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Lady can't have her hairy balls waxed [mod notes/warnings in post #1]

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  • 21-07-2019 8:46am
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    Registered Users Posts: 28,118 ✭✭✭✭


    In British Columbia, there is at the present moment 16 “human rights” complaints, launched by a single person who asserts the status of “trans woman” against (mainly immigrant) female cosmeticians who — from religious sensibilities, reasons of safety, or simple personal preference — refused that person’s demand for a Brazilian waxing of their male genitals.

    Ricky Gervais has jumped in to help..

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    We can't be far off one of these cases here.

    Full story https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.spiked-online.com/2019/07/19/canadas-bizarre-trans-waxing-controversy/amp/

    Mod: We're getting a lot of reports about the misgendering, deliberate or otherwise, of Jessica Yaniv.

    Whatever people's thoughts on the case at hand, how this person chooses to identify is their choice alone. Jessica Yaniv, whatever you might think of her actions elsewhere, chooses to identify as male-to-female transgender. Discuss the person's actions all you want, but from here on in, use the person's preferred pronouns.


    Mod warning 29/07/19
    Beasty wrote: »
    Christ almighty! Why do people try and bring race/religion into every discussion? I guess it's because people know it's a controversial topic and will get reactions

    Anyway, that's enough of the Muslim talk in this thread. Any more will bring about sanctions

    Any questions please PM me - do not respond to this warning in-thread

    Thanks


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  • Registered Users Posts: 280 ✭✭wellwhynot


    It is ridiculous. I assume the beauticians only wax women. Adult female women do not have a penis and balls. What will a court case do? Force the beauticians to do something they are not comfortable with?


  • Registered Users, Subscribers Posts: 13,434 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    Let's just stop referring to people as male / female and just call people by what genitalia they have. Would make life easier.

    Beaticians who specialise in waxing of those without penis


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,519 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    Its not even 10am on Sunday and this thread has already gone downhill. No one actually seems interested in discussing the news story at the centre of this thread.

    Update: thread has been cleaned up and re-opened. I don’t want to see any the previous sh*t re-reappearing. If it does, there will be cards.

    dudara


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,707 ✭✭✭Bobblehats


    We can't be far off one of these cases here.

    We’re progressing at an astonishing rate aren’t we!

    Onwards and upwards ..


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭coffee_cake


    I'm surprised they're out of work. would something like 'i don't have the expertise' not be a defence?
    sounds like that person is on a crusade to harass beauticians and it is shocking carry on


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,653 ✭✭✭✭Plumbthedepths


    I wonder how long will it be before there is a complete reversal of the present b*llsh*t?


  • Registered Users Posts: 189 ✭✭Naydy


    Unsure if I can post this, mod please feel free to remove/edit if inappropriate. This is a person who has previous form online for sexually harrassing women, racist tweets and describing fantasies of helping little 10 year old girls with their tampons and bonding with them over her "periods".

    She is not someone representative of transgender people and should not be held up as such. I think it's awful that there will likely be an outpouring of ignorant comments towards transgender people in general from this. Transgender women have already come out to roundly condemn her behaviour online and rightly so.

    You can find extracts from the tribunal on Youtube by searching BC human rights tribunal. It is a car crash of a case.


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,519 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I'm surprised they're out of work. would something like 'i don't have the expertise' not be a defence?
    sounds like that person is on a crusade to harass beauticians and it is shocking carry on

    I read a few articles on this earlier. One of the beauticians said that she had refused as she was not trained/experienced in waxing male parts.

    Dig out some of the articles and have a read. The woman at the centre of all this is quite a character (to put it mildly)


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,323 ✭✭✭JustAThought


    Same is going on here up North with a middle aged man demanding to be let dress up in his tutu and do ballet lessons with little girls. And a lot more. Childrens ballet class teacher sued & usual hell breaking out. Its not just the insurance industry who are at fault. As one poster has said -when is common sense and basic human dignity and cop on going to click in.

    I would have said kick in except no doubt I'd be screamed down for projecting violence -hence the bad english.

    This planet driven by lawyers has gone to the dogs.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,969 ✭✭✭✭alchemist33


    Yet another "fringe" (see what I did there?) case by a wacky individual pounced upon by a rightwing website to warn us all of the imminent demise of society. The person here isn't representative of trans people and the case isn't representative of anything. It should be reported as a one-paragraph story on the internet equivalent of page 17.


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 12,611 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Pathetic and ridiculous - and a sad sign of where Western society is going with all this pandering to delusional self-seeking basket cases - and the media for trying to whip it up into a frenzy...


  • Registered Users Posts: 28,118 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    Yet another "fringe" (see what I did there?) case by a wacky individual pounced upon by a rightwing website

    In fairness the times reported on this month's ago, you can't say it's just the right wing having a pop.

    If it was just a guy wanting a wax and no women beauticians would do it i'd support him.
    Myself I know if it's something embarrassing I much prefer going to a female doctor. Haven't had a wax down there but the same would apply.
    I think there's a place in dublin does it but it's all guys doing it for guys.


  • Registered Users Posts: 927 ✭✭✭BuboBubo


    If the beauticians have never waxed this type of *ahem* before they were perfectly right not to do so. If something went wrong they risk injuring the client and could be sued.

    I've been refused haircuts by barbers who only deal with male clients because they aren't trained in female haircutting. Nothing wrong with that.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,969 ✭✭✭✭alchemist33


    In fairness the times reported on this month's ago, you can't say it's just the right wing having a pop.

    If it was just a guy wanting a wax and no women beauticians would do it i'd support him.
    Myself I know if it's something embarrassing I much prefer going to a female doctor. Haven't had a wax down there but the same would apply.
    I think there's a place in dublin does it but it's all guys doing it for guys.

    In that case I'll blame the Times just as much for giving it prominence. "Crank goes to court" was usually just good for a short article, but add in a trans element and now it's controversy gold.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,754 ✭✭✭RobbieTheRobber




    I started reading the "full story" link you provided.
    Couldn't read past the first line for fit's of laughter.
    For proof that the woke war on common SENSE

    So can you fill me in, is this just one person claiming discrimination?
    In which case so what, this won't be the first ridiculous thing brought before a court. I would also not expect it to be a successful claim.


  • Registered Users Posts: 28,118 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    People have already lost their business. It has been successfully to a point.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,646 ✭✭✭_blaaz


    I would imagine management have right to refuse business for any reason?


    (Plus id imagine this would be painful beyond belief :eek: )


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,492 ✭✭✭Sir Oxman


    Naydy wrote: »
    Unsure if I can post this, mod please feel free to remove/edit if inappropriate. This is a person who has previous form online for sexually harrassing women, racist tweets and describing fantasies of helping little 10 year old girls with their tampons and bonding with them over her "periods".

    She is not someone representative of transgender people and should not be held up as such. I think it's awful that there will likely be an outpouring of ignorant comments towards transgender people in general from this. Transgender women have already come out to roundly condemn her behaviour online and rightly so.

    You can find extracts from the tribunal on Youtube by searching BC human rights tribunal. It is a car crash of a case.


    However.
    This person has managed to get Twitter to ban anyone who mentioned his name(s) for the past year which has led to many, many erudite decent professional women being banned and deplatformed for simply requesting that a debate be had about this (IMO) lunatics asylum car crash of an ideological cult and its demands.


    This person lives in Canada which has the most wide ranging and far reaching laws in place which are in reality anti-women laws which is how this person managed to file 16 seperate cases all against immigrant women who do not and never will offer ball waxing - rape crisis centres being defunded due to another trans gender persons complaint (one with political power) that biological men self IDing as women were excluded from a womans space for rape victims.


    This is why this is important.
    This is where any country adopting this cult of self ID can go if debate is blocked by cries of 'transphobe!'


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,230 ✭✭✭jaxxx


    You know what we need? A good old alien invasion, or AI to take over. That'll sort us out, give us a big old dose of a reality check. Lord knows we're desperately in need of one. Better yet, gimme the old red button and I'll push it no probs!


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Maybe he's just trolling..
    Maybe it's a kind of performance art with the intention of shedding light on the absurdity of the current state of affairs..


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  • Registered Users Posts: 7,055 ✭✭✭JohnnyFlash


    dudara wrote: »
    I read a few articles on this earlier. One of the beauticians said that she had refused as she was not trained/experienced in waxing male parts.

    Dig out some of the articles and have a read. The woman at the centre of all this is quite a character (to put it mildly)

    It’s a man with a big set of hairy balls in a dress claiming he’s a woman. It’s an insult to women to be categorising narcissistic and trouble-making attention seekers such as this as one of them.

    There’s something so ‘faith based’ and weirdly conservative about this supposed wave of progressiveness that is being festooned upon us. We accept the dogma without question, and prepare for the public trial if anyone questions the orthodoxy. Science, logic, and reason doesn’t seem to matter. That’s why a man with big hairy balls in a dress can claim to be a woman.


  • Registered Users Posts: 474 ✭✭Umekichi


    I've been following this drama for a while now on another site and the person involved is a creep. The dude involved is convinced he has a period and is obsessed with pads/tampons. He also has been banned from multiple FB groups for harassing women by messaging them about tampons, has used his past work with a kids band to try and hook up with a 13 year old and is also obsessed with "helping" 10-12 year old girls with tampons/pads. On top of that he's obsessed with seeing women naked in the gym, is a racist asshole(even making out that immigrants weren't as clean as him) and has gone after anyone who is slighty critical of him with stupid lawsuits.


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 7,156 Mod ✭✭✭✭cdeb


    Naydy wrote: »
    She is not someone representative of transgender people and should not be held up as such.
    Is that necessarily true?

    Studies have shown that people who identify as a different gender are significantly more likely to be on the autistic spectrum. (See National Geographic Jan 2017 for instance, which mentioned a figure of ten times more likely). This person appears to have mental issues as well going by what you posted about him.

    With autism rates estimated in some places as 2-3% of the general population (US source because a lot of this is US-driven; the Irish rate is around 0.5%), then you're potentially looking at as much as 20-30% of people who identify as another gender being on the autism spectrum.

    He may be on the extreme side of things, but if as many as 30% of people who identify as another gender are on the autism spectrum, then I don't think it's correct to dismiss this person as not representing transgenderism. (Not saying it's right to say they do represent it either, or even that my figures are fully correct - just saying that care needs to be taken in generalisations on either side here)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,646 ✭✭✭_blaaz


    Umekichi wrote: »
    I've been following this drama for a while now on another site and the person involved is a creep. The dude involved is convinced he has a period and is obsessed with pads/tampons. He also has been banned from multiple FB groups for harassing women by messaging them about tampons, has used his past work with a kids band to try and hook up with a 13 year old and is also obsessed with "helping" 10-12 year old girls with tampons/pads. On top of that he's obsessed with seeing women naked in the gym, is a racist asshole(even making out that immigrants weren't as clean as him) and has gone after anyone who is slighty critical of him with stupid lawsuits.

    I suspect you may be getting to nub of why business are turning (him/her??) away....if someone was a compo risk i wouldnt blame anyone for not dealing with em


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭Glass fused light


    In that case I'll blame the Times just as much for giving it prominence. "Crank goes to court" was usually just good for a short article, but add in a trans element and now it's controversy gold.

    Remember the cake that cost half a million?


    This is the exact same thing

    This has been building for years the person filed 16 cases on the basis of gender discrimination

    Asian women who don't do male waxing; the current women all have religeous beliefs that prohibit them having intimate contact with males other that their husbands.

    They received initial contact saying it was for a woman who may be on their period when the waxing was being done
    when they pointed out that the person looked like a man they were eventually told that it was a trans woman looking for the service and they had no right to refuse.


    This person has a long history of posting about how to contact 10 yr old girls th help them with tampons and pads
    Point this out was ignored calling them "he" resulted in a twitter ban


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,543 ✭✭✭Dante7


    _blaaz wrote: »
    I suspect you may be getting to nub of why business are turning (him/her??) away....if someone was a compo risk i wouldnt blame anyone for not dealing with em

    He was turned away because the women didn't want to touch his penis and balls. This is the inevitable outcome of gender self-id and the Trans women are women mantra. Women have been warning that abusive males will use this to target women, but they have been shouted down as terfs and transphobes.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭Glass fused light


    Double post


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    Yet another "fringe" (see what I did there?) case by a wacky individual pounced upon by a rightwing website to warn us all of the imminent demise of society. The person here isn't representative of trans people and the case isn't representative of anything. It should be reported as a one-paragraph story on the internet equivalent of page 17.

    I have to disagree with you. It’s representative of everything that is wrong with society today. This person should not be able to do this and should not be able to harass and threaten women. Should not be able to waist the laws time. Should not be able to do what ever they want without any consequences.

    If I went out and asked women to give me a Brazilian and then start threatening them because they refuse, I’d be arrested.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 582 ✭✭✭Hobosan


    Old media are desperate. They need something which will generate interest until another war comes along, which is always good business for them.

    They just put out the bait and not only do people take it, but attention whores like this will happily oblige them with manufactured stories.


    Nobody can resist looking at the car crash.


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