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Girlfriend was taking nude selfies, but has never sent me one

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  • #32
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    Elessar wrote: »
    If she's as good looking as you say she is then she is definitely getting attention from other lads and probably sending them nudes (and receiving some). I would straight our ask her. But tbh trust your gut, it's usually right.
    you cant say for definite shes getting nudes

    op you walked in on your gf admiring herself in the mirror and she got embarrassed.


  • #33
    pablo128
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,210 ✭✭✭pablo128


    tayto lover wrote: »
    But don't wear the high heels.

    But they make my calves look better.:o


  • #34
    peckerhead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,388 ✭✭✭peckerhead


    PucaMama wrote: »
    you cant say for definite shes getting nudes

    op you walked in on your gf admiring herself in the mirror and she got embarrassed.
    Pfffffft.... :rolleyes:


  • #35
    sjb25
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭sjb25


    beertons wrote: »
    I'd give her a 6.

    Not sure about a 6 but I'd deafintly give her 1


  • #36
    faceman
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    OP you should tell your gf that wearing high heels in the bathroom is incredibly unsafe.

    Also let's call a spade a spade here. Something is up OP. But you can easily deal with this.

    Put on high heels and take nude photos of yourself in her bathroom.


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  • #37
    RobbingBandit
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    Tell her to wear the grey leather boots next time.


  • #38
    pablo128
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,210 ✭✭✭pablo128


    sjb25 wrote: »
    Not sure about a 6 but I'd deafintly give her 1

    I went up to a girl once in a club and whispered in her ear, "jaysis love, I'd give ya one!" She replied, I wouldn't let ya ride me if you were the last man on Earth." "Ah here", I said. "I think you've taken me up wrong. I was giving ya marks out of 10 ya mouldy bitch!" :pac:


  • #39
    biko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Thread is useless without pics




    Oh, wait...


  • #40
    RobbingBandit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,639 ✭✭✭✭RobbingBandit


    Once seen it can not be unseen.


  • #41
    Fr_Dougal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,166 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    Is there anyone on here that hasn't seen pics of the OPs g/f?


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  • #42
    How Soon Is Now
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,277 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Right so serious answer.....

    Just be straight about it with her say look about other day sorry i walked in on you but ive just been thinking about it and its kinda made me wonder why you reacted the way you did? I mean ive seen you in much worse situations :pac:

    I know if it was my girlfriend she would just give me a straight answer or she wouldn't of gave out about it in the first place! It would of just been me laughing at her and say wtf are you doing haha!!

    But ya i dont know you or her so who knows why what happened :pac:

    One way or another if two of yous are close and get on well in these kinds of situations she should just give you the answer you want to hear and you will know if shes telling you the truth.


  • #43
    Satriale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,998 ✭✭✭Satriale


    Come straight out and ask her, no point letting it fester.


  • #44
    Bambi985
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭Bambi985


    She's either a terrible person or an incredibly vain person. Not sure which is worse


  • #45
    222233
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    If she minds her figure I know a lot of us take pics to monitor progress and changes, there are actually a few potential ... perhaps unlikely reasons...
    Just checking how she looks, Monitoring weight, body changes, Documenting her moles? *Some people take pics.


  • #46
    ibFoxer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,478 ✭✭✭ibFoxer


    222233 wrote: »
    If she minds her figure I know a lot of us take pics to monitor progress and changes, there are actually a few potential ... perhaps unlikely reasons...
    Just checking how she looks, Monitoring weight, body changes, Documenting her moles? *Some people take pics.

    OR.....

    She's getting her boobs and/or vajayjay out for any amount of other dudes.


  • #47
    222233
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    ibFoxer wrote: »
    OR.....

    She's getting her boobs and/or vajayjay out for any amount of other dudes.

    Indeed it's possible, she could also be getting them out for any number of women! OP won't know unless he/she asks. In my experience as a girl we photograph the strangest things for the strangest reasons, there could be a logical explanation.


  • #48
    B.A._Baracus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,291 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    If you are actually serious then all joking a side...

    You caught her taking nude selfies. Which weren't taken to be sent to you. Never mind any of this fake "I only took it because I am worried about how my body looks" sh*t The point of a mirror is to see how you look. The point of taking a photograph using the mirror is to take a good photo for who ever will be looking at it.

    You've just found out there is someone else. No one sends nude pictures to their mates. Only to people they want to sleep with or already have.

    You've only got three outcomes.
    1, you pull her up on it and she admits the truth. Up to you if you want to continue.
    2, you pull her up on it and she says you're paranoid (which you're not) and you'll begin to not trust her and actually become paranoid as time goes by.
    3, pull her up on it... She lies... You throw her to the curb and say you weren't born yesterday.

    Only my two cents... But I've played the game of ignoring alarm bells before. Never ends well.


  • #49
    johnayo
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    222233 wrote: »
    Indeed it's possible, she could also be getting them out for any number of women! OP won't know unless he/she asks. In my experience as a girl we photograph the strangest things for the strangest reasons, there could be a logical explanation.


    Yerra go on go on go on. Throw up a few pics there and give us a look.:D


  • #50
    222233
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    johnayo wrote: »
    Yerra go on go on go on. Throw up a few pics there and give us a look.:D

    Seriously though, not every selfie is intended for male satisfaction. A lot of it is just vanity or fun! On snapchat for example it's quite common to snap in the bath etc to friends obviously not the mass public..

    What does trigger alarm bells is the heels, heels usually make your legs longer and slimmer therefore if you wanted the perfect nude heels would be a good addition. If it turns out that's what she was up to.

    I'm going to stick with the she was checking how her body looked.


  • #51
    roysh1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 24 ✭roysh1


    B.A._Baracus wrote: »
    If you are actually serious then all joking a side...

    You caught her taking nude selfies. Which weren't taken to be sent to you. Never mind any of this fake "I only took it because I am worried about how my body looks" sh*t The point of a mirror is to see how you look. The point of taking a photograph using the mirror is to take a good photo for who ever will be looking at it.

    You've just found out there is someone else. No one sends nude pictures to their mates. Only to people they want to sleep with or already have.

    You've only got three outcomes.
    1, you pull her up on it and she admits the truth. Up to you if you want to continue.
    2, you pull her up on it and she says you're paranoid (which you're not) and you'll begin to not trust her and actually become paranoid as time goes by.
    3, pull her up on it... She lies... You throw her to the curb and say you weren't born yesterday.

    Only my two cents... But I've played the game of ignoring alarm bells before. Never ends well.





    This is what my gut is telling me... and I don't want it to be true. I keep replaying her reaction in my mind over and over again . She's the most confident and body confident person I've ever been with. She would strip for me etc and has no shame or body hang ups whatsoever. So the way she covered herself... and shouting at me, she made me feel like a perv or stranger who'd walked in on her. I hear what some posters are saying, about her monitoring changes in her weight/ vanity but that didn't seem the case to me. I've caught her admiring herself before and she never reacted this way, she just laughed it off or said nothing. My intuition is telling me that something is wrong...


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  • #52
    Senna
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    Maybe she's just so pleased with her gender reassignment surgery that she's keeping a daily photographic record of his transformation.


  • #53
    222233
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    roysh1 wrote: »
    This is what my gut is telling me... and I don't want it to be true. I keep replaying her reaction in my mind over and over again . She's the most confident and body confident person I've ever been with. She would strip for me etc and has no shame or body hang ups whatsoever. So the way she covered herself... and shouting at me, she made me feel like a perv or stranger who'd walked in on her. I hear what some posters are saying, about her monitoring changes in her weight/ vanity but that didn't seem the case to me. I've caught her admiring herself before and she never reacted this way, she just laughed it off or said nothing. My intuition is telling me that something is wrong...

    I'd ask her straight out, it's going to affect things going forward either away if it's in the back of your mind. Even bring it up as a joke, tell her your waiting on those pics, see how she reacts.


  • #54
    jimbobaloobob
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,153 ✭✭✭jimbobaloobob


    roysh1 wrote: »
    This is what my gut is telling me... and I don't want it to be true. I keep replaying her reaction in my mind over and over again . She's the most confident and body confident person I've ever been with. She would strip for me etc and has no shame or body hang ups whatsoever. So the way she covered herself... and shouting at me, she made me feel like a perv or stranger who'd walked in on her. I hear what some posters are saying, about her monitoring changes in her weight/ vanity but that didn't seem the case to me. I've caught her admiring herself before and she never reacted this way, she just laughed it off or said nothing. My intuition is telling me that something is wrong...

    Agree with what was said here, only thing id say is dont let it fester for you. Act on it if your going to, otherwise it will eat your confidence. Best of luck


  • #55
    B.A._Baracus
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    roysh1 wrote: »
    This is what my gut is telling me... and I don't want it to be true. I keep replaying her reaction in my mind over and over again . She's the most confident and body confident person I've ever been with. She would strip for me etc and has no shame or body hang ups whatsoever. So the way she covered herself... and shouting at me, she made me feel like a perv or stranger who'd walked in on her. I hear what some posters are saying, about her monitoring changes in her weight/ vanity but that didn't seem the case to me. I've caught her admiring herself before and she never reacted this way, she just laughed it off or said nothing. My intuition is telling me that something is wrong...

    Well Roysh,
    The best advice anyone can get in life is to always trust their gut. The mind can cloud things... we can second-guess ourselves or keep trying to give someone the benefit of the doubt. But our gut will always tell us when something is just wrong. So trust it.


  • #56
    jimbobaloobob
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    222233 wrote: »
    Indeed it's possible, she could also be getting them out for any number of women! OP won't know unless he/she asks. In my experience as a girl we photograph the strangest things for the strangest reasons, there could be a logical explanation.

    really??? go on ive just on the tea and getting the biscuits, the strangest thing for the strangest reason :D


  • #57
    fergiesfolly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,615 ✭✭✭fergiesfolly


    roysh1 wrote: »
    This is what my gut is telling me... and I don't want it to be true. I keep replaying her reaction in my mind over and over again . She's the most confident and body confident person I've ever been with. She would strip for me etc and has no shame or body hang ups whatsoever. So the way she covered herself... and shouting at me, she made me feel like a perv or stranger who'd walked in on her. I hear what some posters are saying, about her monitoring changes in her weight/ vanity but that didn't seem the case to me. I've caught her admiring herself before and she never reacted this way, she just laughed it off or said nothing. My intuition is telling me that something is wrong...


    Body confidence or not, taking selfies is an act of vanity that goes well beyond looking at oneself in the mirror. You walked in on her in a compromising position, ie, being vain. And she acted accordingly. Embarrassment turns to confrontational anger pretty quick, just to distract from the self same embarrassment.
    You can and should ask her about it, just to put your mind at ease. You're both grown ups after all, you should be able to talk about anything. But when she says she was embarrassed that you walked in on her, I'd take her at her word.


  • #58
    peckerhead
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    fergiesfolly wrote: »
    But when she says she was embarrassed that you walked in on her, I'd take her at her word.
    She didn't say that at all, she just got angry and shouted at him.

    And she hasn't spoken about it since? If she was 'righteously' angry at him, the OP would have heard PLENTY about it since, you can be damn sure. I reckon she was angry because she got caught.

    OP, maybe I'm wrong, but either way, the quicker you get this out in the open, the better.


  • #59
    jca
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    pablo128 wrote: »
    I went up to a girl once in a club and whispered in her ear, "jaysis love, I'd give ya one!" She replied, I wouldn't let ya ride me if you were the last man on Earth." "Ah here", I said. "I think you've taken me up wrong. I was giving ya marks out of 10 ya mouldy bitch!" :pac:

    Ha ha, that's great.


  • #60
    randy hickey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,935 ✭✭✭randy hickey


    I think I may have solved this.

    OP, did her phone look like this?;


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    Here's an article about it:
    http://metro.co.uk/2015/11/17/the-izivibe-phone-case-cum-dildo-turns-your-phone-into-a-vibrator-5507482/


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  • #61
    Paulownia
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    She only sent it after I sent mine !


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