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Want claritiy on flirting with a woman at work [title edited by mod]

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  • #32
    antix80
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,417 ✭✭✭antix80


    Spencer Winterbotham wrote: »
    Take her out for a boozy lunch, head to a hotel.... get it out of your system and move on..

    Great advice 15-20 years ago.


  • #33
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    Spencer Winterbotham wrote: »
    Look mate....man to man here..... don't mind the hysterics going on on this thread...

    You know what you have to do....

    Take her out for a boozy lunch, head to a hotel.... get it out of your system and move on..

    Simples.

    You're not the only man who's posted in this thread. Ridiculous advice which could lead him into a whole heap of trouble.


  • #34
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ah here! Nudist sunbathing is not de rigueur in any country and workplace convo about the same (especially with seniority) isn't the norm anywhere. The fact you even accept that as a plausible excuse is ridiculous. She's dangerous, not worth it.


  • #35
    wiggle16
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭wiggle16


    I'm glad you've clarified things with her.

    Friendly flirting itself can be harmless, it's not always something to catastrophise about. The trouble is that if one person considers it to be a bit of flirting with no intention of it going anywhere else but the other wants or expects something more, hurt feelings can develop and in a work situation that can be a disaster. I'm glad it's worked out for you.

    Mod:

    OP as you seem to have drawn a line under it I'll take it I can close this thread.

    Thanks & grma all who posted. Thread locked.


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