another case of the ex's

LegacyUser

i was just wondering what people think of this:

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

am i just mad?

Funky

maybe he feels slightly guilty knowing she's your ex , or maybe suspicious that you still have feelings for her.

LegacyUser

im female

Bottle_of_Smoke

Did u finish the relationship? maybe its like a sense of revenge - "look at me now" "think about what you're missing?"

eth0_

Originally posted by Unregistered
im female

Good for you!

LegacyUser

it was never a 'relationship' if you know what i mean, it just kind of finished

Mercury_Tilt

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corkey

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt


Im male. Need a fuk buddy?

Only messing.

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

Cop a feel next time you're alone with her.

Come back and tell us how you got on.

Cop a feel next time ?
What does that mean ?
Phone her talk, you must be holding for something dont read through the lines (Talk)

Mercury_Tilt

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Jak

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

Stop watching them so.

corkey

Cop a feel ?
You put it there?
Are you single?

Talk its better than a slap in the face
And better than loseing two friends,

Pepe LeFrits

eh, the original poster is a she (assuming the 2nd anonymous post was made by the same person).

does your advice still stand merc?

CodeMonkey

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

Cop a feel next time you're alone with her.

Come back and tell us how you got on.

Errrr, what???? I think the unreged that proclaimed she's female is the original poster Does everyone always assumes only internet guys posts relationship problems here?

CodeMonkey

To original poster:
maybe your ex is just worried that you'll get upset seeing them intimate together. Or maybe he still likes you and want to see how you react. Or maybe he's just uncomfortable with you watching. You can always just ask what's up if he's a good friend.

corkey

Waiting Merc lol

Mercury_Tilt

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Mercury_Tilt

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CodeMonkey

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt

I think you need to read closer code'ie.

Now that's funny cause the original post said...

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

and you said...

It sounds like when she kisses him and looks at you... shes thinking of you.

And corkey is not the only one who can't understand what you mean by "Cop a feel next time you're alone with her." Now do you mean him here and what does the phrase "cop a feel" mean?

corkey

Talk its better than putting two&two together burp sorry had a few beers tonight, Talk alone with your friend see what happens,
Other way next time they kiss wink and laugh, Real friends would not carry on in front of you if they had feelings for you

Mercury_Tilt

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corkey

All

Were loseing the real post here, Someone is haveing trouble
cop a feel and all that does not work with a real person,

Mercury_Tilt

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corkey

Burp Goodnight all

WhiteWashMan

he either still fancies you, wants to rub your nose in it, or is embarrassed that you have to watch him with his new bird but he still cares for you.

id just go and snog his best friend in front of him and then look at him. and then go and snog your ex's bird.

and then tell us how you feel.

LegacyUser

Maybe if you stopped watching them snog they'd feel a bit more comfortable about it.

logic1

Take naked pictures of yourself and post them on the internet. That's sure to make him jealous.

Give me the URL when you do.

That is all.

.logic.

Occidental

Merc,

I didn't think you had colloquialisms up north. Always thought the weather was too harsh.


I'll take €20 on him trying to make you jealous. Go get a life that doesn't involve either of them before you drive yourself mad.

Mercury_Tilt

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Typedef

Originally posted by dazed 'n' confused!
i was just wondering what people think of this:

my ex is dating a friend of mine and we still really get on, and everytime im around and she kisses him he looks at me?

am i just mad?

This is called 'rubbing your face in it'.

No that is not madness on your part, that is you getting your face rubbed in it. 'Friendly advice', don't look, or better yet, don't be in a situation where you will interact with l'couple, I assure you that as soon as you are no longer there to have your face rubbed in it, you will have already taken half the joy away from the sad case who was deriving fun out of it to begin with.

Revel in this, and derive satisfaction from it. Yes and get another boyfriend..... did I mention I'm single.........

Beruthiel

Originally posted by Typedef
did I mention I'm single.........

going in for the kill while she's still on the rebound there typedef???

Typedef

Originally posted by Beruthiel


going in for the kill while she's still on the rebound there typedef???

ah, umm me.... ?
I was empathising .... offering kind words

/mental_note Beruthiel knows too much