Attractiveness!?

08-05-2018 07:41PM

bluewolf wrote: »

I just saw this. This is comedy gold

Maybe the OP thinks random women are way more interested in what he thinks of them than they are. The likelihood is that she barely registered you.

I don't think other people give nearly as much thought to what you're thinking about them than you to do to what they're thinking about themselves.

Pac1Man · 08-05-2018 08:24PM

You cast the net wide and far with that one Samwise! Top catch. Enough to feed an Ethiopian village at least.

Esel · 08-05-2018 10:36PM

Sam Quentin wrote: »

Jaysizzzz so you think because I put the hand up to acknowledge 'yeah soz pet I just couldn't jump on the brakes there' just tip on over the road behind my car and everything's fine nothing to see here!?
I defo don't know you pet.

Ahhhhh c'mon she knows why I put the aul hand up for...

She probably thought you were planning to drop the aul hand.

professore · 08-05-2018 10:42PM

Shenshen wrote: »

So... you're saying you want women give up in their 20s, too? Stop shaving (washing, too, in some cases), give up on wearing anything but tracksuit bottoms and wash-out sweatshirts, that sort of thing?

A lot of women do that. Some don't even bother changing out of their pyjamas.

Mrsmum · 08-05-2018 11:13PM

Ah no you're probably right. I'd say she hasn't stop crying since.

RacoonQueen · 08-05-2018 11:54PM

Hector Bellend wrote: »

I can never understand this. Why is the importance of physical and sexual attraction played down?

It's not really played down. What is physically or sexually attractive to one, may be stomach churning to another. It's all relative.
Lots of good looking men that I know other women fall all over, who I would notice as 'good looking' but I wouldn't be attracted to them at all. While I've met other men who I'd have barely noticed as attractive when I met them, got to know them a bit and all of a sudden they're drop dead gorgeous to me. It's personality and how we click that attracts my attention. Some women will be initially attracted to how he looks. Not something that is really under anyones control, it's just different people being different.

big b · 09-05-2018 07:48AM

fattymuatty wrote: »

This post is just bizarre. I am a woman in my early 30s and I cannot remember the last time I even considered if someone found me attractive never mind me caring if people do or not. Believe it or not us women actually have lives too. I have a family and a full time job and all the rest that goes with that. I don't give random strangers in cars any thought at all never mind needing them to validate me.

Understandable viewpoint, given your username

only joking, no offence meant.

Outlaw Pete · 09-05-2018 08:32AM

Sam Quentin wrote: »

Look I'll give you an example of my observation from yesterday, and what got me CONVINCED as per my op.

So I'm driving through town at a normal fair speed(there's not much traffic, but a steady flow)a man steps out to the edge of the road in front of me and seems to hesitate as I'm not in a position to brake quite hard and let him cross, as I pass I wave a bit and he waves back in an understanding way.. I see him cross behind my car in my rear view mirror. Grand..
On the same street not to far away a woman steps on to the edge of the road in front of me and attempts to cross hesitating also, again I'm not in a position to brake hard and I continue on, as I pass I give her a wee wave and she just looks at me like I've 2 heads, she actually looks disappointed and sad, I just feel she was disgusted that I didn't find her beautiful enough to jump on my brakes and let her cross over!? That wasn't the case at all, I actually thought she was a grand lookin woman.

Reads like a deleted monologue bar scene from American Psycho :P

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