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Is my husband just insecure or could he have cheated!

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  • #32
    TheadoreT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 922 ✭✭✭TheadoreT


    Have you never had a girls night out before? His behaviour during and after that would be very concerning. If you had and all of a sudden these cheating allegations surfaced I think your projecting theory is probably right. Either way he sounds like a nightmare, who wants a partner that clingy? Can only imagine that's a turn off for you.



  • #33
    DonnaDarko09
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 368 ✭✭DonnaDarko09


    Reading this, if accurate and his behaviour has done a 180 from not supporting you to being clingy and paranoid (to the point of checking your phone?!), I think your theory on projection for his own misdeeds is accurate. But none of us can know for certain here.

    If it was a one night thing and he has realised the error of his ways, would it be a complete dealbreaker in any case? would you prefer to know?? or focus on rebuilding your relationship?

    I would recommend counselling, couples and individually. Best of luck!



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