How "hot" would you consider yourself?

I made another thread attempting to broach the particulars of male to female "hotness" - but it was basically a non-event.

The visual summation of the general response provided could be encapsulated by the image:


However - in the midst of the general confusion, I did manage to get off a couple of gnarly hook up stories.

It was actually kind of fun thinking back on them.

So, as a means to kind of expound on others views as to that topic further - we could start off with, "I consider myself **insert description here** on the scale of hotness - and that was reflected on the occasion where...." - and then you finish the story.


I'll go first:

For me - hotness varies widely.
Well, I don't think it's just for me. I think it tends to go that way for many - though I suspect women are more aware of this than men.

By example - the right outfit can make all the difference or, a few extra pounds can make all the detriment.

I am no exception to this rule.

The, "it's all 'bout confidence" argument.
I don't want to hear it!!

I would say it's more about energy - which can often be dependant on whether I'm feeling good or no - had a good week or no - that type of thing.

So again, for me - it varies.

One time my housemate had two women over for, I dunno - I guess dinner or something. Just to visit though, primarily.
I wasn't living with him that long, and didn't know him very well, and he was quite a bit older than me.

Anyways, later in the evening, he basically said, "Jennifer is into you dude". Jennifer being the friend of the woman I assumed he was hooking up with.
"We're gonna hit the city center for a while, leave you two here to get comfortable".

Sure enough, off they go, and me and Jennifer are left sat in front of the TV.
She suggests a movie.
I throw one on.
This was followed by a quick makeout session, after which I dragged her into my bedroom.

Now, I've said about 100 words total to this girl all evening, and the 101st, 102nd, 103rd and 104th were, "do you have condoms?".

I can't say it was particularly good, but it was actually in a new city for me, new country, new apartment - so it was nice to, sow some oats in this new territory - put it that way.

I was actually I think, 23 when this happened - so I think she found it hot that she was hooking up with a younger man.

I can't say I was basically like Juan at that particular juncture in time, but it was a good indicator that the potential was there.
It's funny, a guy at work said to me not to long before that, "you're a good guy, but you got a lot to learn".

I thought he was patronizing me but - he was so absolutely spot on at the time.
Point being - I would learn whole lot moving forward - and I could equate firmly the sexual experiences I'd have - their quality, as it were - with my development, understanding, mindset - and the resultant energy and positivity I would express as a result of that.


Now - what you got for me?