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8th amendment referendum part 3 - Mod note and FAQ in post #1

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Wrongway1985


    pitifulgod wrote: »
    You might find the term DIY abortion to be uncomfortable but that's the reality of what many women have to do.

    Particularly in unforseen teenage pregnancies the reality is even financial issues aside, likelihood they got a passport? Options are extremely limited, where do they turn to? Are they suicidal? Such a dangerous position we can allow daughters of our country to be put in.

    For what? All to please the morals of someone who is lucky enough not to go through such circumstances seemingly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    I am pro choice but I would disagree strongly that abortion is kinder than adoption. I work with someone who is adopted and has loving adopted parents despite her natural parents not wanting her.

    Which is why I don't argue that opinion. I can't prove anything beyond what is my own confirmation bias.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    I am pro choice but I would disagree strongly that abortion is kinder than adoption. I work with someone who is adopted and has loving adopted parents despite her natural parents not wanting her.

    My husband is adopted and has very loving parents. He struggles with the fact that he was given up at birth though and that his birth mother still wants nothing to do with him.


  • Posts: 5,917 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    If parents give a child up for adoption, they are stating they are not fit to be parents. This can put any existing children, or future children at risk.

    Also, how do you explain to EVERYONE AROUND YOU why you are growing larger, being pregnant, and then? Nothing. Especially if you already have kids.
    Fair enough, if you want to do that, please do. But expecting someone to do it? Isn't that just a little perverse?

    Was much easier when we had the mother and baby homes to hide them away, and have them work to pay for their behaviour.

    Given that a friend of mine went to England in the 90s to study nursing because she wanted to get away from home, and some of her neighbours were saying she was gone to have the baby or get rid of it, the same type of people will be the ones mocking a girl who gives up a child for adoption or foster care.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Nettle Soup


    Being honest, I've been really cunty to you. I know that. You frustrate me.

    :D I don't think anyone has said that before on Boards.

    RobertKK, I have to say I admire your resilience on this thread. I disagree with you but it takes courage to take a hammering and keep coming back for more.

    I have to ask though - has your stance on the 8th and/or abortion changed in any way since these threads started? I mean, have you learned anything that is making you question your hard stance?
    .


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Just seen on RTE news now, more than 1,000 doctors have declared their support for repeal of the eigth amendment by signing a Declaration which was revealed at the national doctors together for yes in dublin this morning. That should put Spinter65 at ease.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    If parents give a child up for adoption, they are stating they are not fit to be parents. This can put any existing children, or future children at risk.

    Also, how do you explain to EVERYONE AROUND YOU why you are growing larger, being pregnant, and then? Nothing. Especially if you already have kids.
    Fair enough, if you want to do that, please do. But expecting someone to do it? Isn't that just a little perverse?
    And also be judged and outcast by your community and friends for it. Which happened to a colleague of mine, after trying to hide the pregnancy, then it went up for adoption, the word behind her back was never anything positive about the decision. No “good for her, honoring life” or anything just how she was apparently a worthless deadbeat c*nt for not taking care of it herself. She was seventeen with a struggling single parent herself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,383 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    Just up around Camden Street people on the no side handing out flyers...rather trying too.... No one is taking them...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    https://twitter.com/iaclown/status/994940915373563906?s=21


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,059 ✭✭✭✭spookwoman


    January wrote: »
    Thanks for the update that it wasn't actually a Together for Yes campaigner.

    If you click the link on DIY abortion though it gives information on how to import pills from reputable sources such as Women on Web and Women Help. It's not an over reaction, up to five women a day are doing this at present.

    They should not have spoken to your 11 year old daughter though. That I stand by.
    Agreed they should not have spoken with an 11 year old.
    I don't now if anything can be done though except complain because the Waterford god botherers are dragging kids of that age and lower around with them and I know someone said nothing can be done about that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    https://twitter.com/iaclown/status/994940915373563906?s=21

    I'm not keen on that either.

    EDIT: Although targeting is a touch misleading. They're reacting to those yokes and their graphic imagery.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    https://twitter.com/iaclown/status/994940915373563906?s=21
    Weren’t the No side just targeting primary schools this week with posters containing graphic and misleading images of late term terminations and/or stillborns?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Wrongway1985


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    Gives the impression on twitter they were out to counter act potential images of slaughter should they appear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,213 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    https://twitter.com/iaclown/status/994940915373563906?s=21

    They're there to keep those ICBR bastards away.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,213 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    gctest50 wrote: »
    https://www.smh.com.au/healthcare/final-donation-for-man-whose-blood-helped-save-2-4-million-babies-20180511-p4zerp.html


    James Harrison is extraordinary. His blood has helped save the lives of 2.4 million babies

    In Ireland he wouldn't be allowed to donate, having received transfusions himself in the past....

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    It's funny how it took people holding repeal signs for you to say something, and not the No campaigners with graphic and offensive medical imagery.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,059 ✭✭✭✭spookwoman


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Why would anyone from either side of the campaign want to target maternity hospitals for campaigning.
    Some No people were at fault for this before, then we had the Yes.
    I don’t think it helps either side when they do this.

    https://twitter.com/iaclown/status/994940915373563906?s=21


    Looking into their background they are a group setup to block those graphic and obscene images the pro life lot have been displaying outside hospitals.
    I think this was their launch and they wont be out there unless ICBR turn up. I know the Radical Queers are doing the same thing where they go to these ICBR protests and they drape flags etc over the banners

    https://twitter.com/KAClifford/status/994572396748247040
    http://www.universitytimes.ie/2018/05/the-yes-campaigns-guardian-angels/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,831 ✭✭✭✭Water John


    Cork Ceoltas is on in Macroom today. NO campaigners around, with leaflets. This is a cultural street event and a lot of focus on young musicians. Totally inappropriate space to be canvassing in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    "The Lads" picture of the Waterford Co Councillors has hit a Clonmel FB page and its going into break down. Most for, a few god botherers saying what about the babbies but individuals making very good reasoning for Yes. I actually think Clonmel might go Yes. I'm very heartened by it. Repeal all the way, body autonomy for all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    Water John wrote: »
    Cork Ceoltas is on in Macroom today. NO campaigners around, with leaflets. This is a cultural street event and a lot of focus on young musicians. Totally inappropriate space to be canvassing in.

    To be honest, they do have to canvas somewhere.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭erica74


    Anyone know where you can get any prochoice car stickers?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,492 ✭✭✭pleas advice


    Make sure they're repeelable...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭Bredabe


    erica74 wrote: »
    Anyone know where you can get any prochoice car stickers?

    Your local 4 choice group, merch for choice might have some either.

    "Have you ever wagged your tail so hard you fell over"?-Brod Higgins.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭bootpaws


    erica74 wrote: »
    Anyone know where you can get any prochoice car stickers?

    Just be careful where you park if you get one, I've heard of cars being keyed/mirrors being broken from friends who had some.

    Interestingly a few neighbours have Love Both stickers and have suffered no such property damage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,059 ✭✭✭✭spookwoman


    bootpaws wrote: »
    Just be careful where you park if you get one, I've heard of cars being keyed/mirrors being broken from friends who had some.

    Interestingly a few neighbours have Love Both stickers and have suffered no such property damage.

    https://twitter.com/ElaineYoung94/status/995282380821876737


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    I should watch the news more often. Two priests being expelled from Rome after they were caught in bed together! I have no problem with same sex relationships etc, (I voted yes in SSM) its the hypocracy I can't abide. Do as I say, ignore what I do me ar*e.

    Repeal all the way


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭erica74


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    It's funny how it took people holding repeal signs for you to say something, and not the No campaigners with graphic and offensive medical imagery.

    Exactly what I was going to post. Not a peep out of him about the antics of the antichoice side until now:pac:

    New prochoice posters going up around Waterford, yellow background and something like "Vote Yes for dignity and equality".


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,896 ✭✭✭sabat


    body autonomy for all.

    There is no such thing as an absolute right to bodily autonomy, here or anywhere. If there was we wouldn't have a legal system.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    :D I don't think anyone has said that before on Boards.

    RobertKK, I have to say I admire your resilience on this thread. I disagree with you but it takes courage to take a hammering and keep coming back for more.

    I have to ask though - has your stance on the 8th and/or abortion changed in any way since these threads started? I mean, have you learned anything that is making you question your hard stance?
    .

    I have not changed my opinion from what I read or heard, it doesn’t change what is being proposed if Yes wins. I just can’t vote for something when it is something I disagree with. Some argue ‘it won’t affect you’, but it does, I never vote against my conscience as it is something I have to live with it, so I will vote with my conscience and whatever the outcome I will know my conscience is clear, because there would be no point in me voting yes and then acting ignorant as if I didn’t know what Yes would lead to in this case.
    I know looking back on some votes in other referendums that I would change, but I know too that I did what I believed was best then and that is what made it the right decision then.

    I don’t mind people disagreeing with me once they are respectful. I try my best to be towards people, can’t say I always achieve it but we all know how it feels when someone runs us down, it isn’t nice and just causes bigger issues. Most people are fine, I am not one to hold grudges and I take people as they come, but everyone has breaking points.
    I don’t believe any of us should be taking disagreements from this thread and manifesting them elsewhere on the site. We are all human and we have different opinions and that is life.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    I should watch the news more often. Two priests being expelled from Rome after they were caught in bed together! I have no problem with same sex relationships etc, (I voted yes in SSM) its the hypocracy I can't abide. Do as I say, ignore what I do me ar*e.

    Repeal all the way

    What I found really amusing about that was the fact they were out on the session to celebrate to mark the 50th anniversary of the publication of the papal encyclical 'Humanae Vitae'. The thing that marked contraception for married couples as evil.


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