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Christian parents 'to sue school' coz boy in son's class was allowed to wear dress

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭Red_Wake


    A strict school uniform regime would've nipped this in the bud.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    If your are a very religious parent a school today is not the place for your child to attend.

    Well that's pure BS


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,092 ✭✭✭Gravelly


    DrumSteve wrote: »
    All this "suspecting" seems to be based on your own biases and suspicions rather than actual facts.

    True, but I can only go on the information in the article, and what has been published about similar cases.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,342 ✭✭✭fatknacker


    I bet the homeschooled kids will turn out odder than the lad who wants to wear dresses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,740 ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    fatknacker wrote: »
    I bet the homeschooled kids will turn out odder than the lad who wants to wear dresses.

    Perhaps as odd as their parents


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,347 ✭✭✭GhostyMcGhost


    Think these parents have got the wrong end of the stick.

    Yeah and they should be bashed on the noggin with the other end of it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 738 ✭✭✭murphthesmurf


    Stop the World, I want to get off.
    The religious and the far left liberals, I can't decide who I hate the most.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I don't see what being Christian has to do with it. They claim to have biblical beliefs. All the men in the bible wore dresses. Or at least the male equivalent of a dress. I could understand them not wanting to see a boy in a dress but what has it to do with the bible?


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Plenty of girls in school wearing pants. Maybe they are identifying with being a boy.

    Also bringing a child up a Christian is brainwashing in a way


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 14,566 Mod ✭✭✭✭johnnyskeleton


    Jesus wore a skirt. Well, a loincloth, but still


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,387 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    fatknacker wrote: »
    I bet the homeschooled kids will turn out odder than the lad who wants to wear dresses.

    What until puberty hits and they start fancying their teacher.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,342 ✭✭✭fatknacker


    He should try wearing a hijab too, while he's at it.


  • Posts: 26,920 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I mean, historically men wore skirts/dresses well up until modern history. Hell, high heels were an invention for men up until the 1900's, I believe.

    Was it not a tradition in our own country up until the 20th century for young boys to wear skirts until they were given their first pair of long pants?

    Edit - yes, it was called Breeching.

    If a kid wants to wear a dress, let 'em wear a dress.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    As long as he was wearing the right type of black shoes it shouldn't be a problem... :D

    I feel for the two kids who were taken out of school, they will have no reprieve from psycho influence now.


  • Posts: 26,920 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I think it is important to oppose the brainwashing of children by nutjobs. That is important.

    I assume you're talking about the children's parents? They do sound like absolute nutjobs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 6,791 ✭✭✭TheIrishGrover


    I'm not going to refer to the troll above (And he is a troll folks, don't feed the trolls) but one of the main issues I have with this type of people is the whole abuse of religion to legitimize their own prejudices and their hijacking of religion in general. All you hear from them is "I'm a Christian" Well, you know what? I was raised Christian. So was 95% of my generation in Ireland. I was raised Catholic. Of the other 5% it was ALSO mainly Christian: Church of Ireland.

    What they MEAN to say is: "I'm a Born Again Christian" but by just saying "Christian" they are implying that they are a purer form of Christian than Catholic or Anglician or any other Christian religion"

    I saw this story earlier. Read the first paragraph (Different website) and though "Fair enough, that's their own belief. Narrow-minded and distasteful in my opinion but I'm not going to force my opinion on them. I do feel for the kids because they are being sheltered from the real world but hey"
    Then the next paragraph: They are suing and pressing charges. Obviously respect for others is not......."Christian"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,092 ✭✭✭Gravelly


    I assume you're talking about the children's parents? They do sound like absolute nutjobs.

    Both sets of parents are beholden to an ideology. The parents who persuade their son to wear a dress are the modern equivalent of the 1950's Irish parents that persuaded their son he had a calling for the priesthood. In both cases it is done because they wanted to look virtuous in the eyes of those who share their ideology. And in both cases it is likely to end in an unhappy life for the child.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,599 ✭✭✭✭Tom Mann Centuria


    Gravelly wrote: »
    Both sets of parents are beholden to an ideology. The parents who persuade their son to wear a dress are the modern equivalent of the 1950's Irish parents that persuaded their son he had a calling for the priesthood. In both cases it is done because they wanted to look virtuous in the eyes of those who share their ideology. And in both cases it is likely to end in an unhappy life for the child.

    Agree completely. Kids are pawns in this.

    Oh well, give me an easy life and a peaceful death.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,077 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    Is there any evidence whatsoever that the boy wearing the dress is doing so at the behest of or persuasion of the parents, rather than them accepting his wishes?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,740 ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    I'm not going to refer to the troll above (And he is a troll folks, don't feed the trolls) but one of the main issues I have with this type of people is the whole abuse of religion to legitimize their own prejudices and their hijacking of religion in general. All you hear from them is "I'm a Christian" Well, you know what? I was raised Christian. So was 95% of my generation in Ireland. I was raised Catholic. Of the other 5% it was ALSO mainly Christian: Church of Ireland.

    What they MEAN to say is: "I'm a Born Again Christian" but by just saying "Christian" they are implying that they are a purer form of Christian than Catholic or Anglician or any other Christian religion"

    I saw this story earlier. Read the first paragraph (Different website) and though "Fair enough, that's their own belief. Narrow-minded and distasteful in my opinion but I'm not going to force my opinion on them. I do feel for the kids because they are being sheltered from the real world but hey"
    Then the next paragraph: They are suing and pressing charges. Obviously respect for others is not......."Christian"

    Report trolls, don't air it out on thread please


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭Red_Wake


    Gravelly wrote: »
    I assume you're talking about the children's parents? They do sound like absolute nutjobs.

    Both sets of parents are beholden to an ideology. The parents who persuade their son to wear a dress are the modern equivalent of the 1950's Irish parents that persuaded their son he had a calling for the priesthood. In both cases it is done because they wanted to look virtuous in the eyes of those who share their ideology. And in both cases it is likely to end in an unhappy life for the child.
    Arguably it's more damaging - one can leave the priesthood without any long lasting effects. 

    If one were to undergo gender reassignment surgery[especially at that age] and its attendant hormonal treatment, the effects are longer lasting, and more difficult to reverse.

    And that's before adding the complication of doing it before/during puberty, undermining the hormonal process by which a child becomes adult.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,311 Mod ✭✭✭✭mzungu


    Gravelly wrote: »
    Both sets of parents are beholden to an ideology. The parents who persuade their son to wear a dress are the modern equivalent of the 1950's Irish parents that persuaded their son he had a calling for the priesthood. In both cases it is done because they wanted to look virtuous in the eyes of those who share their ideology. And in both cases it is likely to end in an unhappy life for the child.
    We only know that one set of parents are bounded by ideology, that being their religious beliefs. The parents of the transgender child may not be ideologues, we don't know. It might just be the case that their child has gender dysphoria and they did what they thought was best from there.


  • Posts: 4,824 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Gravelly wrote: »

    "Transgender children" appear to be the new must-have accessory for the virtue-signalling parent.

    Jesus fúcking Christ.

    Why would a parent try to brainwash their child into believing they're the wrong gender? Do you honestly believe that to be more likely than parents simply allowing a child to wear what they want and figure out their identity by themselves in their own time? Ffs. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,234 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    You can sue anyone you want for anything you like, it doesn't mean that you are going to succeed in even having the case listed, let alone heard.

    I am going to sue the parents of that boy because I became so enraged at their sheer ignorance and stupidity that I smashed my computer monitor, injuring my hand.

    I probably have more chance of success than they do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,342 ✭✭✭fatknacker


    Maybe the kid just wants to wear skirts/dresses. Not because he "identifies" with being a girl. He might just like wearin them. To him they're just clothes. No need to pathologise everything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,092 ✭✭✭Gravelly


    Jesus fúcking Christ.

    Why would a parent try to brainwash their child into believing they're the wrong gender? Do you honestly believe that to be more likely than parents simply allowing a child to wear what they want and figure out their identity by themselves in their own time? Ffs. :rolleyes:

    Do I think it likely a 6 year old boy really wants to wear a dress to school because he is "figuring out his identity"? No, I don't think that's likely at all.

    I think it's more likely mommy and/or daddy spends too much time on Twitter and thinks because little Johnny picked up a doll in the toyshop that it's really little Joanna trapped in the wrong body, and little Joanna needs to wear a dress to school so all the other parents are in no doubt about how progressive mommy and daddy are.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 23,220 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    Sleepy wrote: »
    I hope that their lawyers are very, very expensive.

    And that they lose the case.

    Unfortunately some sort of conservative Christian think thank is probably picking up the tab. It happens all the time in the US.

    they/them/theirs


    The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all of the people.

    Noam Chomsky



  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 23,220 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    Gravelly wrote: »
    Do I think it likely a 6 year old boy really wants to wear a dress to school because he is "figuring out his identity"? No, I don't think that's likely at all.

    I think it's more likely mommy and/or daddy spends too much time on Twitter and thinks because little Johnny picked up a doll in the toyshop that it's really little Joanna trapped in the wrong body, and little Joanna needs to wear a dress to school so all the other parents are in no doubt about how progressive mommy and daddy are.

    I think it shouldn't matter a **** what the child wears to school.

    If my young fella decides he wants to wear a dress to school, my only stipulations will be that he shaves his legs and his shoes match his bag. I'm not having my son laughed at.

    they/them/theirs


    The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all of the people.

    Noam Chomsky



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,092 ✭✭✭Gravelly


    Brian? wrote: »
    I think it shouldn't matter a **** what the child wears to school.

    If my young fella decides he wants to wear a dress to school, my only stipulations will be that he shaves his legs and his shoes match his bag. I'm not having my son laughed at.

    Poor kid - if and when he figures out either that he was just going through a phase, or he was brainwashed by the parents (hopefully before they've had time to book him in for an operation) he can go back to being a boy again, but in this age of camera phones and social media, the evidence of his humiliation will haunt him forever.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,008 ✭✭✭_Whimsical_


    They did clarify on the news this evening that they aren't actually suing anyone, they're just bringing it before the board of governors or something of that magnitude. They didn't look at all prepared for speaking on TV, they both came across as a bit wooly about what the problem was and what they wanted. They definitely weren't coming across as anti transgender anyway, they are more just questioning the wisdom of allowing children of 6,7,8 to be allowed to make these decisions and then live with the consequences. They weren't doing a good job of it anyway. It didn't look like a more widely orchestrated campaign.


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