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Unacceptable behaviour in a relationship

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  • #32
    SarahMollie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,841 ✭✭✭SarahMollie


    Yeah OP, I'd suspect that she's the one with insecurity issues here, not you. Actually I'd argue that being strong enough to call her out for unacceptable behavior rather than simply putting up with it shows that you clearly have some self worth rather than being an insecure person.

    If you love someone, you don't undermine them. You don't plant seeds in their heads that they're not good enough or that you don't take them seriously. You don't behave in a way that makes them doubt you, ie flirting with others. Thats not loving behavior. She views her ego boost as more important than your feelings, a complete lack of respect IMO.

    Its normal and fine for adults in relationships to occasionally have their head turned by an attractive person, but most of us would try to be discrete and not draw out partners attention to it, rather than engaging in lingering looks with the person in question just for an ego boost.


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