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Healy-Rae's and funerals

  • 21-07-2016 03:33PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 329 ✭✭


    http://www.irishexaminer.com/ireland/healy-raes-defend-their-high-attendance-rate-at-funerals-in-kerry-411452.html

    What do ye make of this story? I reckon Cahill is just p!ssed off that that they had the gaul to send his sister a berevement pack!
    When my own Dad died a few years ago, Michael and his nephew, Johnny, turned up at the funeral. A few of my first cousins would know both fairly well, so I didnt think anything of it.
    The next day, we got a letter in the post, with a mass card and information on things that my widowed mother would be entitled to. To be honest, I wouldnt be the greatest fan of the Healy-Raes, but I was fairly impressed with the information pack. Times like that, you wouldnt be in the right head space to go looking for that kind of info . (I know it wouldnt take a big effort to find out, but it definitely made things a bit easier to have it land on your lap).
    As for them going to funerals of people they dont know, so what? I've gone to plenty of funerals where I dont know the deseased, but I'd know one (or more) of the mourners, maybe its a Kerry thing, but I dont see anything wrong with it. Again from my own personal experience, I had work colleagues travel over 200 miles round trip to come to my Dads funeral, most of these people never even met my father, but it was still very much appreciated.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,750 ✭✭✭wonga77


    I guess people will read into it whatever way they want. Some will just use it as a stick to beat the Healy Rae's and others will find that there is useful information in the pack and appreciate it. As you say yourself, your not a big fan but were impressed by the effort, that says alot.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,096 ✭✭✭✭McDermotX


    Gowls


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    The bereavement pack sounds like a nice idea tbf.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    The information pack is a great idea but I don't think anyone should go to a funeral unless they know the deceased or a member of their family. A public figure attracts attention and even if their motives are genuine it can look self serving. The focus should be on the bereaved not political figures.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,541 ✭✭✭runawaybishop


    Its chugging for votes, how could you think its anything but that :/ Its disgusting behavior and they should be ran right the **** out.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    eviltwin wrote: »
    The information pack is a great idea but I don't think anyone should go to a funeral unless they know the deceased or a member of their family. A public figure attracts attention and even if their motives are genuine it can look self serving. The focus should be on the bereaved not political figures.

    There's this old attitude in rural Ireland that you have to be seen at a funeral.

    Personally I wouldn't give a hoot whether the local TD attended a family funeral of mine or not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    I've been at more then one graveside when a politician has sidled up beside me to inquire who is dead before the approach the chief mourners.

    It might not be the most subtle thing in the world for a politician to be doing, but as they are supposed to be public representatives after all, there's far worse things they could be spending their time doing, such as interfering in the running of the country.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    eviltwin wrote: »
    The information pack is a great idea but I don't think anyone should go to a funeral unless they know the deceased or a member of their family. A public figure attracts attention and even if their motives are genuine it can look self serving. The focus should be on the bereaved not political figures.

    Anybody who finds their attention drawn to the politicians shouldn't really be at the funeral either in my opinion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    The Healy-Raes are clever lads when it comes to getting out there and seen.


    But,


    isnt it very common for rural people to attend funerals of people you barely even know, just out of respect for the family?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,266 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    The Healy-Raes are clever lads when it comes to getting out there and seen.


    But,


    isnt it very common for rural people to attend funerals of people you barely even know, just out of respect for the family?

    This is it, people will whinge that it's cynical vote-buying if they turn up and people will also whinge that they didn't care about their community if they didn't bother going.

    A rural funeral is a social event, not just dig a hole and fire him (or her) into the ground asap. Townies and city slickers will never understand this.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    It's a bit ghoulish to regularly attend funerals of perfect strangers, and I have NOTHING good to say about the Healy-Rae's. However, those packs sound like a great idea. Why would anyone be annoyed to receive one?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 334 ✭✭skywanderer


    I wonder if Politicians can claim mileage expenses, I was at a funeral a few years ago I noticed a TD from 100+ miles away and when chatting briefly after the burial with a few others and I was told they can claim mileage expenses and effectively get paid to attend funerals at around €2 - €3 per mile.

    Its ok for politicians to attend funerals in their locality or of people they know or are friends with; but turning up at strangers funerals is quite frankly wrong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    This is it, people will whinge that it's cynical vote-buying if they turn up and people will also whinge that they didn't care about their community if they didn't bother going.

    A rural funeral is a social event, not just dig a hole and fire him (or her) into the ground asap. Townies and city slickers will never understand this.

    Its kind of like the auld Irish mammy, "you'll never guess who died' thinge.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40,059 ✭✭✭✭Harry Palmr


    Exploiting people at their weakest moment....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,735 ✭✭✭jam_mac_jam


    I think its really tacky.. they should be doing their jobs not using death as a way to get more votes. They aren't the only ones who do it so I mean TDs in general.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 571 ✭✭✭pcuser


    I used to live in Limerick City, Im now living in a small village in Kerry, Country funerals are completely different.. People that are barely known to the family turn up to pay their respects.

    Since moving to Kerry in the last 6 years ive got to know Danny and Michael on a first name basis. Ive met Maura twice. Its not that I have went out of my way to meet them. Its the fact that they are the only TDs that are constantly canvassing. They also make it their business to call to the bar I work in once a month.

    Ive had no other TDs or Councillors at my house in the 6 years I have being here. Its very easy to criticize the Healy Raes when you are not living here, When I was younger I would see Jackie Healy Rae on tv and think he was a joke, But if you live here you will see how hard they work and how successful they are at getting things done.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,043 ✭✭✭Truckermal


    Jesus Christ dammed if you do and dammed if you don't definitely applies here and I have nothing to do with them..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭longshanks


    Are these information packs not usually given to the family of the dead person by the undertaker, or in some cases the family solicitor?
    It's vote buying from the Healy Rae boys, disguised as concern, goodwill etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,605 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Always thought politicians at funerals was a pretty disgusting stunt.The bereavement package seems to be a further step in using the dead to gain votes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,687 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    I read recently that they deliberately sign funeral condolence books in a different colour biro to make their contribution stand out. :)

    If true, it's one of the funniest yet profoundly depressing things I've ever read.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    The bearded Healy-Rae is what I'd imagine a village idiot to look like. His views on global warming are well out there.

    Congrats to the people of Kerry, you've outdone yourselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,440 ✭✭✭The Rape of Lucretia


    isnt it very common for rural people to attend funerals of people you barely even know, just out of respect for the family?

    Its not really for the respect. Its more for the social outing. Bit of grub thrown in sometimes as well does no harm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,096 ✭✭✭✭McDermotX


    Its not really for the respect. Its more for the social outing. Bit of grub thrown in sometimes as well does no harm.

    This.

    Buried my Grandfather in Wexford a few year back, with the funeral cortege from Dublin. Was in December......very cold, very bleak and yet the turnout to the graveyard was massive from people around the area.
    Family eventually made our way back to a function room in the village local for food and drink.............low and behold, almost all the food gone before we had a chance to get some ourselves.
    They hang around the graveyard to be seen, leave within 10mins and then they swarm down to wherever there may be free food and drink and gorge themselves without so much as a by your leave.

    Savages. The lot of 'em.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭baaba maal


    They're meant to be TDs- why aren't they putting forward a costed proposal to the relevant minister for these packs to be made available to all bereaved?
    I think people will fundamentally disagree about the role of TDs in this country- some think they are servants exclusively of their constituents, so showing up to every local event, or your place of work, or home, is somehow productive. I don't. I think TDs should be legislating and/or taking the government of the day to task on matters of at least regional and mainly national interest. How many days a year are the Healy Raes spending at funerals for people they don't know? This is time spent networking and working towards re-election, not working as TDs ofr which they are paid (they are obviously not the only ones at this, but they are the subject of the thread).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,162 ✭✭✭✭Del2005


    pcuser wrote: »
    I used to live in Limerick City, Im now living in a small village in Kerry, Country funerals are completely different.. People that are barely known to the family turn up to pay their respects.

    Since moving to Kerry in the last 6 years ive got to know Danny and Michael on a first name basis. Ive met Maura twice. Its not that I have went out of my way to meet them. Its the fact that they are the only TDs that are constantly canvassing. They also make it their business to call to the bar I work in once a month.

    Ive had no other TDs or Councillors at my house in the 6 years I have being here. Its very easy to criticize the Healy Raes when you are not living here, When I was younger I would see Jackie Healy Rae on tv and think he was a joke, But if you live here you will see how hard they work and how successful they are at getting things done.

    Would it not be better for your public representative to be doing their job than turning up at funerals and pubs?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,440 ✭✭✭The Rape of Lucretia


    Del2005 wrote: »
    Would it not be better for your public representative to be doing their job than turning up at funerals and pubs?

    In the case of those two clients, I think I would be happier with them touring pubs and funerals than trying to do anything for the people of Ireland or its governance. Safest place for them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,728 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    If they sign the condolences book using a different coloured pen then that's a very cynical and calculated move.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I read recently that they deliberately sign funeral condolence books in a different colour biro to make their contribution stand out. :)

    If true, it's one of the funniest yet profoundly depressing things I've ever read.

    That's so calculated and self-serving. Ugh.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,681 ✭✭✭Fleawuss


    A bereavement pack? Have we sunk so low that we need TD's to do this? No. Some of them have sunk that low to think we are incapable of managing our own affairs and that when we elect someone to the legislature that we really want a counselling service from them. What's next? The Healy Rae arse wiping service?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,605 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    What are your entitlements as a matter of interest?


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