Men's rights on Abortion?

pemay · 30-01-2018 11:02PM

eviltwin wrote: »

I think enforcement is an essential aspect of the debate, what is the point in letting me have a say if there is no way to prevent the woman having the abortion anyway?

I don't believe you. I think its a cop out way to avoid answering the simple question.

Which you haven't answered.

30-01-2018 11:03PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

It is far from valid. If you are using contraception and happen to get pregnant then it is absolutely ridiculous to terminate the pregnancy just because you don't want a child. Face up to the result of your actions ffs.

do you have sex purely for procreation?

30-01-2018 11:03PM

pemay wrote: »

is that it is inherently UNFAIR to LEGALLY grant 100% control to one person out of two.

Control over what?

Say it.

eviltwin · 30-01-2018 11:03PM

pemay wrote: »

I don't believe you. I think its a cop out way to avoid answering the simple question.

Which you haven't answered.

Because your talking absolute bollocks

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:03PM

WhiteRoses wrote: »

Do you think people who are forced into parenthood because they have no other options make good parents? Do you think it’s in the best interests of the child to be brought up by a mother who didn’t want him/her?

Or do you just want to condemn the woman to a fate she doesn’t want just for the sake of making her miserable and punishing her?

And don’t say you don’t want to punish women. Because that’s exactly what you’re doing by denying them an abortion.

When my first child was born I didn't think I was ready to be a father but here I am years and 3 kids later.

bodice ripper · 30-01-2018 11:04PM

RocketRaccoon wrote:

Why should men hang around now? Some women here have said they have no problem terminating a pregnancy despite what the father wants, this should also be OK behavior for men not wanting a child but the mother does.

I, for one, support abortion on demand for men. A man should be allowed to get an abortion if he so chooses.

eviltwin · 30-01-2018 11:04PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

When my first child was born I didn't think I was ready to be a father but here I am years and 3 kids later.

And???

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:04PM

Triceratops Ballet wrote: »

what business is it of yours?

This is a forum for discussion no?

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 30-01-2018 11:04PM

repeal the hate wrote: »

I admire your honesty about it.

It's 2018, it's not exactly a scandalous admission.

You still haven't said what you meant by:

repeal the hate wrote: »

Sounds like advocating abortion as contraception... slippery moral slope to be on there.
If only there were numerous other forms of contraception available or you know... behaving a bit more like a responsible adult with your reproductive organs.

seeing as me saying you were accusing me of seeing abortion as equivalent to using contraception was a strawman.

SusieBlue · 30-01-2018 11:05PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

When my first child was born I didn't think I was ready to be a father but here I am years and 3 kids later.

Good for you. You coped and it worked out well for you. Not everyone is so lucky and it’s the height of ignorance to presume that just because you managed, everyone else should too.

30-01-2018 11:05PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

Why should men hang around now? Some women here have said they have no problem terminating a pregnancy despite what the father wants, this should also be OK behavior for men not wanting a child but the mother does.

lots of men don't.
so your point is?

Triceratops Ballet · 30-01-2018 11:06PM

pemay wrote: »

The answer, plain to see for everyone, including those dancing around the simple question, is that it is inherently UNFAIR to LEGALLY grant 100% control to one person out of two.

If my eyes roll back any further in my head I'll audition for the next exorcist film!

WHAT IS YOUR PROPOSED ALTERNATIVE? do you want to grant the control on a 50/50 basis?

how do you see it playing out?

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:06PM

eviltwin wrote: »

And???

**** changes and when you take the responsible option you find that you actually grow up.

30-01-2018 11:06PM

Every time a fella in this thread guys tugs off into a sock I wonder what consequences they should be forced to endure

pemay · 30-01-2018 11:07PM

Deleted User wrote: »

Control over what?

Say it.

Jesus, sounds like you think you might have me on some important point!

So I'll say "IT"!!!!

Control for a man or woman to decide whether the child/would-be-child be born or not.......to be dictated by only the man OR woman legally.

Its scandalous ted!

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:07PM

Deleted User wrote: »

Every time a fella in this thread guys tugs off into a sock I wonder what consequences they should be forced to endure

Plenty of the posters in this thread would have been better off thrust into a sock.

eviltwin · 30-01-2018 11:07PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

**** changes and when you take the responsible option you find that you actually grow up.

Good for you

It still has absolutely zero relevance to the issue at hand

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:08PM

eviltwin wrote: »

Good for you

It still has absolutely zero relevance to the issue at hand

It does when certain women are just going to use this when there contraceptive (if they even bother with it anymore) doesn't work.

repeal the hate · 30-01-2018 11:08PM

Ephraim Squeaking Sympathy wrote: »

It's 2018, it's not exactly a scandalous admission.

You still haven't said what you meant by:

seeing as me saying you were accusing me of seeing abortion as equivalent to using contraception was a strawman.

I don't need to simplify my point, it was quite lucid.
I never said your 'admission' was scandalous... again with the strawman... any more and we'll have to start laying down a yellow brick road.

Triceratops Ballet · 30-01-2018 11:09PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

This is a forum for discussion no?

it is, I'm asking why you're so concerned about it? So what if a woman has more than one abortion?

30-01-2018 11:09PM

pemay wrote: »

Jesus, sounds like you think you might have me on some important point!

So I'll say "IT"!!!!

Control for a man or woman to decide whether the child/would-be-child of that man or woman can be dictated by only the man OR woman.

Its scandalous ted!

so, you believe if a man wants an abortion a woman should be forced to abort?
or if a man wants a child a woman should be forced to be an incubator for 9 months?
do you have any regard for women at all??

30-01-2018 11:09PM

pemay wrote: »

Jesus, sounds like you think you might have me on some important point!

So I'll say "IT"!!!!

Control for a man or woman to decide whether the child/would-be-child be born or not.......to be dictated by only the man OR woman legally.

Its scandalous ted!

Lol everyone else is dancing around alright

You are transparent.

Say it.

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 30-01-2018 11:10PM

repeal the hate wrote: »

I don't need to simplify my point, it was quite lucid.

Yup, it's pretty clear that you hadn't actually googled the word contraception until the exchange started

eviltwin · 30-01-2018 11:11PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

It does when certain women are just going to use this when there contraceptive (if they even bother with it anymore) doesn't work.

Why would any sane woman out to have what is essentially a miscarriage with the pain, mess, time off work etc when she can use a contraceptive.

Your bitterness towards your ex is understandable but don't punish everyone because you didnt get your way.

end of the road · 30-01-2018 11:11PM

WhiteRoses wrote: »

You’ve already said you don’t care either way and that you won’t be voting?

sounds like he is changing his mind. which is a smart move. people shouldn't abstain from this referendum, they should vote.

brooke 2 · 30-01-2018 11:11PM

Triceratops Ballet wrote: »

both serving their own desires

Well, pardon a woman for having the sheer gall to decide if she is prepared to go through nine months of pregnancy, followed by a possibly very agonising childbirth! Men who WANT a baby to 'protect' will never have to suffer those experiences. :mad:

RocketRaccoon · 30-01-2018 11:11PM

Triceratops Ballet wrote: »

it is, I'm asking why you're so concerned about it? So what if a woman has more than one abortion?

Do you think it's OK for a woman to just get pregnant every other month, wander on down to a clinic and have it terminated?

If there is a health risk to the mother or child then by all means, do it. If it is just because you don't want a baby, I don't agree with that.

30-01-2018 11:12PM

RocketRaccoon wrote: »

It does when certain women are just going to use this when there contraceptive (if they even bother with it anymore) doesn't work.

so, when responsible adults use contraception and take every possible precaution, if it fails they should be forced to go through with raising a child they
did everything to prevent having?
they do everything right, something goes wrong & you think they should be punished?

pemay · 30-01-2018 11:12PM

eviltwin wrote: »

Because your talking absolute bollocks

Youre probably getting into a little bit of tizzy there at the computer, and no wonder with all the gymnastics going on inside your noggin.

Just in case you missed it, not one single person has given an honest answer to a simple question.

You asked me to outlay some kind of legal framework, and I said I wouldn't because nobody has even answered the question that the legalities would be based on.

I presumed you were talking through your hole in order to obfuscate the argument and lead it away from the simple question at hand.

You then respond with your "bollocks" comment, thereby proving, essentially, that I had you figured out the second you wrote your disingenuous question.

Must be annoying

One eyed Jack · 30-01-2018 11:12PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I think you might be reading that wrong but I admit my hyphenation is tricky!

The attempt is being made to convince the forum of that opinion I don't feel that it is the belief.

I do think the forum is pretty much known for feeling that men are hard done by versus their female counterparts and this strategy is revised with this in mind.

I'm fairly sure I'm reading you right, which is why I thought to myself well what you're saying isn't right. You're going to need a bigger brush if you're going to tar a whole forum with such a negative belief of your own and try and convince anyone who is a regular contributor here that the forum is actually anything like you suggest. If you believe the forum is known for feeling that men are hard done by and so on, then you're either not very familiar with the forum, or you're just taking from it what you already believe to be true.

I don't mean to harp on about it but your comment struck me as very unfair to the vast majority of contributors to this forum who are not of that mentality, as opposed to the small number of contributors who are. That tiny minority of contributors certainly aren't representative of the majority of contributors is all I'm saying, and that's why I wasn't on board with the idea that we should be able to make such a sweeping generalisation and allow it to go unchallenged. If it went unchallenged, that would have been tacit acceptance that the belief must be true, and as a regular contributor here, I don't think it is.

Men's rights on Abortion?

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