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Have you ever done it on a 1st date?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,270 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    :o

    Still together 26 years on. And married. And issue (x4). :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    If by "date" have i gone out and roofied myself to go home with someone I just met? Once or twice


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 127 ✭✭Wedgie


    I've never been on a date.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭Specialun


    Wedgie wrote: »
    I've never been on a date.


    Awwwww

    :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 952 ✭✭✭s4uv3


    Jesus no. That's a sure sign of someone who has no respect for themselves or their date.


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  • Posts: 21,740 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    s4uv3 wrote: »
    Jesus no. That's a sure sign of someone who has no respect for themselves or their date.

    I can assure you that I very much have respect for myself and my ex partners. A four year relationship developed from sleeping with each other on the first date. If the moment is right then go for it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    s4uv3 wrote: »
    Jesus no. That's a sure sign of someone who has no respect for themselves or their date.

    Nana?? get off the Internet


    On that note, do you want to hear about my last one night stand?
    I got so drunk on vodka and went back to his house. He was younger than me and lived with his grandma and uncle. We rode, and I woke up about 2 hours later, still sh1tfaced, but wanted to sneak out and go home before he woke up.
    Unfortunately I was much drunker than I thought, so as I stood up trying to get my leg into my knickers I fell head first into his open wardrobe.

    Luckily I have no shame


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,960 ✭✭✭Dr Crayfish


    I had to think about this but I guess I haven't. Any time I've gone on a date it's been arranged electronically. I've slept with a few women on the first night after meeting them in a bar or through friends or whatever, but that's not a date is it? So, no!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,383 ✭✭✭Miss Demeanour


    Nana?? get off the Internet

    First laugh on boards tonight. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,389 ✭✭✭Mena Mitty


    We were barely seventeen and we were barely dressed, I saw Paradise by the dashboard light.....does that count.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 952 ✭✭✭s4uv3


    I can assure you that I very much have respect for myself and my ex partners. A four year relationship developed from sleeping with each other on the first date. If the moment is right then go for it.

    I was messin ya eejit :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 952 ✭✭✭s4uv3


    Nana?? get off the Internet

    Get up to bed you have schoo in the morning.


  • Posts: 21,740 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    s4uv3 wrote: »
    I was messin ya eejit :D

    Feck ya anyway. First bit of outrage I experienced in a while! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,839 ✭✭✭Walter H Price


    i slept with my Fiance multiple times before we even went on a date , lets be honest here the whole dating thing is only about getting the aul ride anyway so whats the point in dragging it out.

    Like how long would you leave it ?? 2-,3,4 times ... i was interested in a few girls in college and we went out once or twice but if bumping ugly's hadn't happened and still wasn't on the cards at that stage i exited stage left.

    Actually left a date before desert (though i did pay) one night after the girl i was out with brought up religion, Her purity ring and waiting till marriage , i was like nope. Nice girl but aint nobody got time for that sh!t.

    On drinking on date's i was never much into it , i play sport so don't drink much anyway, but it dulls the senses and can fcuk your chances of a good first impression if dinner does turn into breakfast.

    Life is for living , its for doing what feels good not worrying about weather people are going to judge you. There is literally no reward for living a moral life, pure hedonism is the way to go.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 681 ✭✭✭Mr. FoggPatches


    This it thing sounds great. I can't wait until I can do it. With a lady.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Slept with my husband on the first date, don't see the big deal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,655 ✭✭✭✭everlast75


    ....she asked me to unblock her shower drain because it was too icky for her to do.

    worst... euphemism... ever

    Elect a clown... Expect a circus



  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,977 Mod ✭✭✭✭Kimbot


    I only sleep with the womens on the first date...... then when I dont give them it again it drives them insane and my poor bunnies are in danger :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    Candie wrote: »
    Something tells me he was wanting to leave anyway and this revelation made it possible for him to do so, while blaming you for the split.

    Not many people would hold someone to account for something they did very early in a relationship before any commitment was made, when DECADES have passed since.

    It depends. I think if your partner is the type to say "I'd never cheat" "Watching porn is cheating" "Stop looking at that sexy guy / girl" and it turns out that they actually cheated themselves .... well that would be an exit card for me. Also a lot of cheaters do it more than once, but only admit to one time to make it look better. I've never considered cheating, and have had several opportunities over the years, it just isn't me. Would expect the same from a partner. To each their own though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,234 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    Yes would be the short answer. Many times.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,867 ✭✭✭fancy pigeon


    Yes. As a 25 year old I went back with an 18 year old I'd met in person 2 hours earlier to hers for another few hours... Good at the time, mistake looking back!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,839 ✭✭✭Walter H Price


    Yes. As a 25 year old I went back with an 18 year old I'd met in person 2 hours earlier to hers for another few hours... Good at the time, mistake looking back!

    Why so ?

    More out of curiosity then anything , what changed it to a mistake on reflection


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,103 ✭✭✭ectoraige


    Actually in stitches :pac:

    So was she! :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,273 ✭✭✭bazza1


    There was this one time at bandcamp......:)


  • Posts: 11,642 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Well boys and girls - who has put out on a 1st date?

    Was alcohol a factor?

    Yes and yes.

    And to answer your next question, yes I still respected the girl afterwards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,631 ✭✭✭El Tarangu


    This thread:



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 790 ✭✭✭Sciprio


    Done what? Put the bins out before going on a date? Of course i have.

    EDIT: Jaysus! There nearly is someone, somewhere in the world with the same thoughts as you. :D


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 861 ✭✭✭MeatTwoVeg


    A Gentleman would never kiss and tell, but yes, frequently and with some gusto.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,627 ✭✭✭Sgt Pepper 64


    Does after receiving your first communion count as a first date?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 861 ✭✭✭MeatTwoVeg


    Threads like this can be tricky as Boards is mostly populated by incredibly virile, attractive sex-beasts.

    Given the amount of red-hot action the average user is experiencing, replies can be difficult to formulate, much less type out.

    Don't get me wrong, it's a pleasant change from the rest of the internet which is almost exclusively made of up antisocial fantasists.


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