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Can a Christian vote for unlimited abortion?

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,611 ✭✭✭david75


    Really really really desperate at this stage


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    of course there should be an investigation and trial. my point was that if it's woman shaming to say that someone who has an abortion on demand must be ashamed of their actions, then it's woman shaming to say that someone convicted of killing a newborn must be ashamed.
    The law doesnt allow women to be tried for abortions carried out abroad because of the 13th amendment.
    Are you suggesting that should be changed?

    Also, women could probably be charged for procuring and using the abortion pill but nobody seems prepared to suggest this should be done. Do you think it should?

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,508 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    volchitsa wrote: »
    The law doesnt allow women to be tried for abortions carried out abroad because of the 13th amendment.
    Are you suggesting that should be changed?

    Also, women could probably be charged for procuring and using the abortion pill but nobody seems prepared to suggest this should be done. Do you think it should?

    yes i do in both cases think such should happen. however i know it's not going to happen so the current situation is the next best thing.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    yes i do in both cases think such should happen. however i know it's not going to happen so the current situation is the next best thing.
    "The next best thing"? Really? Several thousand legal deaths of "children" every year?

    Are you serious?

    If I believed what you say you do, I'd feel obliged to do something to stop it, I'd write letters to the newspapers and to my TD every week, march outside ferryports and Dublin airport, keep on and on until people started to listen. Or until I was arrested for being a public nuisance ;)

    But no way would I think it was ok to have thousands of children being murdered every single year.

    If you really believe it.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Except it's not, it's closer to the norm in most of Europe than the British 24 week/access controlled law is.

    And what is really radical is a ban that requires a woman to be at risk of death before abortion is allowed.

    You also seem to be contradicting yourself. You said it was more radical than British law, but that if it passed, Ireland would inevitably move towrds the British form all the same.
    Abortion on demand up to 12 weeks is more radical than the English controlled access law (up to 12 weeks).

    You are correct that the English controlled access Law applies for twice this time i.e. to 24 weeks ... and it is this next step that I think will inevitably happen ... because the 8th is being repealed primarily to remove the need for Irish women going to England for abortions ... at any stage allowed under English law.
    volchitsa wrote: »
    Looks like a clear case of having your scaremongering cake and eating it, to me.
    No scaremongering ... just stating the facts ... and what is likely to happen if the 8th is removed ... and if people are scared by that (and many will be) ... then they need to vote to retain the 8th.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    If it has the same meaning, what is the difference? You'd prefer it not to sound quite as bad, is that all?

    But in fact your version is untrue, it's not "any threat to her life at all" it has to be "a real and substantial risk" to her life. Not a potential risk to her life, and not a small risk to her life.

    That was part of the hospital's defence in the investigation into Savita Hallapanavar, IIRC, that she had to be at over 50% risk of death, and since there is no way of measuring the change from 49% to 51%, they were not at obvious fault for having missed that.

    And yes, refusing to treat someone because even though their health is in danger, they are not yet at substantial risk of death is pretty shocking. Would you really be happy to be told that your ongoing heart problems were not yet bad enough to be treated, even though you were in pain and your health was suffering, and they would wait until you were actually at risk of dying before beginning treatment?
    Legislation should have been passed implementing the 8th amendment long before 2013 ... to clarify exactly when and where abortion is allowed ... and when it isn't.
    This wasn't done until 2013 and it was a serious omission that it wasn't.

    In relation to treatment for a mothers health condition, there is no restriction on such treatment, even where an unborn child dies as a result of such treatment ... what is not allowed is that the unborn child be killed directly and/or before treatment commences.
    Of course, if the woman's health issues are at a point where they are threatening her life, an abortion can be carried out.
    All very civilised and with maximum concern and care for both the mother and her baby.

    What isn't allowed currently ... is where a woman and her partner simply wants rid of the baby i.e. abortion on demand ... and for no reason.
    This is what that the removal of the 8th is actually all about ... and this is proven to be the case, by the proposal for abortion on demand to immediately follow the repeal of the 8th.

    If the 8th is repealed and abortion on demand is introduced ... there will be absolute legal protection for frog spawn in Ireland ... and no legal protection for unborn Human Beings up to 12 weeks.

    This is the situation in most European countries ... you can kill your unborn child with impunity ... but if you were to harm of kill wildlife ... its off to jail with a good finger-wagging from the very pseudo-liberals who are pro-abortion.

    I'm not saying that wildlife shouldn't be protected ... merely that Human Beings deserve at least the same protection under law ... as frog spawn.
    Not a lot to ask ... is it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    ....... wrote: »
    Provide evidence to back this assertion please? You are wrong.

    There are a number of different definitions but all pregnancies carry a risk of death.

    source
    Being alive carries a risk of death ... indeed the certainty of death, at some point in the future ... so are you going to resolve this risk by killing unborn people?
    ... or should we simply try and mitigate the risks of death as best we can ... until death finally finds us all?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,508 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    volchitsa wrote: »
    "The next best thing"? Really? Several thousand legal deaths of "children" every year?

    Are you serious?

    If I believed what you say you do, I'd feel obliged to do something to stop it, I'd write letters to the newspapers and to my TD every week, march outside ferryports and Dublin airport, keep on and on until people started to listen. Or until I was arrested for being a public nuisance

    But no way would I think it was ok to have thousands of children being murdered every single year.

    If you really believe it.

    abortion on demand just because isn't okay. however the reason why the current situation is the next best thing, is it imposes difficulty on people who want to have an abortion outside medical necessity, and it possibly deterrs some from having one. no law stops everyone from commiting an act.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    abortion on demand just because isn't okay. however the reason why the current situation is the next best thing, is it imposes difficulty on people who want to have an abortion outside medical necessity, and it possibly deterrs some from having one. no law stops everyone from commiting an act.

    Women still had abortions when it was both deadly dangerous and punished by severe sanctions so a law that allows them to have one as long as they use Ryanair is hardly likely to be very effective.

    It's also irrelevant, if you really think abortion is the equivalent of murder.
    Would you be satisfied with the same level of deterrent to murder? A long prison sentence but which the Min for Justice said was not intended to be used in cases of murder? In a context of several thousand known murders a year?

    I don't think so.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    J C wrote: »
    Being alive carries a risk of death ... indeed the certainty of death, at some point in the future ... so are you going to resolve this risk by killing unborn people?
    ... or should we simply try and mitigate the risks of death as best we can ... until death finally finds us all?

    We dont force other people to risk their lives against their will though.
    Except pregnant women in Ireland.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    We dont force other people to risk their lives against their will though.
    Except pregnant women in Ireland.
    Firstly its a gross exaggeration to say that a normal pregnancy causes any significant increased risk to a womans life.

    We don't 'force' people to do many things ... but we do 'force' them to live up to contracts that they have entered into ... and one such 'contract' is when a woman becomes pregnant.

    If, as a society, we 'force' somebody to pay an extortionate mortgage over 30-40 years ... where its only money that is involved ... surely when its a matter of life and death, it's not too much to expect that a pregnant woman will go through with her pregnancy over 9 months and not kill her child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 626 ✭✭✭Bob_Marley


    volchitsa wrote: »
    We dont force other people to risk their lives against their will though.
    Except pregnant women in Ireland.

    No, instead you take the lives of the innocent unborn.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Women still had abortions when it was both deadly dangerous and punished by severe sanctions so a law that allows them to have one as long as they use Ryanair is hardly likely to be very effective.
    If it's as ineffective, as you say it is ... then why are the pro-abortion lobby so committed to repealing the 8th?

    In fact it has been claimed that 270,000 Irish people are alive today because abortion wasn’t available in Ireland.
    FactCheck Quote:-

    "Figures provided by the Life Institute show that it was calculated in this way:

    Calculate the abortion rate in Ireland and in Britain every year since 1984, the year after the 8th Amendment was implemented
    Assume abortion became legal in 1984, and apply the British abortion rate to the number of pregnancies in Ireland every year
    All other things being equal, this yields the number of abortions that would have occurred in Ireland without the ban on abortion
    The difference between this number, and the number of abortions actually undergone by Irish women in England and Wales is, according to the rubric, the number of abortions prevented by the 8th Amendment and the abortion ban.
    That number is 270,520."

    How many of those 270,000 people are going to vote to repeal something that kept them alive ?
    ... like somebody sawing a branch of a tree that they are sitting on.
    volchitsa wrote: »
    It's also irrelevant, if you really think abortion is the equivalent of murder.
    Would you be satisfied with the same level of deterrent to murder? A long prison sentence but which the Min for Justice said was not intended to be used in cases of murder? In a context of several thousand known murders a year?

    I don't think so.
    Just because we don't like something doesn't mean that we can legally prosecute it. For example, bull fighting is illegal in Ireland and legal in Spain. If somebody were to engage in Bull fighting in Ireland they would be prosecuted and given a stiff prison sentence for animal cruelty.
    However, if they were to travel to Spain and engage in bull fighting there ... they couldn't be prosecuted in Ireland upon their return ... despite the strong opposition of the average Irish person, to what they had done in Spain.
    You cannot prosecute somebody for doing something in another juristiction that is legal there, upon their return home.

    Equally, foxhunting is legal in Ireland and illegal in England ... and if an Englishman comes to Ireland and engages in foxhunting they cannot and will not be prosecuted upon their return to England.

    This isn't 'nimbyism' ... its just the legal reality that as long as we obey the laws of every juristiction we visit ... we cannot be prosecuted anywhere ... which is very reasonable IMO.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,611 ✭✭✭david75


    abortion on demand just because isn't okay. however the reason why the current situation is the next best thing, is it imposes difficulty on people who want to have an abortion outside medical necessity, and it possibly deterrs some from having one. no law stops everyone from commiting an act.


    Listen to yourself. And do some reading. Women with FFA on the cards are still having to travel for abortion. Unless you support forcing them to give birth to a baby that won’t survive?
    Have all the facts before you make such statements will you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,508 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    david75 wrote: »
    Listen to yourself. And do some reading. Women with FFA on the cards are still having to travel for abortion. Unless you support forcing them to give birth to a baby that won’t survive?
    Have all the facts before you make such statements will you?

    i have all the facts. hence being happy with the decisian i have made in terms of how i'm going to vote. i have stated plenty of times that FFA is a case where abortion should be permitted, but i believe this can be allowed via the existing law, hence i won't be voting for repeal in an aim to allow abortion in the circumstances where i believe it must be provided.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    david75 wrote: »
    Listen to yourself. And do some reading. Women with FFA on the cards are still having to travel for abortion. Unless you support forcing them to give birth to a baby that won’t survive?
    Have all the facts before you make such statements will you?
    The FFA is not at all as simple as you are portraying it ... very much the reverse, in fact.

    Quote (Irish Times):-
    "UN bodies clash over abortion in cases of fatal foetal abnormalities
    Disability committee says no guarantee whether impairments are fatal or not

    Two influential United Nations bodies have disagreed sharply over whether abortion should be allowed in countries such as Ireland in cases where there are fatal foetal abnormalities.

    The UN’s Human Rights Committee has for years argued that women should have access to abortion in all cases where the “foetus suffers from fatal impairment”.

    However, the UN Committee on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities has recently objected to this view, in a paper replying to a list of recommendations made by its sister UN body.

    Objecting to “fatal foetal impairments” being used as a specific ground for abortion, the disability committee said such an approach was risky given there was no guarantee as to whether or not a foetal abnormality was fatal.

    “Even if the condition is considered fatal, there is still a decision made on the basis of impairment. Often it cannot be said if an impairment is fatal. Experience shows that assessments on impairment conditions are often false,” the committee stated."

    https://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/un-bodies-clash-over-abortion-in-cases-of-fatal-foetal-abnormalities-1.3270579

    I know a woman personally who was told that one of her unborn twins had a fatal heart problem and wouldn't survive birth and could die in utero ... and she was told to go to England for a selective abortion ... to ensure that her other unborn child wouldn't be put at risk ... the ultimate FFA story.
    She didn't accept the advice and proceeded with her pregnancy and she now has two healthy twins, all be it that one had to have some heart surgery, when it reached a target weight, after it was born.
    Can you imagine the 'survivor guilt' that the other twin would have had, if she was told that her sister was killed because she had a 'fatal' heart problem.
    ... yes, they are two healthy beautiful young girls now ... who are inseparable.

    ... so FFA is actually an argument for the retention of the 8th ... and not its repeal.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,611 ✭✭✭david75


    i have all the facts. hence being happy with the decisian i have made in terms of how i'm going to vote. i have stated plenty of times that FFA is a case where abortion should be permitted, but i believe this can be allowed via the existing law, hence i won't be voting for repeal in an aim to allow abortion in the circumstances where i believe it must be provided.

    Every article and actual factual evidence out there says the 8th hurts those you claim to support aka ‘extreme cases’. *this is why we’re having the referendum. The 8th is not fit for purpose*

    Yet you’re voting to keep it. Laughable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,508 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    david75 wrote: »
    Every article and actual factual evidence out there says the 8th hurts those you claim to support aka ‘extreme cases’. *this is why we’re having the referendum. The 8th is not fit for purpose*

    Yet you’re voting to keep it. Laughable.

    and i agree that in some ways it isn't fit for purpose. however, it does currently protect the unborn's right to life, and given the proposals on the table to allow abortion on demand up to 12 weeks, i have no option but to vote no to repeal as i couldn't vote for anything that will allow abortion on demand in ireland.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    david75 wrote: »
    Every article and actual factual evidence out there says the 8th hurts those you claim to support aka ‘extreme cases’. *this is why we’re having the referendum. The 8th is not fit for purpose*

    Yet you’re voting to keep it. Laughable.
    Many of the arguments of the pro-abortion lobby are 'bait and switch' arguments ... FFA is one of them ... anencephaly is the main FFA cited ... but FFA encompasses a whole host of undefined conditions ... many of which turn out to be not fatal ... or not even disabling ... if the advice to abort is ignored.
    ... and even with anencephaly, many parents, who bring the child to term get great comfort from holding and caring for their child when it is born ... and during the precious hours or even days, before the child dies.

    Humanity is important ... when it comes to matters of life and death ... particularly where children are involved ... it is never good to kill them, irrespective of the condition they are suffering from.
    Like I have said ... death will find us all ... but there is no need to give death a helping hand in doing so.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,611 ✭✭✭david75


    and i agree that in some ways it isn't fit for purpose. however, it does currently protect the unborn's right to life, and given the proposals on the table to allow abortion on demand up to 12 weeks, i have no option but to vote no to repeal as i couldn't vote for anything that will allow abortion on demand in ireland.

    The contradiction within that post alone on your position isn’t particular to you.
    But it does show a glaring gap in understanding. You’re happy to deal with more suffering in order to force babies to be born that cannot live and force their mothers to suffer further by having to travel or not being able to afford to, force the marriage to give birth here and watch the baby die. Painfully. For both mother and child.

    That’s not chirstian. That’s totally inhuman.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    david75 wrote: »
    The contradiction within that post alone on your position isn’t particular to you.
    But it does show a glaring gap in understanding. You’re happy to deal with more suffering in order to force babies to be born that cannot live and force their mothers to suffer further by having to travel or not being able to afford to, force the marriage to give birth here and watch the baby die. Painfully. For both mother and child.

    That’s not chirstian. That’s totally inhuman.
    These children don't die painfully ... in fact many survive ... and go on to live normal lives, if the advice to abort is ignored ... and the ones who do die ... simply 'slip away' to be with God.

    What is inhuman is to kill these most vulnerable of the most vulnerable ... for no good reason, actually.
    ... but then abortion on demand of healthy children is also proposed ... for no good reason as well.
    ... and the repeal of the 8th is also proposed for no good reason.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,855 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    J C wrote: »
    These children don't die painfully ... in fact many survive ... and go on to live normal lives, if the advice to abort is ignored ... and the ones who do die ... simply 'slip away' to be with God.

    What is inhuman is to kill these most vulnerable of the most vulnerable ... for no good reason, actually.
    ... but then abortion on demand of healthy children is also proposed ... for no good reason as well.
    ... and the repeal of the 8th is also proposed for no good reason.

    And not a single thought for the parents who have to watch this.

    Disgusting comment from you!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,573 ✭✭✭Nick Park


    david75 wrote: »
    The contradiction within that post alone on your position isn’t particular to you.
    But it does show a glaring gap in understanding. You’re happy to deal with more suffering in order to force babies to be born that cannot live and force their mothers to suffer further by having to travel or not being able to afford to, force the marriage to give birth here and watch the baby die. Painfully. For both mother and child.

    That’s not chirstian. That’s totally inhuman.

    Actually there isn't a contradiction. I know plenty of people who would support the 8th Amendment being amended to permit abortion in the comparatively few cases of so-called FFA or rape. But they can't support straightforward repeal because it would inevitably result in a much larger number of abortions where such circumstances do not apply.

    For what it's worth, having being the parent of a child with a so-called FFA (who actually lived over 4 years after birth), I support keeping the 8th as it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,573 ✭✭✭Nick Park


    And not a single thought for the parents who have to watch this.

    Disgusting comment from you!

    I'm one of those parents. I don't find JC's comment disgusting at all.

    I am, however, disgusted by those who wish to exploit cases like my daughters to push their agenda of abortion on demand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    Nick Park wrote: »
    Actually there isn't a contradiction. I know plenty of people who would support the 8th Amendment being amended to permit abortion in the comparatively few cases of so-called FFA or rape. But they can't support straightforward repeal because it would inevitably result in a much larger number of abortions where such circumstances do not apply.

    For what it's worth, having being the parent of a child with a so-called FFA (who actually lived over 4 years after birth), I support keeping the 8th as it is.

    But the 8th is not about allowing, or even encouraging, families with such a diagnosis to choose to continue the pregnancy, that can be done without the 8th existing.

    What the 8th does is try to force people into continuing the pregnancy. By law.

    Basically you are right, and this woman is wrong : http://www.thejournal.ie/readme/diary-of-losing-a-baby-1930048-Feb2015/

    Or this woman : https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/my-daughter-was-dying-inside-me-i-could-not-save-her-1.3137930

    And if the HSE were able to do what they wanted to do to Ms Y, sedate and force feed her, that would be fair enough to do to these women too?

    Because if your excuse is "Sure she can go to England to terminate", then that is the most cowardly of cop outs.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    And not a single thought for the parents who have to watch this.
    I said that "even with anencephaly, many parents, who bring the child to term get great comfort from holding and caring for their child when it is born ... and during the precious few hours or even days, before the child dies."
    Most parents want to spend whatever time they have got with their little one ... and find considerable comfort in doing so ... and that is when the FFA is actually fatal.
    Many so called FFA are not actually fatal at all, like the UN Committee on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities has recently pointed out.
    They said that using "fatal foetal impairments” as a specific ground for abortion, was risky "given there was no guarantee as to whether or not a foetal abnormality was fatal."

    The big secret with so-called 'Fatal Foetal Abnormalities' ... is that many aren't actually fatal.
    What is happening is that anencephaly, which is fatal within hours/days of birth is being highligted as an FFA ... and all sorts of other conditions (including perfectly operable heart conditions) are being included as FFA ... when they are possibly neither fatal nor even permanent, in some cases.

    Humanity is important ... when it comes to matters of life and death ... particularly where children are involved ... it is never good to kill them, irrespective of the condition they are suffering from.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,658 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    My question was where the 8th comes into that.

    Forcing women who may be finding it psychologically unbearable to continue waking up every morning wondering if their baby has died during the night to go on for weeks or months has nothing to do with caring for women.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    But the 8th is not about allowing, or even encouraging, families with such a diagnosis to choose to continue the pregnancy, that can be done without the 8th existing.

    What the 8th does is try to force people into continuing the pregnancy. By law.

    Basically you are right, and this woman is wrong : http://www.thejournal.ie/readme/diary-of-losing-a-baby-1930048-Feb2015/
    Firstly, it is terrible beyond words for parents to be faced with a diagnosis of serious abnormality in their unborn child.
    However, I disagree that abortion is the solution.

    I note in the above case that the diagnosis was Downes Syndrome and cystic hygroma.
    Quote:-
    "Day 9. Just before lunch, I got the results. The midwife said she was sorry but that my baby had T21 (Down Syndrome). She explained what he could be born with but added that the cystic hygroma meant he might not survive until full-term."

    The following is the treatment for cystic hygroma:-
    Quote Wikpedia:-
    "Newborn infant with a cystic hygroma visible on right side of the neck
    A baby with a prenatally diagnosed cystic hygroma should be delivered in a major medical center equipped to deal with neonatal complications, such as a neonatal intensive care unit. An obstetrician usually decides the method of delivery. If the cystic hygroma is large, a cesarean section may be performed. After birth, infants with a persistent cystic hygroma must be monitored for airway obstruction. A thin needle may be used to reduce the volume of the cystic hygroma to prevent facial deformities and airway obstruction. Close observation of the baby by a neonatologist after birth is recommended. If resolution of the cystic hygroma does not occur before birth, a pediatric surgeon should be consulted.

    I can empathise totally with these parents in the terrible dilemma they found themselves in ...
    Quote:-
    "I was so stressed. I didn’t want to be here. I would rather end my own life than to have to end my baby’s. Nobody could help us. We had nobody in the same position to talk to. I researched more and more. I tried to read medical journals, tried to find positive outcomes for babies with fluid over 8.

    I had to start thinking with my head, rather than my heart. Something we badly wanted and was so precious to us was going to be taken away from us, whatever we decided.

    I was also told that when he passed away, depending on how far into pregnancy it is, I would not be able to deliver him. It would have to be a C-section as the malformations on his head, neck and back wouldn’t allow a natural birth.

    I chopped and changed my mind so many times. How could I go through with this? The thought made me physically sick. But I wouldn’t do this to my animals… how could I do it to my own baby? I read that they could feel pain somewhere between 20 and 24 weeks. I didn’t want to do that either.

    After many debates, mind changes, tears and pain, I knew I had to do this to be kind to my unborn child. Why should he suffer? It would be a pain I would forever have to live with. As the mother, it’s you who feels him kick morning and night."

    This woman was literally 'up the walls' with worry and had nobody to look to for advice ... and I can empathise totally with her and her partner in the horrenduous situation, they found themselves in.

    Nobody is saying that these are easy decisions ... there may even be no 'wrong' answer, in many of these cases ... but like Nick Park has said ... even if abortion is to be allowed in these circumstances, repealing the 8th and introducing abortion on demand for perfectly healthy babies isn't the way to go.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    volchitsa wrote: »
    My question was where the 8th comes into that.

    Forcing women who may be finding it psychologically unbearable to continue waking up every morning wondering if their baby has died during the night to go on for weeks or months has nothing to do with caring for women.
    Any baby can die in utero, even if apparently healthy ... there is a risk of death for everything that is alive ... and many of these so-called FFAs aren't fatal at all.

    I also don't get how a woman who is finding it "psychologically unbearable to continue waking up every morning wondering if their baby has died during the night" ... should kill it ... thereby ensuring that it dies ... when it more than likely wouldn't die at all, if it isn't aborted.

    Is your argument what it seems to be ?
    ... that somebody has a sick child ... and they are seriously worried that it might die ... so they should kill it, in order to stop worrying that it might die.
    This would certainly be a situation where the so-called 'cure' ... would be much worse than the 'disease' ... for the child anyway.

    We need to live in hope ... and give life a chance ... its amazing how tenaceous life can be.


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