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Nasty ex wife

  • 26-10-2023 2:04pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19 Tomlad79


    Tuesday night at 10pm I was served a interim Barron order and to be in court the next morning at 10.30 as my ex wife was seeking a full Barring order, she made up lies that I hit her , that I was going to the house and taking stuff and that I was calling to the house to see my teenagers only when she was not home all bullshit and lies , thankfully the judge seen sence and that I did not have enough time to get a solicitor and adjourned it till the following week, this was some nasty tactic from my ex wife and shows her true colours, all because she wants to keep me from the family home which I own half , anyone experienced fighting a Barron order thanks

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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 373 ✭✭delboythedub


    I think it was a guy, a Billionaire called Rockefeller Said ''if you want to find out what a woman is really like Divorce Her''



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,559 ✭✭✭RoboRat


    I fought a Baron once... pistols at dawn. Does that count?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19 Tomlad79


    Big time



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44 Pikey


    once you leave the house before legal separation the harder it is. I lived with a protection order in place for nearly 8 months. She had me arrested but still I wouldn't leave my house. Eventually we went to court and got the separation and protection order, barring order dropped as part of the settlement.

    Feel your pain! Bu there is light at the end of the tunnel.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,911 ✭✭✭Ezeoul


    I hope you didn't give up that room you were renting before you moved back in.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44 Atamiri


    Just like my ex. There’s no good advice. Get a good solicitor and hope for a good judge.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 Rockshore


    I went through the same thing. I found out that my wife was having an affair in 2019. As soon as I raised it with my wife she started a systematic 3 year routine of trying to force me out of the house and reducing my time with the 3 kids. She was taking them away to her mothers house at weekends (2hrs away). When I didn't react to any of these in the manner she hoped, she locked me out of the house while I was at work. When i tried to gain access, she rang the guards and sought a protection order. She was granted it as she claimed she was terrified of me. The court hearing was held 6 months later. My wife admitted I was never threatening or abusive towards her, yet the female judge gave me an ultimatum - accept the protection order or give an undertaking not to go near our house. The solicitor advised me to give an undertaking rather than risk further false allegations from my wife and not being able to see the kids. The so-called Family Law court does not act on behalf of the family, this will never change while the current system is in place. As Atamiri says, the best you can hope for is a judge that will listen and be fair.



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