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Atheist experiences of religious apparitions

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    kelly1 wrote: »
    You're either trolling or not terribly bright.

    For the very last time, I went to Lourdes because I was asked by my brother and I went only because my mother died there.

    FYI, from here on, I'm ignoring you.

    I don't understand. How does your mother not being cured in Lourdes prove anything?

    There have only been 4 official miracle healings since the 70s, that's a lot less than spontaneous remission rates.


  • Posts: 25,874 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kelly1 wrote: »
    You're either trolling or not terribly bright.

    For the very last time, I went to Lourdes because I was asked by my brother and I went only because my mother died there.

    FYI, from here on, I'm ignoring you.
    Yes, you have said. You have also said that it was part of the reason you converted and believe.

    You have also been using the dubious claims of miracles as evidence for the supernatural and god.

    If this isn't the case, then I can't really be blamed for thinking it was.
    You should post what you mean instead.

    However, you on top of insulting me are now avoiding the questions yet again.
    You decry others for chasing miracles and apparitions as having weak faith.
    You base your faith on miracles and your conversion depended on a holy site that exist only because of apparitions.

    This is hypocritical.
    (Also, it's a bit hypocritical for a Christian to judge other people's faith, first stones and all that...)

    You also hold up Lourdes as having real miracles, but dismiss other claimed miracles simply because they don't appeal to you for whatever reason.
    They all have the same amount of supporting evidence and make the same amount of sense.
    They have none and they don't.

    This is hypocritical.

    When you attempt to address the central paradox that such miraculous healings lead to, your answer is flawed and self contradictory, but rather than face that, you are proudly declaring you are ignoring it.

    This is hypocritical.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,345 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    kelly1 wrote: »
    You're either trolling or not terribly bright.

    For the very last time, I went to Lourdes because I was asked by my brother and I went only because my mother died there.

    FYI, from here on, I'm ignoring you.

    So sorry to hear that! :-(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 30,334 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    Mod: kelly1 you have been warned (yellow card) for accusing others of trolling and for personal insults. Please keep your arguments civil.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    kylith wrote: »
    I don't understand. How does your mother not being cured in Lourdes prove anything?
    :confused: I made no such claim. How could that prove anything?? She didn't go to Lourdes to be healed, she went because she wanted to go there before she died. And I'm so glad I went because of her and my brother's invitation.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,345 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    I'm Christian, but sceptical of Christina Gallagher's "apparitions"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    branie2 wrote: »
    I'm Christian, but sceptical of Christina Gallagher's "apparitions"
    Good example. I think Medjugorje falls into the same category (IMO).

    In the genuine apparitions e.g. Lourdes, Fatima, Knock, the message is short an simple and not repeated day after day (for years on end), changing a few words here an there.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 16,086 Mod ✭✭✭✭smacl


    kelly1 wrote: »
    Good example. I think Medjugorje falls into the same category (IMO).

    In the genuine apparitions e.g. Lourdes, Fatima, Knock, the message is short an simple and not repeated day after day (for years on end), changing a few words here an there.

    Genuine apparitions? We seem to be getting back to square circles there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    kelly1 wrote: »
    :confused: I made no such claim. How could that prove anything?? She didn't go to Lourdes to be healed, she went because she wanted to go there before she died. And I'm so glad I went because of her and my brother's invitation.

    But that's what I'm confused about. Your mother wanted to go to Lourdes before she died, ye went to Lourdes, therefore... what?

    I was there myself many years ago, in the off-season, and was struck by how peaceful the place was (again: in the off season) but I can't say I found it any different to a lovely stretch of the Liffey outside the city, or the view from the 3 Rocks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,345 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    kylith wrote: »
    But that's what I'm confused about. Your mother wanted to go to Lourdes before she died, ye went to Lourdes, therefore... what?

    I was there myself many years ago, in the off-season, and was struck by how peaceful the place was (again: in the off season) but I can't say I found it any different to a lovely stretch of the Liffey outside the city, or the view from the 3 Rocks.

    Religious people might get a nice buzz from it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    kylith wrote: »
    But that's what I'm confused about. Your mother wanted to go to Lourdes before she died, ye went to Lourdes, therefore... what?
    ok, I went to Lourdes, not because I wanted to go but because my brother asked me to go. And he asked me to go because he was with her when she died, 6 years previously. I was wary of going but I went.

    At the time I went to Lourdes, I had long abandoned my Catholic faith and was into New Age/Yoga stuff at the time. Believed in reincarnation etc.

    So the atmosphere in Lourdes made a great impression on me. I found the people there very joyful, in a way I hadn't really seen before. I was also impressed by the genuine strong faith of the pilgrims. Again something I hadn't particularly seen before.

    At the time I still believed in God, but I though Jesus was an "Ascended Master", just like Buddha, Krishna, various yogis etc. It makes me embarrassed admitting this now.

    So on the night we were due to go home, I went down to the grotto to pray for guidance from God because, even though I thought I had found the answers in yoga, I thought it wouldn't do any harm. I've had been on a long and tortuous road trying to discover the truth about God. Tried lots of philosophies etc.

    And when I got home from Lourdes, I unexpectedly found myself very interested in Christianity and in fact I found out just how little I knew. For instance, I didn't know why Jesus died on the cross, I never understood that point.

    I spent the next couple of years devouring all the theology and biographies of the saints that I could get my hands on. I learned about all the traditional devotions associated with the Church. I did a course on theology and even started a prayer group.

    I also had a very profound realization experience on day of how I had turned my back on Jesus/God by the way I lived and how I'd been following false religions. I knew there and then what the parable of the prodigal son was all about and to this day I still get emotional reading it.

    But I can tell you that day turned my life upside down. It changed my worldview so dramatically. My new found faith was like finding a treasure chest and I never want to go back to my previous way of thinking and living.

    That's not any kind of evidence I know, but it is for me. To me, the change that came over me was nothing short of a miracle.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 30,334 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    Finally, that is a convincing post. I don't think it will make any converts or persuade anyone, in this forum anyway, that there is something there, but I can kinda see how you reached your conclusion. The fact that I would not be convinced is irrelevant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭oldrnwisr


    kelly1 wrote: »
    I've attempted to answer this already. If God did do that, and I'm sure he could since he created the universe, then it would be a miracle beyond any doubt, incontrovertible. But this would interfere with God's plan whereby he wants to love him, but doesn't force us. It would be like a lesser version of Jesus appearing in the sky.

    I've heard this argument before but I've never really understood why so many Christians put their faith in this Deus Absconditus notion that God has to hide himself from humanity to an extent because as theologian Michael Murray said if we were powerfully aware of God's existence then we would no longer have free will that we would be compelled to believe and obey. Of course this idea is ridiculous. Several people in the Bible have no problem disobeying God despite having (in some instances) face to face conversations with God. Cain even manages to kill his own brother despite having spoken to God. So the argument that God couldn't cure amputees because it would compromise free will is not just ridiculous but is just plagiarising Douglas Adams:

    ""The argument goes something like this:
    'I refuse to prove that I exist,' says God, 'for proof denies faith, and without faith, I am nothing.'
    'But, says Man, the Babel fish is a dead giveaway, isn't it?
    It could not have evolved by chance. It proves you exist, and, by your own arguments, you don't. QED.'
    'Oh dear,' says God, 'I hadn't thought of that,' and vanishes in a puff of logic."


    EDIT: I know this is off-topic from the OP but I can't really help with the OP's question because I was only 4 when Ballinspittle happened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    I've heard this argument before but I've never really understood why so many Christians put their faith in this Deus Absconditus notion that God has to hide himself from humanity to an extent...
    But of the two scenarios, one being that God is plainly visible and two, God is hidden, which one is most likely to diminish free-will?

    There is also the merit argument. It's a Catholic doctrine that all good deeds are rewarded in Heaven. So good deeds done freely deserve more merit than those done less freely. This result in a greater good for those who are faithful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,345 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    I've been to Lourdes three times myself, and it was a great experience


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 39,089 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    kelly1 wrote: »
    In the genuine apparitions e.g. Lourdes, Fatima, Knock,

    :rolleyes: there is no evidence - none - that these are any more genuine than any other highly dubious claim.

    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    'But, says Man, the Babel fish is a dead giveaway, isn't it?
    It could not have evolved by chance. It proves you exist, and, by your own arguments, you don't. QED.'
    'Oh dear,' says God, 'I hadn't thought of that,' and vanishes in a puff of logic."

    I liked that passage so much I made an avatar out of it :) (well, the BBC did really)

    kelly1 wrote: »
    But of the two scenarios, one being that God is plainly visible and two, God is hidden, which one is most likely to diminish free-will?

    We are (or, at least, I was) told that the goal of God / Jesus was to save as many souls as possible.

    Is maintaining absolute free will really more important than that? i.e. it is necessary to condemn a substantial proportion or even the majority of humanity to eternal hellfire just to not mess up some arbitrary principle.

    We're back again to the Stephen Fry style notion that if any omnipotent god exists they must be monstrously cruel. Also the problem of evil as Epicurus among others have discussed.
    Epicurus’s old questions are yet unanswered. Is he willing to prevent evil, but not able? then is he impotent. Is he able, but not willing? then is he malevolent. Is he both able and willing? whence then is evil?

    kelly1 wrote: »
    There is also the merit argument. It's a Catholic doctrine that all good deeds are rewarded in Heaven. So good deeds done freely deserve more merit than those done less freely. This result in a greater good for those who are faithful.

    Surely a good deed done with the expectation of eternal reward (or out of fear of eternal punishment) is not done truly freely.

    A theist can't therefore be truly altruistic.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    kelly1 wrote: »
    But of the two scenarios, one being that God is plainly visible and two, God is hidden, which one is most likely to diminish free-will?

    There is also the merit argument. It's a Catholic doctrine that all good deeds are rewarded in Heaven. So good deeds done freely deserve more merit than those done less freely. This result in a greater good for those who are faithful.

    Hmmm, that's interesting in that it could be read as atheists being more deserving of heaven than the 'faithful'. Any good I, or other, atheists do is done purely of our own free will, expecting of no reward, because we believe it is the right thing to do. Whereas any good a Christian does they do in the knowledge that all good deeds count towards 'heaven points'. Therefore any good deed they do lacks purely free will in that they are doing it for a particular purpose ("Do good deeds or go to hell" removing 'free' will as one is only doing good under threat of punishment) whereas my good deed is 100% free and therefore more deserving of merit.


  • Posts: 25,874 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kelly1 wrote: »
    But of the two scenarios, one being that God is plainly visible and two, God is hidden, which one is most likely to diminish free-will?
    Well it can't be the latter as you've pointed to supposed examples of impossible cures at Lourdes. You've cited examples of cures that you claim cannot be explained by natural means, and they are as convincing as a person regrowing an arm. So there's no reason why he shouldn't regrow one for a person.

    Unless now you would like to change your mind and say that all cures at Lourdes have a possible natural explanation that doesn't require a god?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,856 ✭✭✭Mark Hamill


    kelly1 wrote: »
    But of the two scenarios, one being that God is plainly visible and two, God is hidden, which one is most likely to diminish free-will?

    In the eyes of someone with faith, god does plainly exist. So wouldn't belief in god, any god, therefore diminish free will?
    kelly1 wrote: »
    There is also the merit argument. It's a Catholic doctrine that all good deeds are rewarded in Heaven. So good deeds done freely deserve more merit than those done less freely. This result in a greater good for those who are faithful.

    But if those faithful are doing those good deeds because of the greater good (i.e. more reward in heaven), then how are those good deeds being done truly free? The only way for those good deeds to be truly free would be if the people doing them didn't even have any idea of god or heaven at all.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 54,037 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    let's assume for a second that these miracles *do* happen at lourdes. why does god need or want a geographic basis for them? is it not capricious to require seriously ill people to travel to a foreign country in order for him to deign to bestow his cure on them?

    especially since the number of verified cures is easily outstripped by the number of people killed on the way there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    In the eyes of someone with faith, god does plainly exist. So wouldn't belief in god, any god, therefore diminish free will?
    Belief in God makes no actual difference to free-will. It's how you respond to that (dis)belief that determines your chosen behaviour.

    So I, as a Christian, try to live according to the teachings of Christ.

    An atheists on the other hand, behaves according to his conscience and social conventions. But lack of belief in God is mostly likely to suggest that there are no consequences to one's actions, unless the person is caught.

    So under atheism, if a child rapist commits suicide, he gets off scott-free and the victim continues to suffer. No justice is not done.
    But if those faithful are doing those good deeds because of the greater good (i.e. more reward in heaven), then how are those good deeds being done truly free? The only way for those good deeds to be truly free would be if the people doing them didn't even have any idea of god or heaven at all.
    The fact that there's a reward shouldn't be the main incentive for doing good. Of course it better to do good just because it's good.

    I agree, doing good without incentive is better than good with incentive. But without that incentive, a lot less good would actually be done.
    let's assume for a second that these miracles *do* happen at lourdes. why does god need or want a geographic basis for them? is it not capricious to require seriously ill people to travel to a foreign country in order for him to deign to bestow his cure on them?
    Lourdes isn't the only place where miracles have happened. But you'd prefer a better selection of shrines I take it. I find your point a bit trivial really.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 54,037 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    we're still left with the difficult situation where god clearly can - and does - heal people (going by catholic doctrine), yet only does it on a incredibly rare basis, so causes false hope for a lot of his followers. he leaves the vast majority of them to die from their illness, yet seemingly arbitarily cures a very select few.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 22,569 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,989 ✭✭✭✭recedite


    The real miracle here is that the OP converted to catholicism after his/her mother went to Lourdes, and died there instead of being cured.
    Its a sad story, and I offer my sincere condolences to the OP.

    Still, I can't help thinking that if I could invent a snake oil cure that people would buy even when the patients died, I'd be even richer than I am now*.










    *which to be honest, is not very rich at all..


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 16,086 Mod ✭✭✭✭smacl


    @Ash.J.Williams, reminds me of directions my father once sent me when he was living in Mayo. From Castlebar train station take the first left, continue on for two miles, turn right at the BVM.... WTF is a BVM was going through my mind until I arrived at the BVM :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,989 ✭✭✭✭recedite


    smacl wrote: »
    ... WTF is a BVM was going through my mind until I arrived at the BVM :)
    Go on then, don't just leave us hanging.....:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,345 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    BVM stands for Blessed Virgin Mary


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,989 ✭✭✭✭recedite


    I was thinking it might be Big Virgin Mary.
    But yeah, it's all good.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    kelly1 wrote: »
    Belief in God makes no actual difference to free-will. It's how you respond to that (dis)belief that determines your chosen behaviour.

    So I, as a Christian, try to live according to the teachings of Christ.

    An atheists on the other hand, behaves according to his conscience and social conventions. But lack of belief in God is mostly likely to suggest that there are no consequences to one's actions, unless the person is caught.

    So under atheism, if a child rapist commits suicide, he gets off scott-free and the victim continues to suffer. No justice is not done.

    Whereas under Christianity the rapist just has to repent and they not only get off scot free, the actually get to go to heaven! No consequences there!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,026 ✭✭✭kelly1


    kylith wrote: »
    Whereas under Christianity the rapist just has to repent and they not only get off scot free, the actually get to go to heaven! No consequences there!
    Under Catholic doctrine, the eternal part of punishment is remitted but time in purgatory us required to purify the soul. Of course the repentance has to genuine and heart-felt.

    [Edit: God's mercy is said to be greater than any sin]


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