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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,093 ✭✭✭juneg


    Going against the general trend here but I think Dermot is a right diva himself and wouldn't let anything go with her either. Kept harking back to how many points did I get?, Sneering at her love for all things vintage and girly. Producing the window sample with all the writing on it was petty. She only asked for a separate room for goodness sake.

    If she was a male client everyone would be saying how assertive she was. Because she's a woman she's more likely to be labelled bossy and rude and overbearing. And of course being rural is the kiss of death.
    Incidentally, why do we have a programme in RTI which is essentially a one trick pony? Open plan big glass box? Yes it's lovely don't get me wrong it's always lovely but surely there are other styles of home design out there? That's why I like the programme home of the year because you see very different very quirky homes on it which are prased and valued for being unique and different. I'd be afraid to go on RTI to have the nation sneering at me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,545 ✭✭✭jooksavage


    Lot of hate for the clients. I don't know if its entirely justified but they'd definitely wreck my head if they were my clients and I think they've made some questionable choices. Banon is well known for his fondness for open plan - he's got a style (in my humble opinion he's a bit of a one-trick pony aetehtics-wise) so I dont really know why the clients expected something entirely different from him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,594 ✭✭✭✭yabadabado


    She was not "working with" Dermot really, he was supposed to work for her.
    They were working towards a common goal the least you can show someone is a little respect.He is working for her but that doesn't mean she has to talk down to him or roll her eyes like a spoilt child anytime he says something she doesn't like.

    You can be assertive without being rude.I have absolutely no time for Bannon but I don't think anyone should have to deal with that ****.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,183 ✭✭✭jobless


    juneg wrote: »
    Going against the general trend here but I think Dermot is a right diva himself and wouldn't let anything go with her either. Kept harking back to how many points did I get?, Sneering at her love for all things vintage and girly. Producing the window sample with all the writing on it was petty. She only asked for a separate room for goodness sake.

    If she was a male client everyone would be saying how assertive she was. Because she's a woman she's more likely to be labelled bossy and rude and overbearing. And of course being rural is the kiss of death.
    Incidentally, why do we have a programme in RTI which is essentially a one trick pony? Open plan big glass box? Yes it's lovely don't get me wrong it's always lovely but surely there are other styles of home design out there? That's why I like the programme home of the year because you see very different very quirky homes on it which are prased and valued for being unique and different. I'd be afraid to go on RTI to have the nation sneering at me.

    nothing to do with her being a woman.... she was rude and obnoxious at times and people would say the same if it were a man


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 210 ✭✭Windorah


    I did feel uncomfortable watching some of the interactions between herself and Dermot. 100% she could have conducted herself better BUT this is a tv show. It has been edited and possibly manipulated to make certain people look a certain way. I have no idea how I would come across on a tv show. I definitely don't want to find out either!!!

    At the end of the day it's her house and her money. Dermot was a strange choice of architect given her style but hey!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,594 ✭✭✭✭yabadabado


    juneg wrote: »
    Going against the general trend here but I think Dermot is a right diva himself and wouldn't let anything go with her either. Kept harking back to how many points did I get?, Sneering at her love for all things vintage and girly. Producing the window sample with all the writing on it was petty. She only asked for a separate room for goodness sake.

    If she was a male client everyone would be saying how assertive she was. Because she's a woman she's more likely to be labelled bossy and rude and overbearing. And of course being rural is the kiss of death.
    Incidentally, why do we have a programme in RTI which is essentially a one trick pony? Open plan big glass box? Yes it's lovely don't get me wrong it's always lovely but surely there are other styles of home design out there? That's why I like the programme home of the year because you see very different very quirky homes on it which are prased and valued for being unique and different. I'd be afraid to go on RTI to have the nation sneering at me.


    Give over it has nothing to do with her being female. That's just a cop out.

    The rural thing is also without merit.


  • Posts: 3,686 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    juneg wrote: »
    Going against the general trend here but I think Dermot is a right diva himself and wouldn't let anything go with her either. Kept harking back to how many points did I get?, Sneering at her love for all things vintage and girly. Producing the window sample with all the writing on it was petty. She only asked for a separate room for goodness sake.

    If she was a male client everyone would be saying how assertive she was. Because she's a woman she's more likely to be labelled bossy and rude and overbearing. And of course being rural is the kiss of death.
    Incidentally, why do we have a programme in RTI which is essentially a one trick pony? Open plan big glass box? Yes it's lovely don't get me wrong it's always lovely but surely there are other styles of home design out there? That's why I like the programme home of the year because you see very different very quirky homes on it which are prased and valued for being unique and different. I'd be afraid to go on RTI to have the nation sneering at me.


    WRONG. Bad manners is bad manners whether you're a man or a woman. End of.

    RTI is a different model to Home of the Year. Home of the Year is basically just a programme to admire the finished result and its mostly aesthetic.
    Huge budgets are involved but neither these or the architects are part of the programme model.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    She seemed determined to go against his ideas and advice at every single turn -just to be right .
    I think she actually admitted straight out, twice, that she wouldn't like something because Dermot does.

    It's clear that collaborative work is something she is just no good at. It's not just that "she has assertiveness and strong ideas", but she cannot comprehend a scenario where she is not calling all the shots. So even if Dermot comes up with a good idea, she has to shoot it down to give the illusion that she's in charge. If she agrees with him, then in her eyes she has relinquished some control.
    She literally should have drawn what she wants on a piece of paper, given it to a builder and told them to build it. Because that's actually what she wanted.

    I wouldn't say it's a teacher thing. You get lots of people like this. They often end up in middle-management positions stumbling their way through mediocrity, with staff who absolutely hate their guts, because no work gets done unless it was her idea.
    What I was wondering, with all that space, dressing room and so on, does she have a desk somewhere? Does she do her corrections, lesson prep at the kichen table?
    Hubby has a desk in the boot/mud room, but what about her?
    Seems strange that she didn't seem to think of that.
    I got the impression from the husband's one and only monologue that she had given up the teaching to pursue housewifery as a full-time career just like her mother before her.

    Disappointed Dermot didn't investigate the downstairs bedroom thing in more depth. Understandable if they have a sick relative that will likely move in with them inside 2 years. But two people in their 20s worrying about the day someone might not be able to make it up the stairs? Wtf. The husband gave the impression that he genuinely wanted it in case he injured himself on the farm.

    Maybe it's one of those things his father or uncle had been drilling into him for years, "Always have somewhere to sleep downshtairs, so even if you've two broken legs you can drag yourself out to help with the calving".

    Altogether a bizarre pair. Your man would have lived in the barn with a telly and been happy. The house wasn't just old, it was a complete tiphead and he was like, "Ah sure, it's grand".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,981 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    juneg wrote: »
    Going against the general trend here but I think Dermot is a right diva himself and wouldn't let anything go with her either. Kept harking back to how many points did I get?, Sneering at her love for all things vintage and girly. Producing the window sample with all the writing on it was petty. She only asked for a separate room for goodness sake.

    If she was a male client everyone would be saying how assertive she was. Because she's a woman she's more likely to be labelled bossy and rude and overbearing. And of course being rural is the kiss of death.
    Incidentally, why do we have a programme in RTI which is essentially a one trick pony? Open plan big glass box? Yes it's lovely don't get me wrong it's always lovely but surely there are other styles of home design out there? That's why I like the programme home of the year because you see very different very quirky homes on it which are prased and valued for being unique and different. I'd be afraid to go on RTI to have the nation sneering at me.
    jooksavage wrote: »
    Lot of hate for the clients. I don't know if its entirely justified but they'd definitely wreck my head if they were my clients and I think they've made some questionable choices. Banon is well known for his fondness for open plan - he's got a style (in my humble opinion he's a bit of a one-trick pony aetehtics-wise) so I dont really know why the clients expected something entirely different from him.

    I think this is the main problem with RTI now and going forward. Dermot's running out of ideas and so many of his designs start becoming so similar and recycled. Even his initial design externally that he showed them was a flat roof box with a smaller flat roof box on top of it.

    Additionally, the clients are now so used to Dermot and know what he's like that they don't give him his flexibility he used to enjoy. They know the tricks he uses to try and convince them to go along with his ideas and shut him down almost instantly now. He hasn't really seemed happy with a few of the projects this year because of how the clients have overruled him on so much.

    I'm starting to wonder if they'd be better off with a new architect for the show altogether.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,910 ✭✭✭Poor_old_gill


    seamus wrote: »
    I think she actually admitted straight out, twice, that she wouldn't like something because Dermot does.

    It's clear that collaborative work is something she is just no good at. It's not just that "she has assertiveness and strong ideas", but she cannot comprehend a scenario where she is not calling all the shots. So even if Dermot comes up with a good idea, she has to shoot it down to give the illusion that she's in charge. If she agrees with him, then in her eyes she has relinquished some control.
    She literally should have drawn what she wants on a piece of paper, given it to a builder and told them to build it. Because that's actually what she wanted.

    I wouldn't say it's a teacher thing. You get lots of people like this. They often end up in middle-management positions stumbling their way through mediocrity, with staff who absolutely hate their guts, because no work gets done unless it was her idea.
    I got the impression from the husband's one and only monologue that she had given up the teaching to pursue housewifery as a full-time career just like her mother before her.

    Disappointed Dermot didn't investigate the downstairs bedroom thing in more depth. Understandable if they have a sick relative that will likely move in with them inside 2 years. But two people in their 20s worrying about the day someone might not be able to make it up the stairs? Wtf. The husband gave the impression that he genuinely wanted it in case he injured himself on the farm.

    Maybe it's one of those things his father or uncle had been drilling into him for years, "Always have somewhere to sleep downshtairs, so even if you've two broken legs you can drag yourself out to help with the calving".

    Altogether a bizarre pair. Your man would have lived in the barn with a telly and been happy. The house wasn't just old, it was a complete tiphead and he was like, "Ah sure, it's grand".

    The husband didn't genuinely want anything- he did (and wanted) what he was told


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,600 ✭✭✭A2LUE42


    What I was wondering, with all that space, dressing room and so on, does she have a desk somewhere? Does she do her corrections, lesson prep at the kichen table?
    Hubby has a desk in the boot/mud room, but what about her?
    Seems strange that she didn't seem to think of that.

    I know a lot of teacher and they generally they just correct at the kitchen table or a table in the house if they are doing corrections at home.
    I assumed that the 'reading room' parlor was going to meet this need in the coming years. Then when that room was being occupied, the other closed off space would be used for this function.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    Why does Dermot always do renovations or bitty extensions.

    If he's so passionate about showing off his style, why isn't there a RTI client with a plot asking him to build from scratch?

    I know builders around the tipp. area who would have easily levelled that house and built a better and bigger house for 200k. 3 tiny bedrooms was a joke. The lad had acres of space, Dermot treated it like a terraced house in Dublin with feck all options


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,785 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    what is a parlour room anyway?


  • Posts: 3,686 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Why does Dermot always do renovations or bitty extensions.

    If he's so passionate about showing off his style, why isn't there a RTI client with a plot asking him to build from scratch?

    I know builders around the tipp. area who would have easily levelled that house and built a better and bigger house for 200k. 3 tiny bedrooms was a joke. The lad had acres of space, Dermot treated it like a terraced house in Dublin with feck all options

    .................because its called "Room to Improve"!
    It was originally about just doing up a few rooms in the recession, then became more about extensions as people had slightly bigger budgets.
    Its not call" knock my house down and build a new one".

    You can't blame Dermot for this. This is the remit of the show. Speak to RTE and the producers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    .................because its called "Room to Improve"!
    It was originally about just doing up a few rooms in the recession, then became more about extensions as people had slightly bigger budgets.
    Its not call" knock my house down and build a new one".

    You can't blame Dermot for this. This is the remit of the show. Speak to RTE and the producers.

    For sentimental reasons the husband didn’t want the place flattened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,265 ✭✭✭✭iamwhoiam


    lawred2 wrote: »
    what is a parlour room anyway?

    a good room where people used to bring the priest in for a cup of tea ! No one else could use it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,594 ✭✭✭✭yabadabado


    lawred2 wrote: »
    what is a parlour room anyway?

    Afaik just an older term for a sitting room.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,981 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    Why does Dermot always do renovations or bitty extensions.

    If he's so passionate about showing off his style, why isn't there a RTI client with a plot asking him to build from scratch?

    I know builders around the tipp. area who would have easily levelled that house and built a better and bigger house for 200k. 3 tiny bedrooms was a joke. The lad had acres of space, Dermot treated it like a terraced house in Dublin with feck all options

    The show is called Room To Improve. It's specifically aimed at extending and renovating existing houses. Knocking an existing house to build a new one or just starting from a greenfield site would be antithetical to the premise of the show.

    Also, you wouldn't have built a better and bigger house for 200k. Taking the SCSI House Rebuilding Calculator as a guide and using Waterford as the nearest comparative area (and lowest rates for the purposes of this example), for 200k at €1,458/m² you'd be able to build 137m². That'd just about be enough for the ground floor only with no first floor and that's with pretty standard/basic level of finishes. Plus those figures are August 2017. Rates have risen probably by almost 5% since then too.

    https://www.scsi.ie/documents/get_lob?id=56&field=file


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,516 ✭✭✭matrim


    iamwhoiam wrote: »
    a good room where people used to bring the priest in for a cup of tea ! No one else could use it

    It's where you use the good china


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,785 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    iamwhoiam wrote: »
    a good room where people used to bring the priest in for a cup of tea ! No one else could use it

    ah my Nan had one of those

    was bleedin baltic in there... it also had a china cabinet


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,174 ✭✭✭RhubarbCrumble


    Just catching up on this now. I'm not Dermot's biggest fan, but I felt sorry for him last night. Katie was downright rude and ignorant. You can be firm and get your point across, but you can do it politely. You don't need to be so condescending, like she was.
    Much as I feel sorry for Dermot, my real sympathies lie with the poor husband. The phrase 'under the thumb' springs to mind.
    If that's what she's like with adults, I'd hate to be one of the poor kids that she teaches.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,633 ✭✭✭✭Buford T. Justice XIX


    It's rare that you come across a lad who has been that beaten down- even when asked to rate Dermot at the end he nearly sh*t himself incase he gave the wrong answer and so just told her to answer instead
    No, I'd say he just doesn't care much about what's in the house. He would have been quite content living in the unimproved house and I reckon he just sees it as a functional space to sleep and eat in. Especially as he would be spending most of his time outside the house anyway.

    I don't get the 'hate' for either person, tbh. They have a relationship that works to their satisfaction and they are perfectly content with it. More power to them and I hope they enjoy their refurbished house for many long years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 493 ✭✭Billgirlylegs


    heldel00 wrote: »
    Ah lads, same as everything in this house she is stuck in the past. She is a real aul bossy boots "Is mise an múinteoir" but please don't tar all teachers with the same brush.
    We're not all raving aul biddies!

    Yeah. Right:pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74,284 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    If the home owner could have shown the graciousness about the house he delivered that he showed for the china cabinets then we all could have lived happily ever after.

    She wasn't very gracious and seemed to need to 'win'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,776 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    Penn wrote: »
    I thought the clients were great. Ultimately, you have an idea what you want before bringing in Dermot in order to give him a brief to work with.

    They should be hiring a suitable architect if that was their plan. It's like walking into a high end restaurant and then demanding the deep fry your fish like you usually get in the chipper. If you wanted chipper food, go to the chipper. Don't go to the restaurant and complain because they product being delivered is different that what you wanted.

    People need to realise that every architect is different, with massive variances in style, so they need to research before hiring one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,910 ✭✭✭Poor_old_gill


    No, I'd say he just doesn't care much about what's in the house. He would have been quite content living in the unimproved house and I reckon he just sees it as a functional space to sleep and eat in. Especially as he would be spending most of his time outside the house anyway.

    I don't get the 'hate' for either person, tbh. They have a relationship that works to their satisfaction and they are perfectly content with it. More power to them and I hope they enjoy their refurbished house for many long years.

    Disliking someone’s attitude when they show themselves to be obnoxious, petty and aggressive is not being a ‘hater’- it’s being, relatively, normal.

    I don’t hate the woman at all- I just really disliked her attitude

    If I was in a restaurant/shop and someone was behaving like that towards staff then if not be too happy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,981 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    Quazzie wrote: »
    They should be hiring a suitable architect if that was their plan. It's like walking into a high end restaurant and then demanding the deep fry your fish like you usually get in the chipper. If you wanted chipper food, go to the chipper. Don't go to the restaurant and complain because they product being delivered is different that what you wanted.

    People need to realise that every architect is different, with massive variances in style, so they need to research before hiring one.

    But ultimately, you don't know what design Dermot (or any architect) is going to come up with. They asked him for certain things and in his initial design, he didn't include them. He didn't fully follow the brief he was given, which he likely could have even as part of his initial design. He had a huge rooflight over the side extension and a different type of cladding on the rear extension. Had he taken those out, he may have been able to build the additional bedroom on the first floor and included a wall to close off the living room and still remained within budget (or close enough that they may have been okay with it). It seems like that is what they ended up going with in the end (as the rooflight was gone and they didn't show the rear of the house so it's likely the finish/design of it was very plain).

    But considering they're not the experts in how much the project would cost, Dermot sacrificed things from their brief to enhance his design. They couldn't have known he would do that before hiring him, because they were hoping he could meet their brief, with his design features, within budget.

    It wasn't the style of Dermot's design they were unhappy with, it was losing things they had wanted in their brief.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,592 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    The lengths some lads will take "happy wife, quiet life" to are incredible... Katie was a typical bully and I'm glad she's not teaching my kids. Would feel very sorry for the husband, he's going to have a *long* life or end up losing the family farm if he ever stands up to her. The comments on the mother seemed a little unfair though, sure, she was a total throwback to an earlier time of china cabinets and dressing up to the nine's for the priest's visit but she seemed perfectly friendly and polite. The daughter may have picked up a few of her tastes but clearly missed out on her manners.

    What can you say about the house? The kitchen was nice. though I'd have solid doors on the "china" cabinets - they made her home look like a tourist trap gift shop.

    A "broken plan" solution with quadruple width bi-folding doors would have worked much better than the pokey sliding ones in the infamous "wall".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,776 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    Penn wrote: »
    But ultimately, you don't know what design Dermot (or any architect) is going to come up with. They asked him for certain things and in his initial design, he didn't include them. He didn't fully follow the brief he was given, which he likely could have even as part of his initial design. He had a huge rooflight over the side extension and a different type of cladding on the rear extension. Had he taken those out, he may have been able to build the additional bedroom on the first floor and included a wall to close off the living room and still remained within budget (or close enough that they may have been okay with it). It seems like that is what they ended up going with in the end (as the rooflight was gone and they didn't show the rear of the house so it's likely the finish/design of it was very plain).

    But considering they're not the experts in how much the project would cost, Dermot sacrificed things from their brief to enhance his design. They couldn't have known he would do that before hiring him, because they were hoping he could meet their brief, with his design features, within budget.

    It wasn't the style of Dermot's design they were unhappy with, it was losing things they had wanted in their brief.

    The "design" they were going for, could've been provided by any local engineer who could produce drawings exactly like the client wanted. She didn't need Dermot, so perhaps it was just the bit of TV time they wanted?

    Dermot's aim, like most architects is to provide a livable space which fits in around the needs of the client. He done that with his initial design, while also staying true to himself and his design philosophies.

    This is another reason why the show shouldn't centre on Dermot, or at least include guest architects every week because then you can have a wider range of designs and also a wider range of clients. We're at a stage, where the subset of people who both want a Dermot Bannon style house, and who want to appear on TV is saturated, so now we're with people who just want to be on TV.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 857 ✭✭✭foxyladyxx


    Penn wrote: »
    But ultimately, you don't know what design Dermot (or any architect) is going to come up with. They asked him for certain things and in his initial design, he didn't include them. He didn't fully follow the brief he was given, which he likely could have even as part of his initial design. He had a huge rooflight over the side extension and a different type of cladding on the rear extension. Had he taken those out, he may have been able to build the additional bedroom on the first floor and included a wall to close off the living room and still remained within budget (or close enough that they may have been okay with it). It seems like that is what they ended up going with in the end (as the rooflight was gone and they didn't show the rear of the house so it's likely the finish/design of it was very plain).

    But considering they're not the experts in how much the project would cost, Dermot sacrificed things from their brief to enhance his design. They couldn't have known he would do that before hiring him, because they were hoping he could meet their brief, with his design features, within budget.



    It wasn't the style of Dermot's design they were unhappy with, it was losing things they had wanted in their brief.

    I think at the end of the day it is a reality show .. so the more controversy the best . Who knows what part the bossy teacher was expected to play in the latest RTI.. .I know other reality TV shows are largely scripted. so I don't pay a lot of attention to the actual show.

    That said that woman seemed to be very antagonistic, the husband a door mat and Dermot a know it all .


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