Is your yoke what you want it to be?

TerrorFirmer

Jesjes wrote:

Also, *Page*, your post was in no way useful, and entirely far too much information for anyone to need to know. You too LadyJ.

Yeah I was thinking that, especially LadyJs..... :rolleyes:

life is not porn.

Exactly. Don't try to live up to preconceived notions of what sex should be. I can probably say, unless your penis has the girth of a matchstick, that you are absolutely perfectly adequate and with the right technique can provide as much for a woman as any man can.

amazingemmet

Just on the surgery note you can get your girth increased by some form of reverse liposuction. Gets good results (so i hear) the only bad thing is the fat gets reabsorbed into the body after a few years.

Nevyn

<Sigh>

Right look,
not every person you get entangled sexually with is going to be compatible.
The range of what is considered the 'norm' for men and women down there
is pretty wide and varies a lot;
too long, too short, too wide, too narrow, too deep, too shallow.

There are positions and excerises that can help no need for surgery unless
your less then 4 inches. Yes it means learning a few skills and reading up on things, http://www.loversguide.co.uk/ and the age old karma sutra.

Like any other accomplishment it takes aquring skills, pratice time and experience. Ideally we see this as something done in a loving long term realtionship or an extended playful one ,
one night stands arent so good for learning these skills.

Witches of Eastwick wrote:

SUKIE
Huge!

JANE
No. Small. Really, I prefer small.
Aesthetically. And huge can be a
problem. Sam was huge and there
were days I just couldn't face it.

ALEX
I'm sort of in the middle. But
honestly, what's the difference,
as long as it works...

sutty

op, I'd lissen to the advice given to you by Thaed and WWM. There are many places on a womans body that can "help" with stimulating her. It all depends on the woman. Ask her. Hell ask her to show you how she likes to be touched and so on. Then work on it from your own angle so to speak. As WWM said. Its more than pounding away for 10min. Best thing is to talk to your G/F and see what she had to say.

PS... the karma sutra is great fun to "look" through and see what you can do, like doing and that she can do and likes doing.

*Page*

Jesjes wrote:

Its not the size of the boat its the motion in the ocean.

Also, *Page*, your post was in no way useful, and entirely far too much information for anyone to need to know. You too LadyJ.

Most of the advice been given is spot on. 6" is perfectly fine and you should stop worrying.

Also, there are two people in your relationship, maybe you should share your concern with the lady and she will probably reassure you not to worry. Communication is the key here. No point fretting over something that you shouldn't be, esp on your own.

sorry what i was trying to say was that its not all about intercourse that makes sex good its about the rest of it..

the holding and caring.

its not all about penitartion!

xzanti

*Page* wrote:

sorry what i was trying to say was that its not all about intercourse that makes sex good its about the rest of it..

the holding and caring.

its not all about penitartion!

Here here

nesf

A late 2c... (Echoing WWM, thead, et al)


Hmm 6 inches? Meh, that's average mate. And definitely long enough. If you were sub 4 as Thead already said you'd have a problem. But 6? Nah, you're fine with that tbh.

Talk to some close female friends before getting yourself worked up about size. Women have different tastes, some prefer thickness, some lenght. Most of them want more from sex than just missionary anyways.

There are a myriad of positions that you can experiment with together. Some give deeper penetration, some shallower. Believe it or not, but guys with larger members have their own issues with sex. Some women find sex with them quite painful in most positions etc.

Also, start thinking outside the box. Look, you're "size" means relatively little. If she's turned on enough and you've done enough foreplay then she probably won't care about what size you are by the time it gets around to penetration (assuming you aren't freakishly small here).


There are also many points, not just the G-spot. Experiment, mess around, have fun together. Sex is not something that's better left not talked about. Sex is something that you should be able to talk about frankly and openly with each other about. Do this and then you both can be having a lot of pleasure, and it's a far better experience this way.

Sex is not just about rough hard "porn-style" intercourse. There is a lot more to it. Make more of an effort. Find out what she likes and get good at doing it. She should do the same of course. Learn how to give massages, a nice romantic massage using oils and such is well worth trying.

Open your mind and stop obsessing about your size. There is far more to sex than penetration. It's a fun part of it, but not the be all and end all.