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Pregnant

[Deleted User] · 2021-10-18 19:36:05

My girlfriend is pregnant. She's illegal from South America Doesn't speak much English She Wants to stay in Dublin and find a place to rent and raise the child here. I think the better option is to move down the country as its alot cheaper for a home. But she will find it difficult to find employment and unless we got…

18-10-2021 08:36PM

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My girlfriend is pregnant.
She's illegal from South America
Doesn't speak much English
She Wants to stay in Dublin and find a place to rent and raise the child here.
I think the better option is to move down the country as its alot cheaper for a home. But she will find it difficult to find employment and unless we got married wouldn't have any welfare entitlement?
I thought of getting an abortion as I think it all sounds like a bit of a mess and don't feel I'm ready to be a dad yet.
Some guidance or direction would be really appreciated

Post edited by Spear on December 2021

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