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Did you every question your sexuality?

  • 27-06-2020 12:08pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,212 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    With it been pride month.
    I suppose I may have when I was younger I liked soaps and stuff on the television and I wasn’t into sport but I was into cars, Motorsport, some manly stuff also. So, that might have been a reason why people made a few gay jokes but thinking back on it even the sporty sporty guys got these also.

    Another issue I had was when I noticed a fella and I thought he looked good but I never wanted to do anything with him. I think I just wanted to look like him.

    I did have a guy come onto me years ago in a pub but it wasn’t for me.

    Did you every question your sexuality?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,620 ✭✭✭Rick_


    Nope. Knew from a very young age I was attracted to other men. Made school a nightmare, not only because of the bullying but because of seeing so many attractive fellas and fancying them but knowing that it would never happen and the frustration of not having an outlet for your feelings and having to hide part of your life away for so long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    Nope. I kissed a few girls at parties in college and went further with a married couple at a party in my 20s but it was all just drunken silliness.


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yeah. I think your sexuality exists along a spectrum, probably, and I've walked that line. I don't think it's fluid, though. I think you very quickly realize your position, and in that way, it's fairly black and white.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,425 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    When I opened the thread I had a guess at who started it, and I was surprised to be wrong. Back on your perch now, F. Well done.

    In answer to the question, no, I never question my sexuality. It is what it is.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,858 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    I've never seen a man I wanted to fuck.

    I've seen tens of thousands of women I wanted to fuck.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,212 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    When I opened the thread I had a guess at who started it, and I was surprised to be wrong. Back on your perch now, F. Well done.

    In answer to the question, no, I never question my sexuality. It is what it is.

    It’s generally easy to pick a Freshpopcorn thread.

    Look for boring question, bad spelling and grammar!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Nope never.

    I can recognize a good looking man for what he is, but that's it.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Nope. As a lad of 9 I watched Charlie's Angels on the telly and was suddenly interested though did not know why. Jaclyn Smith in particular. :D

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 323 ✭✭Phoenix32


    I go through phases of dreaming about sex with women or sex with men or being more attracted to women or men. I'm attracted to both but my sexuality confuses me, I think I'm romantically attracted to men but sexually attracted to both.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 140 ✭✭GoatBoy74


    As Tone Loc once said....
    You know, ain't no plans with a man
    This is the 80's, and I'm down with the ladies


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,787 ✭✭✭Feisar


    PFMC84 wrote: »
    Nope. Knew from a very young age I was attracted to other men. Made school a nightmare, not only because of the bullying but because of seeing so many attractive fellas and fancying them but knowing that it would never happen and the frustration of not having an outlet for your feelings and having to hide part of your life away for so long.

    Dunno what it's like now but twenty years ago it was the same for straight lads.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,787 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Nope. As a lad of 9 I watched Charlie's Angels on the telly and was suddenly interested though did not know why. Jaclyn Smith in particular. :D

    Please don't judge but I'd a similar experience/awakening when Jessica Rabbit appeared on screen.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,425 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Feisar wrote: »
    Please don't judge but I'd a similar experience/awakening when Jessica Rabbit appeared on screen.

    Honourable mention to the Cadbury’s Caramel Bunny.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,419 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Honourable mention to the Cadbury’s Caramel Bunny.

    Thank fcuk for that , I thought I was the only one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Honourable mention to the Cadbury’s Caramel Bunny.

    Oh yeah but I just pictured her in fishnets and leather...... am I sharing too much?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    As a teenager I did. I'd never heard of bi/pansexuality and I knew I wasn't gay or straight so I wasnt sure what to think. I don't think I felt fully comfortable with myself until my 30's.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    There are two sexualities male and female.
    If you have a penis in your pants congratulations you can watch football.
    If you dont then you are cooking dinner.
    I myself am bemused at my own statement, as I am cooking Salmon and Rice waiting for Mrs Skooter to arrive home from work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,689 ✭✭✭Signore Fancy Pants


    There are two sexualities male and female.
    If you have a penis in your pants congratulations you can watch football.
    If you dont then you are cooking dinner.
    I myself am bemused at my own statement, as I am cooking Salmon and Rice waiting for Mrs Skooter to arrive home from work.

    Are you high?

    Also, no. Have never been attracted to men, fkin state of them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 908 ✭✭✭radiotrickster


    There are two sexualities male and female.
    If you have a penis in your pants congratulations you can watch football.
    If you dont then you are cooking dinner.
    I myself am bemused at my own statement, as I am cooking Salmon and Rice waiting for Mrs Skooter to arrive home from work.

    Do you even know what sexuality means?

    Either way, get in your time machine and head back to the 50s.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Do you even know what sexuality means?

    Either way, get in your time machine and head back to the 50s.

    Ge back to social science and SJW codology :rolleyes:, I am talking about real science like Biology.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    I had a thing for piranhas once, but I realised to fulfill my fantasy, my sex would have changed from male to female. I think maybe i'm sharing to much.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,819 ✭✭✭✭Thelonious Monk


    No, I used to fancy Cybill Shepherd in Moonlighting, when I was 6 or 7 (great show!). She was gorgeous but my Ma is a dead ringer for her, which makes it kinda weird and Oedipus-ish.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 140 ✭✭GoatBoy74


    The borg queen in star trek first contact movie.
    That detachable head.....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Kylta wrote: »
    I had a thing for piranhas once, but I realised to fulfill my fantasy, my sex would have changed from male to female. I think maybe i'm sharing to much.

    Just let it all out brother we are all a hurtin' in our own way. Did you ever fantasise about tentacles?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    Just let it all out brother we are all a hurtin' in our own way. Did you ever fantasise about tentacles?

    That kinda nightmarish if a giant octopus got you, you would be spit roasted before you knew it. When I went through my alien phase I always wanted to have a hop up off an alien but you can't really trust them. Just suppose you screw an alien (sorry is alien a PC saying or should I called the spacefu¢kers)' and the alien lights up a cigarette after sex. You would be wondering who screwed who?
    I think I'll call my therapist now


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,438 ✭✭✭✭Purple Mountain


    No, I used to fancy Cybill Shepherd in Moonlighting, when I was 6 or 7 (great show!). She was gorgeous but my Ma is a dead ringer for her, which makes it kinda weird and Oedipus-ish.

    Apparently they used to smear vaseline on the camera lens to give her that mystical look.

    To thine own self be true



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    If I was into scarecrows i would fantasize about Worsel Gummage, he had loads of different heads, so no two BJ would be the same. Scarecrows that we're its all happening.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Kylta wrote: »
    That kinda nightmarish if a giant octopus got you, you would be spit roasted before you knew it. When I went through my alien phase I always wanted to have a hop up off an alien but you can't really trust them. Just suppose you screw an alien (sorry is alien a PC saying or should I called the spacefu¢kers)' and the alien lights up a cigarette after sex. You would be wondering who screwed who?
    I think I'll call my therapist now

    Come on will you!! Tell me you never thought of bangin' a Twleek (Blue dancer with head protrusion shape like elongated cones). Even better a Tribble. I dont mean a kiss and cuddle I am talking about hard core sex with a Tribble, full leather and everything!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Apparently they used to smear vaseline on the camera lens to give her that mystical look.

    They would need to smear it now with Tank axel grease to get the same effect


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  • Posts: 6,192 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    No.....not atal,can honestly say it never entered my head to like men




    Though plenty other people do qs mine (i just too busy last few years to be dating)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,768 ✭✭✭timsey tiger


    Honourable mention to the Cadbury’s Caramel Bunny.

    Did you ever fancy Bugs Bunny when he dressed up as a girl bunny?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,438 ✭✭✭✭Purple Mountain


    They would need to smear it now with Tank axel grease to get the same effect

    That's mean

    To thine own self be true



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Did you ever fancy Bugs Bunny when he dressed up as a girl bunny?

    No because you know he was packing a big ole bunny sausage underneath that dress.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    Honourable mention to the Cadbury’s Caramel Bunny.
    Christ we're looking at bestiality here now lads and too many people are agreeing with this post. Lockdown better end sooner or the term riding like rabbits will get a bit weird with scores of lads wandering around fields with bars of chocolate.:confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Christ we're looking at bestiality here now lads and too many people are agreeing with this post. Lockdown better end sooner or the term riding like rabbits will get a bit weird with scores of lads wandering around fields with bars of chocolate.:confused:

    Its not that bad once you get used to it. You can wipe yourself on the fur when you are done!! Better than wiping on the wife curtins or someone elses wifes curtins


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    Its not that bad once you get used to it. You can wipe yourself on the fur when you are done!! Better than wiping on the wife curtins or someone elses wifes curtins
    Maybe a threesome with Jessica Rabbit and the Caramel rabbit is the way to go. That would be interesting. I'd keep Roger rabbit out of it though, that would be too awkward.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 632 ✭✭✭Sorry about that


    Years ago In my late teens I was asked on a date by a girl who was a few years older than me. She was really pretty, confident, and a law student. So I told my friends and I suppose I decided it'd be a bit of craic, as well as extremely flattering, to go for the pint.
    Well, off I went and met her. Within a few minutes, there was talk of going to the ladies for a kiss.

    Nope.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,438 ✭✭✭✭Purple Mountain


    Never, I always knew I was mad for mickey.
    Like the poster above, in college I lived with a girl who was bi. She offered to experiment with me if I ever wanted to.
    Eh, no thanks says I.

    To thine own self be true



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,975 ✭✭✭Greyfox


    As a straight guy I have never been attracted to another man in real life. With porn though I do sometimes find myself attracted to both the man and woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    Come on will you!! Tell me you never thought of bangin' a Twleek (Blue dancer with head protrusion shape like elongated cones). Even better a Tribble. I dont mean a kiss and cuddle I am talking about hard core sex with a Tribble, full leather and everything!!!

    I'm in the wrong world. I need to get into your world, I would love to me a twleek or a tribble that dribbles. I never knew the universe was that big. A blue dancer heh, silly me I though a blue that was a stripper who told adult jokes. I really am a tiny man in a massive universe


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    It's
    Never, I always knew I was mad for mickey.
    Like the poster above, in college I lived with a girl who was bi. She offered to experiment with me if I ever wanted to.
    Eh, no thanks says I.

    I might be wrong but are women more incline to experiment than men.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,425 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Christ we're looking at bestiality here now lads and too many people are agreeing with this post. Lockdown better end sooner or the term riding like rabbits will get a bit weird with scores of lads wandering around fields with bars of chocolate.:confused:

    She wasn’t real, man. She was a cartoon. Hasn’t graced our “screens” for a long time now, it was the 80s when she was on.

    Don’t think anyone was “whacking it” to her back then either, the ads were quite short. Maybe a few might have used a vhs recorder, or saved it mentally in the “spank bank”, but they’d have been few and far between.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Nope, I never questioned my own sexuality... plenty of other people have though :o

    PFMC84 wrote: »
    Nope. Knew from a very young age I was attracted to other men. Made school a nightmare, not only because of the bullying but because of seeing so many attractive fellas and fancying them but knowing that it would never happen and the frustration of not having an outlet for your feelings and having to hide part of your life away for so long.


    I suppose it’s different for everyone, but perhaps it was the fact that I’d be talking to a girl and she’d be telling me her new boyfriend was a great kisser... I didn’t have the heart to tell her “I know, right?” :o

    ‘Twas no more than a teenage phase at the time, figured the ladies were a hell of a lot more fun :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,250 ✭✭✭Seamai


    Maybe a threesome with Jessica Rabbit and the Caramel rabbit is the way to go. That would be interesting. I'd keep Roger rabbit out of it though, that would be too awkward.

    You do know that the Caramel rabbit was voiced by a lesbian............... Miriam Margoyles.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Seamai wrote: »
    You do know that the Caramel rabbit was voiced by a lesbian............... Miriam Margoyles.

    Say its not so!!!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 140 ✭✭GoatBoy74


    Seamai wrote: »
    You do know that the Caramel rabbit was voiced by a lesbian............... Miriam Margoyles.

    Noooooooooo! Although she seems a bit of a goer!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    Seamai wrote: »
    You do know that the Caramel rabbit was voiced by a lesbian............... Miriam Margoyles.
    No problem lesbians on the internet can be fun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    No problem lesbians on the internet can be fun.

    Have you seen "two girls and a cup"?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,172 ✭✭✭cannotlogin


    No, I've always been straight and have never been turned on by a women.

    I can totally appreciate if a women is attractive or has a great body but it's in "I wouldn't mind looking like her" way rather than anything sexual.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 295 ✭✭fattymuatty


    Nope, the thought of doing anything sexual with a woman doesn't do it for me at all. I have sometimes thought about how lovely it be to be in a relationship with another woman, I bet it is great from an emotional stand point but it would have to be a celabite one.


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