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Gf doesn't want anything to do with me

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  • #32
    Kidchameleon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    Notauser18 wrote: »
    Hang on you might pay for stuff 75% of the time but is she usually ferrying you around, not drinking alcohol and getting you both home? 75% of someone’s non alcoholic night out is hardly breaking the bank. Is she the only one that drives? Because if so her costs are potentially higher. I’m with both her and her friend on the fact you should have brought her a drink if she wasn’t drinking AND bringing you home. That IS common courtesy irrespective of gender. Your answer was childish and rude plus you disrespected her in front of her friend.


    No this is wrong, read the OP again...

    Hurtandsad wrote: »
    She told me it was common courtesy to buy her a drink because I was a man.


  • #33
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    .. she brought up I lacked common courtesy again and I told her she was one to talk as she failed on a birthday promise to me months ago which meant so much to me.
    I told her how I was doing mentally and how I've been having bad thoughts for the last few weeks. She replied with a copy of paste of her work schedule and told me she could meet me in FOUR days time for tea

    I've a feeling we're all posting into an empty void here because the OP hasn't come back. But these jumped out at me. Did she ever apologise or explain why she didn't come through with this birthday promise? Did she even get you anything for your birthday?

    Telling you she could see you in 4 days time is downright cruel. Where's the kindness and compassion in this woman?

    It also occurred to me when re-reading this that both of you have mental health troubles. Is there some sort of co-dependency thing going on here?


  • #34
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi everyone,

    I've been reading each of your replies. Thank you for replying.

    We broke up not long after I posted this.


  • #35
    zapper55
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 689 ✭✭✭zapper55


    I know it wont feel like this now but you deserve far better. This is the beginning of a new better start. I hope you have a relaxing peaceful Christmas.


  • #36
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,134 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Hurtandsad wrote: »
    Hi everyone,

    I've been reading each of your replies. Thank you for replying.

    We broke up not long after I posted this.

    It was for the best, you deserve far better, your relationship was not healthy.


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  • #37
    Kidchameleon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    Hurtandsad wrote: »
    Hi everyone,

    I've been reading each of your replies. Thank you for replying.

    We broke up not long after I posted this.

    Op your the type of guy who would take her back. Trust me, dont.


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