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Abused by a disabled person

  • 01-07-2018 08:40PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    I was waking down a main street in Dublin city centre today. As I approached the corner heading straight on a man in a wheelchair came from around the corner off a side road and almost collided with me. He began shouting at me ‘are you f*ckin blind?* to which I responded ‘no are you?’. He then started calling me every name under the sun as I explained to him I had right of the way. He continued shouting at me, I walked on as I felt uncomfortable and people were staring at me having an argument with a wheelchair user. Was I in the wrong here?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    You meet obnoxious people every now and then. Their being disabled or not is immaterial.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,478 ✭✭✭wexie


    nails1 wrote: »
    I was waking down a main street in Dublin city centre today. As I approached the corner heading straight on a man in a wheelchair came from around the corner off a side road and almost collided with me. He began shouting at me ‘are you f*ckin blind?* to which I responded ‘no are you?’. He then started calling me every name under the sun as I explained to him I had right of the way. He continued shouting at me, I walked on as I felt uncomfortable and people were staring at me having an argument with a wheelchair user. Was I in the wrong here?

    what makes you think you had 'right of way'? I didn't know there was such a thing for pedestrians?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 20,085 ✭✭✭✭_Brian


    In pedestrian terms I’m not sure there is a right of way on the way you mean.

    I think if I walked into some unfortunate in a wheelchair I’d apologise profusely out of guilt and not start a thread rambling on about how you had “right of way” over a wheelchair user.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,209 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    nails1 wrote: »
    I was waking down a main street in Dublin city centre today. As I approached the corner heading straight on a man in a wheelchair came from around the corner off a side road and almost collided with me. He began shouting at me ‘are you f*ckin blind?* to which I responded ‘no are you?’. He then started calling me every name under the sun as I explained to him I had right of the way. He continued shouting at me, I walked on as I felt uncomfortable and people were staring at me having an argument with a wheelchair user. Was I in the wrong here?

    Was with you until the right of way thing...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Did you at least tell him to "fúck off"?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 327 ✭✭SnazzyPig


    nails1 wrote: »
    I was waking down a main street in Dublin city centre today. As I approached the corner heading straight on a man in a wheelchair came from around the corner off a side road and almost collided with me. He began shouting at me ‘are you f*ckin blind?* to which I responded ‘no are you?’. He then started calling me every name under the sun as I explained to him I had right of the way. He continued shouting at me, I walked on as I felt uncomfortable and people were staring at me having an argument with a wheelchair user. Was I in the wrong here?

    Pavements don't operate on a 'right of way' system......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,454 ✭✭✭✭iamwhoiam


    People in wheelchairs are just like everyone else . Some are great , some are rude and some are cranky .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭Eggs For Dinner


    Disabled people are still just people. Twats come in many guises


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,453 ✭✭✭ads20101


    Does it matter?

    I would just deal with it if it was any other person, disabled or not.

    If I felt that I was in the right and someone wants to vent, it really wouldn't bother me. They don't know me, I don't know them, I wouldn't take it to heart. I'd just move on with my life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,236 ✭✭✭Pkiernan


    Make a beeline for the Hapenny Bridge. You'll be safe in the middle.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,667 ✭✭✭harr


    Sounds like he might have a chip on his shoulder , disabled people can be assholes as well as the rest of us...no right of way on a path if it was me I would have apologised and just left him to his rant..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,439 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    This has the makings of being fantastic thread.

    Could you not have told him to go fcuk himself or stick something in the spokes of his wheels.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    This has the makings of being fantastic thread.

    Could you not have told him to go fcuk himself or stick something in the spokes of his wheels.


    Let down his tyres


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 207 ✭✭Chaos Tourist


    Do an Alan Partridge, turn around - grab the handles and give the wheelchair a big push.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭ Yahir Shapely Escalator


    Disabled people are still just people. Twats come in many guises

    some sjw sees/videos it, takes the disabled persons side (not taking sides here but - say if he was in the wrong here) and blows up on twitter "poor disabled person verbally attacked by able bodied person" - it would be like the Ryanair wagon who was at fault but still tried to get a social media backlash against Ryanair

    Your better off not getting involved as it would blow up in your face..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭Mikenesson


    iamwhoiam wrote: »
    People in wheelchairs are just like everyone else . Some are great , some are rude and some are cranky .

    A lot are cranky

    Must be irritating in fairness not being able to walk


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,948 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    This has the makings of being fantastic thread.

    The Bloods vs Crips.

    Like when Sons of Anarchy went to Ireland but with better Irish accents


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,209 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    some sjw sees/videos it, takes the disabled persons side (not taking sides here but - say if he was in the wrong here) and blows up on twitter "poor disabled person verbally attacked by able bodied person" - it would be like the Ryanair wagon who was at fault but still tried to get a social media backlash against Ryanair

    Your better off not getting involved as it would blow up in your face..

    Could you imagine if the only part of conversation recorded was the lad saying he had right of way over the disabled chap..

    lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,610 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    He should have stopped if he was coming from a side street on to a main Street obviously.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭Mikenesson


    Op was lucky he didn't get a good kicking

    Oh wait..


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,175 ✭✭✭dense


    Yes. You should have tipped him over.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,439 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    The Bloods vs Crips.

    Like when Sons of Anarchy went to Ireland but with better Irish accents

    Threads up and runn.. I mean being wheeled along .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    I just felt he was perhaps being aggressive towards me as he’s aware that nobody (or very few) would assault a wheelchair user and he can call me what he likes and gets away with it. I also think that a person walking around a blind corner should be aware that people may be walking straight down a street. I shouldn’t have to stop at each side road to see if a person might be turning onto it. Likewise if I was driving


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,915 ✭✭✭worded


    South Park 2001

    Watch "South park cripple fight with "They Live" side by side" on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/112776990?ref=em-v-share


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,948 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    some sjw sees/videos it, takes the disabled persons side (not taking sides here but - say if he was in the wrong here) and blows up on twitter "poor disabled person verbally attacked by able bodied person" - it would be like the Ryanair wagon who was at fault but still tried to get a social media backlash against Ryanair

    Repeal the Abled!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,097 ✭✭✭amcalester


    In Lidl once and after putting my stuff on the belt I stood back and started daydreaming a bit, listen to music on earphones. I didn’t notice anyone join the queue behind me and hadn’t put a divider down either. I wasn’t blocking access the belt, I’d kind of stood to the side.

    I felt something bump into my ankle, assuming it was a trolley I turned out to see who it was and it was a guy in a wheelchair going mental at me.

    Calling me every name under the sun, that I had no respect, I was a prick, he’d beat the **** out me. I think this was all because I hadn’t put a divider down.

    This went for a minute until I said I wasn’t going to fight him but just because he’s in a wheelchair doesn’t mean he can be a **** to people.

    It kind of ended there as security came over and told him to shut up.

    The whole thing was quite surreal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 653 ✭✭✭Gonad


    First thing I thought of when I seen the title to this thread


    https://youtu.be/SBaFwemRrJ4


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,325 ✭✭✭✭Donald Trump


    Should have just walked up some stairs and said "nah nah nah nah nah. Can't get me"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭Mikenesson


    Gonad wrote: »
    First thing I thought of when I seen the title to this thread


    https://youtu.be/SBaFwemRrJ4

    This one
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UWNvry6o-Ww


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,836 ✭✭✭Fann Linn


    The Bloods vs Crips.

    Like when Sons of Anarchy went to Ireland but with better Irish accents


    I'd love a crip sandwich.


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