If he wanted to he would, right?

betaband

So there's this lad I've liked for a while in my course. We only started getting friendly around a month ago. I have reason to belief there might be interest on his end:

We make eye contact multiple times per class. Heck, I think it happens like 10 times per class now. We did the Wordle together once in class. He sent me his a day or 2 later to brag. He's asked me if I got it yet a few times in class. He put his hand on my forearm when I pretended to be upset when he got it before me a few days ago.

He gave me a ride home a good 10ish minutes out of his way like 5/6 weeks ago. He came up to me after class to offer me said lift. The one time my friend wasn't in, I noticed. Considering we'd never spoken beyond a hi, idk why he'd go out of his way like that for me.

He asked if I was getting coffee after class this one time. Not sure if he wanted coffee with me but it sounded like he wanted to? Alas I was running late and told him so, so I don't know if it was an invite.

We did match on Tinder like 3 months ago. We'd never spoken before that beyond sending notes. I kinda joked about matching on Tinder as I was so sure he only liked me out of curiosity. He messaged me twice right after for notes, when surely he could've asked his actual friends in our course?

He texted me a joke about the lecturer during class yesterday while we sat together. Instead of his actual friends. Why me?

He seems a little nervous around me but maybe I'm imagining it. I don't want to ask him out and make things awkward for both of us. It's a small class. That would be selfish. I feel like if he really wanted me, I would know. He'd ask me out. That's what lads do, right? Or at the very least, Snapchat me? I'm taking the lack of action as a rejection.

SCOOP 64

Just ask him out, so what about the size of class and who knows, buy what you say chances are it will be a yes , if not its not the end of the world.

juno10353

Ask him for coffee after clas

Caranica

Did you not already post about him here? Ask him out and you'll find out instead of spending time overthinking it.

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058229035/ive-been-trying-to-get-a-boyfriend-for-months-and-starting-to-feel-like-a-failure#latest

betaband

Kinda, but I suppose this question is more specific.

You're right though. I'm wasting my energy here. What good is pondering. I can guess but I'll never really know unless I ask

SCOOP 64

Most importantly report back here to let as know how you got on.

Dial Hard

Mother of god just ask him out.

The invitation to coffee that time was him asking you out.

Ask him out.

osarusan

Maybe he's thinking that if she wanted to, she would, right?

If you want to go out with him, just ask him. He's already suggested it, more or less.

Tork

He has already invited you for coffee so there's an opener for you right there. "Do you still want to go for that coffee?" and see where things go from there.

Liberty_Bear

Reading between the lines here its that sense of rejection that is in the back of your mind. I know exactly how you feel but you have to seize that moment. Ask him for a quick bite to eat and a coffee. Humour is a great way to flirt and keep the chat light. Hope it goes well...ps stop over thinking it!

Ash.J.Williams

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058236937/if-he-wanted-to-he-would-right

Feckin women , he literally asked you

“oooh did he ask me for coffee or ask me out”

he asked you bleedin out

ball is in your court