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Boyfriend moving in to home that I own - how to manage finances?

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  • #52
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    OP, whose idea was it for him to formally move in together? Yours or his?

    TBH, I'm thinking if you intend to buy together in a year or two, why not stay as you are now, until you do that? It would also give you a chance to see if this fairly new relationship will stand the test of time.

    If he lives with his mother he is probably only paying a contribution towards rent to her, so should be able to save?

    Nothing to stop him staying over, or spending time at yours, while you continue your current arrangement with renting a room to a licensee.



  • #53
    Horn_of_Africa
    Registered Users Posts: 73 ✭✭Horn_of_Africa


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118942520#Comment_118942520

    The bank doesn't own the house, the OP owns the house. The bank can take possession if the terms of the mortgage are breached.



  • #54
    Salient Verb
    Registered Users Posts: 25 ✭Salient Verb


    Too risky to let him move in with you soon in these circumstances.

    My friend ended up having to pay her ex boyfriend thousands because of something like this. He just refused to settle until she agreed to pay him more and she was paying £xxxx on legal fees all the time. He cheated on her, didn't move out for ages and then used the money she paid him as a deposit for the house he bought with his next partner (the one he cheated on her with).



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