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How do I get this girl to ignore me

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  • #62
    Mailcoachinn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭Mailcoachinn


    sporina wrote: »
    great - maybe a psychotherapist would be helpful for you

    a good one - accredited etc - will cost you but would be worth it

    Yeh, I’ll try that.

    As for the situation at hand. A nice positive friendship is something that I could aspire to...


  • #63
    sporina
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,130 ✭✭✭sporina


    Mailcoachinn wrote: »
    Yeh, I’ll try that.

    As for the situation at hand. A nice positive friendship is something that I could aspire to...

    good

    well you gotta start with yourself first - then see how you interact with others..

    at least you have awareness.. thats a great start.. you can't do anything without that

    best of luck OP


  • #64
    Mailcoachinn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭Mailcoachinn


    Mailcoachinn wrote: »
    I behaved like a twat to deter someone whose fake personality stuck out my a mile. It worked. Result.

    The other person and me get along very well.

    Or maybe not. Didn’t work. Same person was in the same pub as me tonight. Tried ignoring her but she just wasn’t getting the message.


  • #65
    sporina
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,130 ✭✭✭sporina


    Mailcoachinn wrote: »
    Or maybe not. Didn’t work. Same person was in the same pub as me tonight. Tried ignoring her but she just wasn’t getting the message.

    hi OP, what happened?


  • #66
    Mailcoachinn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭Mailcoachinn


    sporina wrote: »
    hi OP, what happened?

    I just gave her the silent treatment. Did my best impression of The Chief out of One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest. Then I left & went to a different bar


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  • #67
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,746 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Mailcoachinn wrote:
    Or maybe not. Didn’t work. Same person was in the same pub as me tonight. Tried ignoring her but she just wasn’t getting the message.

    It's not very clear from this whether you're referring to the nice person in your OP or the random third party you referenced in subsequent posts. I suspect it's the latter but I'm not sure that people are going to pick up on that.

    I'm also kind of unclear on what we're supposed to be advising on here? Sorry.


  • #68
    Mailcoachinn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 139 ✭✭Mailcoachinn


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    It's not very clear from this whether you're referring to the nice person in your OP or the random third party you referenced in subsequent posts. I suspect it's the latter but I'm not sure that people are going to pick up on that.

    I'm also kind of unclear on what we're supposed to be advising on here? Sorry.

    The latter


  • #69
    Paddy Cow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    Mailcoachinn wrote: »
    The latter
    Just continue to ignore her. From your previous description of your encounter with her, you were extremely rude, to the point where some posters accused you of being aggressive towards women. I never thought that one instance of you being an as$hole makes you aggressive but I don't understand why this woman would still be pursuing you. Either you are reading the signals wrong or she has serious boundary issues. It doesn't sound healthy either way so just limit your contact with her.


  • #70
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 15,636 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    Mailcoachinn, I’m going to lock this now, as I believe your original issue has been resolved.


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