Girls - Is this really what you want?

A friend posted this up on other website I go to. Now if this is true, how come so many of you girls fall for tossers?

Please indicate if you'd repost this^^^ in the poll

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot". who calls you back when you hang up on him. who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. wait for the boy who kisses your forehead & who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. who holds your hand in front of his friends. who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist. the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her"

girls repost this if you want a guy to treat you like this

guy repost this if you will treat a girl like this

seamus

It's bull**** like this that's causing relationships to break up.

TBH.

I agree. Talk about stupid stereotypical pressure!!!

Sangre

And how exactly does the woman in question reciprocate?

koneko

Hey, here's a tip, don't read American forums. They're all full of crap (except the ones that aren't).

That post is just cringe-worthy.

simu

Cringe... I don't think I could spend more than an hour with such a guy without having psychotic urges to do very nasty things to him.

Rofl at the poor losers who are actually going to try to act like that!

Adam

/me hides

Of the posters that think thats all complete bull**** what's your current relationship status?

simu

Well, irl is none of your business but I have at least one stalker on boards! Yeah!

Run AWAY fade_to_grey!!!!


lol

seamus

simu wrote:

Well, irl is none of your business but I have at least one stalker on boards! Yeah!

And he doesn't keep the low profile one would expect of a stalker...

Kernel

Sangre wrote:

And how exactly does the woman in question reciprocate?

Blowjobs? haha.. no usually they just spend all your money and use you as a doormat if you act like that.

azezil

hmmm I'd like that... I'm usually to shy to say it but that's how i'd feel, and I'd like it if a guy did that for me.

][cEMAN**

I'm a guy. I've done all of the above.

Not all the time, but there are times you just do it.

I don't see it as a bad thing, but if it is then I need help

Or maybe it's only certain women who would want this, and others think it's sad.

I say each to their own.

Boston

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful".

I do that.


who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat.
I've done that.

or will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
I've done that.

kisses your forehead
I've done that.

who holds your hand in front of his friends.
I do that.

who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up
never wears make up.

on and insists on holding you around the waist.
I enjoy doing that, what guy doesn't.

the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you..
I do that.

How on earth does that make me a nice guy, I'm an arsehole.

simu

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot". - good, but being called hot is good too

who calls you back when you hang up on him.
- presunably you don't want to talk to him anymore if you hang up so that would be annoying

who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat,- the stars bit - ok - but anyone who is fascinated by heart beats sounds a bit dull

or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. - that is very creepy imo

wait for the boy who kisses your forehead - there are better places to kiss a woman, it's more relatives who do that

& who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. - why? to embarass me?

who holds your hand in front of his friends. - most guys do that, normal

who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on - ok whatever flaots his boat

and insists on holding you around the waist. - sounds like some unreformed WWE addict

the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares - that would get boring fast

and how lucky he is to have you.. - the sign of a clingy limpet of a man

the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her" - well, yes by definition. bit of a pointless thing to say.

Adam

So what do you like from your guy simu??

*marie*

I'm a girl and I have to say, soppy though it is, I would love someone to treat me like that. Maybe not ALL the time, cos that would take all the special-ness (?) out of it, but to be reminded how much he cares about you every now and then would be lovely!

Trojan

That just shows - some girls even convince themselves that they'd like it.

Pink Bunny

*marie* wrote:

. Maybe not ALL the time, cos that would take all the special-ness (?) out of it, but to be reminded how much he cares about you every now and then would be lovely!

I was just going to reply the same thing-all that can be lovely,in moderation. I think that's whats seperates the romantic men from the clinging types. Tell me I look beautiful once in a while if I do, but not all the time, then it loses it's meaning.
I'd wager a bet the writer of that original quote was a starry-eyed 16 year old.
*PS...if I woke up and caught my guy looking at me while I was sleeping I'd be creeped out! :eek:

RobertFoster

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot". I don't like the expression hot...or fit...or minging for that matter, so I'd use beautiful over hot anyday.

who calls you back when you hang up on him. Sounds like a long phonecall...

who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat Stars yes, heartbeat no.

will stay awake just to watch you sleep Like simu said, creepy.

wait for the boy who kisses your forehead That's how you kiss your granny tbh.

who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats Are sweats tracksuit bottoms?

who holds your hand in front of his friends A given.

who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on Her preference.

insists on holding you around the waist Depends on how tall she is tbh.

the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. Sounds clingy and needy...

the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her" I'm sure they'd already know if I was holding her hand with my arm around her waist :rolleyes:

tman

"Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot"." - guilty. damn broad doesn't believe me when i say it though
" who calls you back when you hang up on him." - **** that tbh
"who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat" - sorry. my testicles were still there last time i checked...
"or will stay awake just to watch you sleep." - ehm... i watched her sleep once because i was too wired from a session to get to sleep myself... does that count?
" wait for the boy who kisses your forehead & who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. who holds your hand in front of his friends. who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist." - guilteh of most of those too...
" the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her"" - i hope my friends would have the decency to punch me very hard in the face if i ever said something like that :rolleyes:

Kernel

tman wrote:

"Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot"." - guilty. damn broad doesn't believe me when i say it though
" who calls you back when you hang up on him." - **** that tbh
"who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat" - sorry. my testicles were still there last time i checked...
"or will stay awake just to watch you sleep." - ehm... i watched her sleep once because i was too wired from a session to get to sleep myself... does that count?
" wait for the boy who kisses your forehead & who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. who holds your hand in front of his friends. who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist." - guilteh of most of those too...
" the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her"" - i hope my friends would have the decency to punch me very hard in the face if i ever said something like that :rolleyes:

LOL Congratulations Tman, you are normal.

simu

fade_to_grey wrote:

So what do you like from your guy simu??

Be good in bed, look good, be intelligent and provide good conversation, be psychologically healthy but not over-emotional, be ungimpy generally - that's about it

Adam

simu wrote:

Be good in bed, look good, be intelligent and provide good conversation, be psychologically healthy but not over-emotional, be ungimpy generally - that's about it

And all the stuff posted by the OP wouldn't be a nice plus no?

simu

fade_to_grey wrote:

And all the stuff posted by the OP wouldn't be a nice plus no?

I refer you to post 15.

Than again, that's just me. There are freaks out there who'll enjoy the weirdest things!

She-Ra

being singleat the moment i wouldn't mind a bit of romance.... however, i wouldn't let a guy see me without even a little mascara, if he wanted to lie watchin the stars i'd be bored in 3 seconds and tracksuit bottoms?!?! no thanks!

Naos

ffs.

If a guy didnt do any of those things the girls would be bitching about not caring enough. Its a lose lose situation for us guys..

She-Ra

Mear wrote:

ffs.

If a guy didnt do any of those things the girls would be bitching about not caring enough. Its a lose lose situation for us guys..

If a guy didn't do ANY of these things then of course a girl is gonna have a whinge... but too much of it is equally,if not more, as bad

Hobbes

I thought breathing through his ears would be a bonus?

She-Ra

if a bloke could do this ya wouldn't need to worry coz he'd be off workin most of the time wi the carni's!

Le Rack

lads whoever of you out there think this is bull then your fairly wrong. I would love a guy fairly like that, cuz some of its a bit too much but some of it I've had and its great. Of my last three boyfs, one of them denied being with me so he could cheat on me but before all that bull we did watch the stars together, we did sit for ages in eachothers bliss while I listened to his heartbeat, we had a lot of those things. Ex no.2 was a bit awkward cuz he was a bit older so we had to keep fairly on the down low but the time we spent together was nice. Ex no. 3 emm well that relationship was very physical to say the least but it was great and it wasn't just physical, we just spent time wandering around the park arm in arm too which was really nice and the fact that we kissed in front of parents numerous times was even better cuz I would never allow my parents to see me with someone but it just didn't matter with him, it was really nice. (I'm 17, hence the not wanting parents to see me up until recently)

Draupnir

I know Ive done all this before, this is all just general stuff that happens by itself when you are in love with someone. You dont even notice it really because its just natural.

I would consider myself a bit of prick to women a lot of the time, but the one time Ive ever been in love with someone, this was how it generally was between us. Obviously not all the time, just when we were alone and close. Im sure you get the picture.

The rest of the time, its just like having a best friend.

Zombienosh

This thread makes sense, I used to be a "nice guy" type like in the original thing, but that got me walked on hah, anyways after some time ive become a bitter ****e and treat some people like crap, surprise surprise, they like it better this way?!?

yeah, tbh women, ill never understand.

She-Ra

your not alone... women don't understand it either

Adam

simu wrote:

I refer you to post 15.

Than again, that's just me. There are freaks out there who'll enjoy the weirdest things!

No offence, but judging by the poll results so far, i'd say your the only freak we have on our hands at the moment... :rolleyes:

PullMyFinger!

Complete b*llix. Someones been watching too much OC.

Women dont know what they want, thats the problem.

Adam

simu wrote:

I refer you to post 15.

Than again, that's just me. There are freaks out there who'll enjoy the weirdest things!

No offence, but judging by the poll results so far, i'd say your the only freak we have on our hands at the moment... :rolleyes:

EDIT: Sorry, your not alone, there are 4 of you

EDIT 2: Damn it! I tried to stop the page but it posted twice! :mad:

kjt

Papa Smut wrote:

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot". who calls you back when you hang up on him. who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. wait for the boy who kisses your forehead & who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. who holds your hand in front of his friends. who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist. the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her"

Wow That is actually 100% me... except for the last part (thats her). Aint too happy in my 2yr relationship ... Ahh whats it like to be single lads?.... Will sure be weird in a month/2 when I am :S

She-Ra

if your not happy in your relationship your better of out dontcha think... why wait?! your just prolonging the agony of thinking about it

Adam

kjt wrote:

Wow That is actually 100% me... except for the last part (thats her). Aint too happy in my 2yr relationship ... Ahh whats it like to be single lads?.... Will sure be weird in a month/2 when I am :S

If its only been two years and yet you've lost all memory of single life you should have gotten out of that relationship a long time ago my friend!! :eek:

kjt

fade_to_grey wrote:

If its only been two years and yet you've lost all memory of single life you should have gotten out of that relationship a long time ago my friend!! :eek:

WHy? When your happily in love you tend to forget all about other people or at least to a point. I will be ending it soon, I just really dont want to hurt her tbh.

Jonny Arson

Find a guy who calls you "beautiful" instead of "hot". who calls you back when you hang up on him. who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. wait for the boy who kisses your forehead & who wants to show you off to the world when you're in your sweats. who holds your hand in front of his friends. who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on and insists on holding you around the waist. the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. the one who turns to his friends and says "that's her"

girls repost this if you want a guy to treat you like this

guy repost this if you will treat a girl like this

If you treat a girl like this, they will tell you to f**k off

If you don't do this, they'll ask you why don't you treat them like that


Sorry I'll NEVER understand the fairer sex. What was described above would be how I would treat a girl if I had one but for blokes its simply a no win situation with women.

She-Ra

kjt wrote:

WHy? When your happily in love you tend to forget all about other people or at least to a point. I will be ending it soon, I just really dont want to hurt her tbh.

oh i get it... you dont want to hurt her... dude do ya not think she'd prefer ya to be honest and just do it rather than talkin about it here... grow a set of balls

funky penguin

who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat

I thought it said stairs when I first read it.

kjt

I've talked to her about it. Clearly, like all relationships their not all plain and simple I'm sure you understand. Its up and down.

funky penguin

kjt wrote:

I've talked to her about it. Clearly, like all relationships their not all plain and simple I'm sure you understand. Its up and down.

Like a stairs!

She-Ra

kjt wrote:

I've talked to her about it. Clearly, like all relationships their not all plain and simple I'm sure you understand. Its up and down.

And 'clearly' your not being as straight with her as you think you are or that would be that... you've Planned your break up!! just do it

She-Ra

funky penguin wrote:

Like a stairs!

hahaha... alleviating my starting-to-get-stressed-out-head

kjt

funky penguin wrote:

Like a stairs!

lol


Anywho Back to the thread.... and the one word that it all comes back to

Women....!!! (and u know the tone its said in)

She-Ra

yeah... we're fantastic all the same... and there's no denyin it!

kjt

She-Ra wrote:

yeah... we're fantastic all the same... and there's no denyin it!

LOL


Thanks for the laugh