Female orgasm through penetrative sex

Reviews and Books Galore · 24-08-2019 08:25AM

Dial Hard wrote: »

Apparently it's depressingly common. Although becoming less so, I would hope. Generations of women were told that sex was something they should endure but never, ever enjoy, don't forget. Those attitudes get internalised and handed down long after the explicit message ceases.

I regardless of whether that is the full story, you gave been shaming penetrative sex this entire thread.

Salthillprom · 24-08-2019 09:13AM

I'm female and have no problem orgasming through penetrative sex only.

gctest50 · 24-08-2019 09:14AM

Porklife wrote: »

I have no idea what this means despite reading it three times.

This sort of thing ?

https://www.todaysparent.com/pregnancy/giving-birth/i-tore-my-clitoris-giving-birth/

BDI · 24-08-2019 09:21AM

Salthillprom wrote: »

I'm female and have no problem orgasming through penetrative sex only.

Identify as female?

Ah I’m on joking

24-08-2019 10:52AM

Salthillprom wrote: »

I'm female and have no problem orgasming through penetrative sex only.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/splinternews.com/why-some-women-are-anatomically-wired-for-better-orgasm-1793856500/amp

Not all women are the same when it comes to coming.

AttentionBebe · 24-08-2019 10:57AM

AttentionBebe wrote: »

Men: It's such a weird biological quirk that the clitoris is so far away from the vagina!

Woman who has given birth vaginally: Not so much, no.

To clarify, I'm saying that it makes sense that you don't give birth from the most sensitive part of your anatomy. The clit is a distance away for a very good reason. You wouldn't want to push a melon out of your Japs eye etc

Porklife · 24-08-2019 11:00AM

AttentionBebe wrote: »

To clarify, I'm saying that it makes sense that you don't give birth from the most sensitive part of your anatomy. The clit is a distance away for a very good reason. You wouldn't want to push a melon out of your Japs eye etc

It's clear... it's clear....just make it stop

myshirt · 24-08-2019 11:03AM

AttentionBebe wrote: »

To clarify, I'm saying that it makes sense that you don't give birth from the most sensitive part of your anatomy. The clit is a distance away for a very good reason. You wouldn't want to push a melon out of your Japs eye etc

You can't say Jap's eye anymore, it's offensive.

Dial Hard · 24-08-2019 11:48AM

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

I regardless of whether that is the full story, you gave been shaming penetrative sex this entire thread.

You've been banging this drum for days now and I have absolutely no idea what in God's name you're on about. Please quote a single instance where I have "shamed penetrative sex".

Reviews and Books Galore · 24-08-2019 12:01PM

Dial Hard wrote: »

You've been banging this drum for days now and I have absolutely no idea what in God's name you're on about. Please quote a single instance where I have "shamed penetrative sex".

Whoops, I actually had some kind of brain fart here and mixed your posts up

Also, you can hardly say I'm banging a drum when I have mentioned it is only a vaugue feeling?

Dial Hard · 24-08-2019 12:05PM

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

you can hardly say I'm banging a drum when I have mentioned it is only a vaugue feeling?

"You have been shaming penetrative sex this entire thread."

Nothing vague about that.

worded · 24-08-2019 01:26PM

worded wrote: »

Invitation

We are having a boards meet up soon for people who struggle to reach an orgasm.

RSVP / Please let us know if you can’t come.......

Should there be an international Orgasm Day?

And / or a charity to raise awareness?

Im imaging the sports commentator now at a charity fun run LOL

Reviews and Books Galore · 24-08-2019 02:25PM

Dial Hard wrote: »

"You have been shaming penetrative sex this entire thread."

Nothing vague about that.

True, I like the sound of my own voice and I make all kind of asdumptions and theories. Its great.

Wibbs · 24-08-2019 04:09PM

Deleted User wrote: »

https://www.google.com/amp/s/splinternews.com/why-some-women-are-anatomically-wired-for-better-orgasm-1793856500/amp

Not all women are the same when it comes to coming.

+1. Interesting article and background research, though I would disagree with this part "penises are not very complicated". They are, though I suppose from the authors American perspective where they tend to lop off a large chunk of it at birth... But yeah, some women have more "compact" ladyparts were all the action is in a smaller area, whereas others are more spread out as it were. Tightness another factor which can vary, just like male appendage size, which was selected for as humans have the biggest in proportion to body size of the great apes. Though that varies across populations with East Asians and Indians having smaller on average. Doesn't seem to have affected population size mind you.

That's before we get to sensitivity. Some women a slight breeze can set them off, others might require an orbital sander.

Again it's interesting why there should be this variability in women in the first place. One would think that some women having more orgasms would lead to those women wanting to have more sex and therefore have more babies and would over time select for and pass on the genes for the physiology to have easier orgasms. Yet some research claims it's only a small minority that can get off on the regular and through shagging(though I'm always dubious of self reported research). If anything it's been selected against. Now maybe our bigger human heads and birth is the reason, but then would we still have women who had little problem with orgasms? T'is very odd.

The Princess Bride · 24-08-2019 04:36PM

Wibbs wrote: »

Some women a slight breeze can set them off, others might require an orbital sander.

And some need nothing at all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-jFl6x1Ny8

Comments are worth reading.

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 04:39PM

I think the elephant in the room here remains the fact that this thread simply refuses to address the never ending sex war which has existed since the dawn of time itself.

The fact remains that most sexually active males spend their entire adolescence sneaking off in private, to have sex with themselves up to 3 or 4 times a day, at the very least. This results in an instant gratification which has been common practice for thousands of years. I might add that this practice exists right through an average man's life, this is an undenialable fact.

Contrast these practices with the adolescent females obsession with eyeliner and boybands and you can see that both sexes are destined for a dramatic, "anti - climax".

This has led to many unnecessary bouts of hyper sexual activity, which have resulted in dissatisfied women staring blankly into the ceiling while their partners sweats and drools uncontrollably over their undersexed torsos, how underwhelming.

The concept that women are having orgasms after 38 seconds of wham bamming is highly contrived. I am not ruling out the plausibility of 10 to 15 minutes pummelling sessions whilst on the kitchen floor, lets be honest anything is possible at that stage, but the fact remains that there exists a distinctive goal incongruence when it comes to getting off.

Insect Overlord · 24-08-2019 04:48PM

Jesus, you spout an awful lot of s[noparse]hi[/noparse]te for one individual.

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 04:51PM

Insect Overlord wrote: »

Jesus, you spout an awful lot of s[noparse]hi[/noparse]te for one individual.

Go raibh maith agat.

Dial Hard · 24-08-2019 04:55PM

Insect Overlord wrote: »

Jesus, you spout an awful lot of s[noparse]hi[/noparse]te for one individual.

There has been a remarkable amount of ****e spouted on this thread. This poor soul seems to be labouring under the impression that teenage girls don't masturbate.

One eyed Jack · 24-08-2019 05:00PM

I’ve always thought the “women fake it” was more of a meme or a Hollywood trope than reality tbh. I don’t think women faking it is anywhere near as common as it’s often joked about, with the implication being that men actually could possibly be so clueless, or rather careless even.

suicide_circus · 24-08-2019 05:01PM

Dial Hard wrote: »

This poor soul seems to be labouring under the impression that teenage girls don't masturbate.

i've seen compelling documentary evidence that suggests the contrary.

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 05:05PM

Oh they masturbate alright, that is a fact, I have a lot of sisters.

But they are nowhere near the prolificity of the males. Don't take my comments out of context, that is being unfair.

One eyed Jack · 24-08-2019 05:18PM

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Oh they masturbate alright, that is a fact, I have a lot of sisters.

But they are nowhere near the prolificity of the males. Don't take my comments out of context, that is being unfair.

You’re doing a fine job on your own :pac:

Leg End Reject · 24-08-2019 05:18PM

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Oh they masturbate alright, that is a fact, I have a lot of sisters.

But they are nowhere near the prolificity of the males. Don't take my comments out of context, that is being unfair.

You watched your sister masturbated? :eek:

Wibbs · 24-08-2019 05:19PM

The Princess Bride wrote: »

And some need nothing at all.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-jFl6x1Ny8

Comments are worth reading.

Jaysus, if I had 180 orgasms in a couplr of hours I'd be a dessicated husk of a man. No way in hell could I drive or stand up, or do much of anything.

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 05:32PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

You’re doing a fine job on your own :pac:

Side splitting, how do you do it?

Leg End Reject wrote: »

You watched your sister masturbated? :eek:

In fairness my sister's masturbating habits should not be up for discussion here. I am not satisfied with your interest in them either, are you into watching teenagers masturbating? I would be careful how you answer that.

24-08-2019 06:38PM

IAMAMORON wrote: »

The fact remains that most sexually active males spend their entire adolescence sneaking off in private, to have sex with themselves up to 3 or 4 times a day, at the very least.

You're speaking for yourself here, not for your gender.

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 07:16PM

AndrewJRenko wrote: »

You're speaking for yourself here, not for your gender.

Your obviously in denial. It is a pity for you.

I have no qualms about my sexuality, but the fact remains that I am not alone in my sexual habits as a teenager. I spent my entire adolescence obsessed with getting the ride , so did you.

Still waters · 24-08-2019 07:57PM

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Side splitting, how do you do it?

In fairness my sister's masturbating habits should not be up for discussion here. I am not satisfied with your interest in them either, are you into watching teenagers masturbating? I would be careful how you answer that.

You brought it up, how do you know your sisters bean flicking habits

IAMAMORON · 24-08-2019 08:01PM

Still waters wrote: »

You brought it up, how do you know your sisters bean flicking habits

Now that you ask they have often discussed them with me. You will find that there is a lot more to female masturbation than " bean flicking ".