Have you ever done it on a 1st date?

galwayredgirl

Well boys and girls - who has put out on a 1st date?

Was alcohol a factor?

MarkR

You first

callaway92

Done what?

sjb25

callaway92 wrote: »

Done what?

It ITTTTT

ohnonotgmail

Does shagging somebody in a nightclub toilet 15 minutes after meeting them count as a date?

Boom_Bap

I once put out a girls bins on a first date. Not a euphemism.

Ted111

I was put out on a first date.

The flying mouse

I did it on my first date, funny thing is she asked me for payment before...

Didas

ohnonotgmail wrote: »

Does shagging somebody in a nightclub toilet 15 minutes after meeting them count as a date?

Yes

Trotters

Yes, but I regretted it.

ohnonotgmail

tonygun wrote: »

Yes

but you see technically we didnt have a first date until the next night. the OP needs to clarify.

Grayson

Boom_Bap wrote: »

I once put out a girls bins on a first date. Not a euphemism.

I fixed her hard drive. True story

theteal

First and last!

BrokenArrows

ohnonotgmail wrote: »

but you see technically we didnt have a first date until the next night. the OP needs to clarify.

date-ception

Walter H Price

Always , given the chance , and in my experience plenty of ladies willing to provide said chance should you play your cards right.

Nothing better then a bit of lust at first sight and nothing to be ashamed about

cantdecide

Walter H Price wrote: »

Nothing better then a bit of lust at fist sight and nothing to be ashamed about

Jaysus

ohnonotgmail

Walter H Price wrote: »

Always , given the chance , and in my experience plenty of ladies willing to provide said chance should you play your cards right.

Nothing better then a bit of lust at fist sight and nothing to be ashamed about

a typo hopefully

MarkR

Red head girls are duuurty.

Probably

whoopsadoodles

cantdecide wrote: »

Jaysus

Actually in stitches :pac:

sjb25

Walter H Price wrote: »

Always , given the chance , and in my experience plenty of ladies willing to provide said chance should you play your cards right.

Nothing better then a bit of lust at fist sight and nothing to be ashamed about

.

Walter H Price

Yup dyslexia strikes again

galwayredgirl

MarkR wrote: »

You first

Yes - I even went back to his house and slept in his bed.

Worst drunken mistake of my life!

empacher

galwayredgirl wrote: »

Yes - I even went back to his house and slept in his bed.

Worst drunken mistake of my life!

Meet me for a drink O'Connells and I can guarantee to give you a far worse mistake.

cantdecide

galwayredgirl wrote: »

Worst drunken mistake of my life!

Worst drunken mistake of your life so far...

galwayredgirl

empacher wrote: »

Meet me for a drink O'Connells and I can guarantee to give you a far worse mistake.

Wow! - You're a real charmer. I'll be the chubby one with the orange curly hair

Mines a Bacardi and coke by the ways.........

lukesmom

Yes and still together 16 years later

pilly

Hell yeah, hasn't everyone over a certain age either had a one night stand or done it on a 1st date? Not always a great idea but sure what harm?

frag420

Grayson wrote: »

I fixed her hard drive. True story

Did she sort out your floppy?

cantdecide

pilly wrote: »

Hell yeah, hasn't everyone over a certain age either had a one night stand or done it on a 1st date?

Not everyone. Some people have less a a w*nk bank and more of a w*nk ATM.

Put out? I put a man in hospital on our first date.*






*he was taken ill suddenly and an ambulance was called. I'm not that dangerous.

goose2005

callaway92 wrote: »

Done what?

made eye contact

empacher

galwayredgirl wrote: »

Wow! - You're a real charmer. I'll be the chubby one with the orange curly hair

Mines a Bacardi and coke by the ways.........

Going to O'Connels and not having a pint of guinness is a sin really. At least drink a decent rum. Havanna is far nicer.

Winterlong

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

Actually in stitches :pac:

And after a fisting - she may have been too.

galwayredgirl

pilly wrote: »

Hell yeah, hasn't everyone over a certain age either had a one night stand or done it on a 1st date? Not always a great idea but sure what harm?

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

FortySeven

There was this one time that I didn't do it on a first date. I've lost count of the rest that did.

pilly

galwayredgirl wrote: »

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

He couldn't cope with the fact that you had slept with someone on a 1st date before you met him or while you were with him?

galwayredgirl

galwayredgirl wrote: »

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

You had a date/one night stand while in a long term relationship with someone whom you latter married, after 23 years of marriage you owned up to this while drunk and you husband left you?

FortySeven

galwayredgirl wrote: »

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

You shouldn't drink again. Ouch!

Fair play to you.

cantdecide

galwayredgirl wrote: »

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

Was this revelation a recent event?

galwayredgirl

pilly wrote: »

He couldn't cope with the fact that you had slept with someone on a 1st date before you met him or while you were with him?

I was with him (hubby) for 8 months. We even went to National School together.

I lost my virginity to hubby a month before I did the dirty on him with some randomer on a girly weekend up North.

galwayredgirl

mariaalice wrote: »

You had a date/one night stand while in a long term relationship with someone whom you latter married, after 23 years of marriage you owned up to this while drunk and you husband left you?

Yep - Sat me and the kids down and said he was leaving - thankfully he was good enough not to reveal my dirty little secret to our 3 kids.

galwayredgirl

cantdecide wrote: »

Was this revelation a recent event?

A couple of years ago now but it still hurts like crazy

Shenshen

Frequently, and no, it was never a factor. I wouldn't drink on a date.

empacher

galwayredgirl wrote: »

pilly wrote: »

Hell yeah, hasn't everyone over a certain age either had a one night stand or done it on a 1st date? Not always a great idea but sure what harm?

No harm at all providing you don't have a long term boyfriend at the same time who you later marry.

I let it slip after 23 years of marriage (while engaged in an intimate drink fueled romp) to said boyfriend who had graduated to husband.

Needless to say he couldn't cope with the revelation and moved out shortly after. My fault really. I told him he was my one and only for 20 years.

Ahh the demon drink - lol!

You really should have told me you are married before you invited me on a date. I'm nobodys side salad.

galwayredgirl

galwayredgirl wrote: »

Yep - Sat me and the kids down and said he was leaving - thankfully he was good enough not to reveal my dirty little secret to our 3 kids.

Something tells me he was wanting to leave anyway and this revelation made it possible for him to do so, while blaming you for the split.

Not many people would hold someone to account for something they did very early in a relationship before any commitment was made, when DECADES have passed since.

cantdecide

galwayredgirl wrote: »

A couple of years ago now but it still hurts like crazy

I knew there was more to this. You must have been quite young and we all did stupid things when we were young. It definitely sounds very unfair to you considering how long ago it was and how relatively short a period ye had been together. I sympathise. I can't believe he can't just get over it after all this time.

pilly

Candie wrote: »

Something tells me he was wanting to leave anyway and this revelation made it possible for him to do so, while blaming you for the split.

Not many people would hold someone to account for something they did very early in a relationship before any commitment was made, when DECADES have passed since.

Yep I agree with Candie on this one, he was looking for an excuse. I wouldn't think it's a dirty little secret, it was a mistake, one a lot of people make when young and drunk.

NickNickleby

galwayredgirl wrote: »

Yep - Sat me and the kids down and said he was leaving - thankfully he was good enough not to reveal my dirty little secret to our 3 kids.

Wow. Seems a bit of an overreaction on his part, to an indiscretion in the distant past. Or was your confession more wistful..."jays us, I'll never forget that weekend in the North, yer man was some stallion!"

Don't know though, gave up his wife a kids 20 odd years later??? I'm finding it difficult to sympathise with him.

I hope your kids came through it ok.

N

Special Circumstances

Buzzzzzkillllll

Squeeonline

It wasn't our first night together, but certainly in the first 5 times, she asked me to unblock her shower drain because it was too icky for her to do. Her and her housemates long hair. It was quite icky, but I was well compensated.

With breakfast, you dirty minded so and sos.

gramar

MarkR wrote: »

You first

The OP doesn't put out on a first post.