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Husband's Mood Swings

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  • #52
    Gibson Future Thumb
    Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Gibson Future Thumb


    "Opposites attract" and all that but you two sound totally incompatible.

    I think you're at the stage of being afraid of what the future holds (which is perfectly normal after such a long time with someone).



  • #53
    Wombatman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,337 ✭✭✭Wombatman


    A trial separation might work here. Sounds like both parties need to build themselves back up. Considering what the OP is saying it might be easier to achieve this while ye are apart from each other. Right now ye both appear to be damaging each other, intentionally or otherwise. In a healthy rewarding relationship ye would be enabling and supporting each other

    After a set period (six months) ye could sit down and answer the question; is being in this relationship delivering for both of us?

    Easier said than done I know.



  • #54
    Irish_rat
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    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058251592/husbands-mood-swings

    Wow! Do your husband a favour and end the marriage to save his life!

    Although it seems like a troll

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  • #55
    dorothylives
    Registered Users Posts: 414 ✭✭dorothylives


    Depression is a serious issue that many people struggle with and find difficult to discuss, even with the people closest to them. Also, some antidepressants can affect libido. So anyone struggling with depression, low self esteem and low libido is not going to be feeling like making the first move. When you are with someone for a very long time you learn to read each other very well. Like all long term relationships, you get out what you put in. If he's depressed then he needs your support, if you don't want to be supportive then end the relationship and move on, for his sake as well as your own.



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