand different customs. And, again, being more likely hardcore religions, the peers will probably follow them more tightly and express their rigid beliefs around your child.

    Ah whatever :P

    Hardcore religions? Like the one that decided that moving clergy men who raped children around the country, where they were free to rape yet more children, rather than calling in the authorities was the right thing to do?

    You have a pretty selective view there of what constitutes hardcore a leanbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 508 ✭✭✭Fritzbox


    Hardcore religions? Like the one that decided that moving clergy men who raped children around the country, where they were free to rape yet more children, rather than calling in the authorities was the right thing to do?

    You have a pretty selective view there of what constitutes hardcore a leanbh.

    That's not an example of "hard-core" religion, that's an example of hard-core power.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭beejee


    Hardcore religions? Like the one that decided that moving clergy men who raped children around the country, where they were free to rape yet more children, rather than calling in the authorities was the right thing to do?

    You have a pretty selective view there of what constitutes hardcore a leanbh.

    Hardcore religions? Like the one that stones people to death, cuts peoples hands off and generally has state sanctioned murder, like the one that tried to declare an entire conquest of all people through brutal rape and violence via a war that's still raging, encouraging people to explode themselves amongst as many people as possible?

    You have a pretty selective view there of what constitutes hardcore a buachaill beag


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    beejee wrote: »
    But other posters were just saying that these schools purposefully do NOT teach religion. The whole thing sounds like a mess.

    Last question I'll raise and I have to go. You might refuse to send your child to an Islamic school, but considering the supposed ethos of educate together schools, aren't you far more likely to be surrounded by Islamic families there....rather than elsewhere (considering there are few actual 100% Islamic schools)?

    My whole point hinges on the extremes of different religions, and that if you want to avoid religion, then surely avoiding the more hardcore religions is a better direction.

    Anyway good luck, im off :)
    Children don't discuss religion the way adults do. In a Catholic school they are taught about God and if you're bad you go to hell, so of course they're going to go home and ask their parents about it. In an educate together school there will be kids will all sorts of religious backgrounds but whether or not they will go to hell isn't really something that comes up in conversation.


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