Head all over the place

I wanted to add something to my last post about his reasoning that 'all men do it.'

For years I was very good friends with an extremely goodlooking sexy girl. We were great friends. She was a complete predator with men and highly insecure in spite of (or maybe because of) her appearance. We all know a girl like her; turns heads everywhere, everybody's boyfriends describes her as 'the hot one' in the group, people always wonder how on earth is she single. Now she has many great traits but our friendship became strained because I got so sick of all her issues with men; it actually became exhausting; she needed everyone to fancy her, flirted with everyone, had jealous outbursts whenever I got attention, competed for attention constantly, made a play for every man going despite his relationship status.

The reason I'm bringing this up is because although there were loads of blokes who used her and discarded her for a bit of no-strings fun there were many many guys who resisted all her advances no matter how hard she tried even when it was clear they were attracted to her.

I often found myself consoling her in a hungover state where she regretfully told me of how she made a fool of herself with some guy who obviously struggled to keep saying no.

My point is all men don't seize an opportunity no matter how attractive the girl is and how sure they are that they will never be caught. Some will and they are the ones we are best avoiding. In lots of ways you're lucky because you've seen who he really is.

There are good guys out there.