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Young family looking for advice on finding a place to rent

  • 22-04-2020 4:03pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33


    Hi all

    Myself, girlfriend, 2 and a half year old and 9 month old boys are living in my gfs mothers for almost 2 and a half years, we have a spare double bedroom and a box room turned sitting room to use, it was supposed to be short term like 6 months or so but the weeks turned into months and years quickly, we are looking for a landlord to take hap or rent allowance but haven't had much luck finding one, any place we go to view has a crowd of people in attendance all trying to get the same place, can anyone advise us on where and what to do to find a house or apartment, we are on the social housing list but that will take up to 10 years, we are desperate to find a place so we can live a normal life as the oldest boy will be going to school soon, we have been on daft.ie but as I say theres always a ton of people there, can you advise us as landlords what you need to see from us in order to be in with a chance to rent from you??

    Thanks to anyone who might reply


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17 iQuestion


    maybe take up a job it will be easier to rent then


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    iQuestion wrote: »
    maybe take up a job it will be easier to rent then

    You dont know a single thing about our work situation so I wont get into it with you, I'm sure you wouldn't have very nice things to say anyway after that comment


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,684 ✭✭✭✭Samuel T. Cogley


    You only need to present yourself as organised, able to pay the rent and not cause trouble. Many LL's are happy enough to take on HAP tenants but it will be in less desirable areas. You need to be picky (as you can be) with the LL also, you need someone who is in this for the long term. If someone is going to sell in the next few years you and they are not a good fit due to the upheaval of potentially having to move schools.

    Given HAP is in arrears you will need a significant deposit also.

    Are you looking in Dublin or else where?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    iQuestion wrote: »
    maybe take up a job it will be easier to rent then

    Also you believe having a job would make it easier for us to rent?? How do you work that out, eg your standing on the same line to view the same property as me, you earn 2 grand a week I earn 500?? I dont see you getting the house quicker working 60 hours a week while I work 20 ???

    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,684 ✭✭✭✭Samuel T. Cogley


    bules wrote: »
    Also you believe having a job would make it easier for us to rent?? How do you work that out, eg your standing on the same line to view the same property as me, you earn 2 grand a week I earn 500?? I dont see you getting the house quicker working 60 hours a week while I work 20 ???

    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??


    The LL will go for the higher earner, with a bonus that the person is out of the house more so less wear and tear.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    You only need to present yourself as organised, able to pay the rent and not cause trouble. Many LL's are happy enough to take on HAP tenants but it will be in less desirable areas. You need to be picky (as you can be) with the LL also, you need someone who is in this for the long term. If someone is going to sell in the next few years you and they are not a good fit due to the upheaval of potentially having to move schools.

    Given HAP is in arrears you will need a significant deposit also.

    Are you looking in Dublin or else where?


    Thanks for the reply, we are in dublin yes and looking at dublin, but we are thinking about moving away down the country if it means we can get somewhere handily enough, it would be a big change and the kids would miss their grandparents but we can visit and having a better home life would be great


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    The LL will go for the higher earner, with a bonus that the person is out of the house more so less wear and tear.

    I see I guess that poster has a point then, but everyone has different circumstances in their life a lot of people see hap or rent allowance and presume to know your circumstances


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,684 ✭✭✭✭Samuel T. Cogley


    If you're flexible on location you should find it easier to find something, not sure how HAP works if you change local authority area. It's just a case of finding the right LL - have you rang around Estate Agents in places like Finglas, Ballymun, Tallaght and Coolock? I'm not suggesting you move into the middle of Darndale but without wanting to sound like an arsehole you'll need to pick a location where LL's are more accepting of HAP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    If you're flexible on location you should find it easier to find something, not sure how HAP works if you change local authority area. It's just a case of finding the right LL - have you rang around Estate Agents in places like Finglas, Ballymun, Tallaght and Coolock? I'm not suggesting you move into the middle of Darndale but without wanting to sound like an arsehole you'll need to pick a location where LL's are more accepting of HAP.

    I get you yes, I'll have a ring around, thanks for the advice, we would be grand living anywhere in dublin, there are many apartment blocks being built all over the place so while we probably wouldn't end up in the middle of a housing estate in darndale we might get a place in the outskirts of one of those places vesta living is not far from darndale at all, so many nice places in dublin are right beside the trouble spots these days

    Again thanks for the guidance I'll get ringing around


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,280 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    bules wrote: »
    Also you believe having a job would make it easier for us to rent?? How do you work that out, eg your standing on the same line to view the same property as me, you earn 2 grand a week I earn 500?? I dont see you getting the house quicker working 60 hours a week while I work 20 ???

    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??

    If you got a job for 40 hours a week it would likely put a roof over your head along with your missus and 2 children. A 3 bedroom house is affordable in most non Dublin parts of the country even on a minimum wage salary and even still a landlord would be more likely to take you if you showed you were responsible enough to work.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,874 ✭✭✭Edgware


    If you got a job for 40 hours a week it would likely put a roof over your head along with your missus and 2 children. A 3 bedroom house is affordable in most non Dublin parts of the country even on a minimum wage salary and even still a landlord would be more likely to take you if you showed you were responsible enough to work.
    You know nothing about this man's personal, family or health circumstances so why not lay off.
    It is difficult getting accommodation but from a landlords point of view the first thing to be satisfied is ability to pay. If the tenant can prove this to the landlords satisfaction then if he could provide some character references it would also help.
    The fact that there are two children in a way would indicate that once accommodated the family are unlikely to move so the landlord could have a long tenancy. Once the kids are in school the famiky are probably going to remain until they get social accommodation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 411 ✭✭Enter name here


    Speaking as LL, unfortunately the truth of the matter is you wouldn't meet any of the criteria of a responsible LL or EA. Sorry but that is the blunt truth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,098 ✭✭✭DubCount


    OP. There was a lack of property to rent especially in Dublin, up until very recently. A LL cannot legally discriminate against a HAP recipient, but that does not mean discrimination does not exist. As a HAP recipient, finding a rental has been very difficult. HAP is a real pain for LLs, and with so many people competing for property, it makes becoming the "selected tenant" really difficult.

    In current circumstances, its hard to know what will happen as Covid plays out. Maybe there will be less people chasing property and it will get easier to find rentals as restrictions are lifted. Using the current situation as a benchmark is not realistic.

    All you can really do is get prepared for when the market starts to open up. Get together any references (work/Landlord) and a good deposit, as well as figuring out why you would be a better tenant that others. With a young family you wont be having any parties etc. maybe you like gardening etc.

    Good luck. I hope you find somewhere.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,286 ✭✭✭The Student


    Speaking as LL, unfortunately the truth of the matter is you wouldn't meet any of the criteria of a responsible LL or EA. Sorry but that is the blunt truth.

    As a landlord too I have to agree. The HAP scheme is a complete nightmare. The requirements they look for are just too high.

    You will end up being a casualty of the system.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 267 ✭✭overkill602


    bules wrote: »
    Also you believe having a job would make it easier for us to rent?? How do you work that out, eg your standing on the same line to view the same property as me, you earn 2 grand a week I earn 500?? I dont see you getting the house quicker working 60 hours a week while I work 20 ???

    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??


    A LL could see you work 20hrs and the other works 60 I know who i would take HAP aside


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 411 ✭✭Enter name here


    bules wrote: »
    Also you believe having a job would make it easier for us to rent?? How do you work that out, eg your standing on the same line to view the same property as me, you earn 2 grand a week I earn 500?? I dont see you getting the house quicker working 60 hours a week while I work 20 ???

    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??

    Yes you are missing a lot I would say.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    bules wrote: »
    Am I missing something or are you just a Gobdaw??
    HAP involves the LL filling out paperwork, having a tax cert, and updating the house to whatever random standard that the local CC has.

    Also, HAP is paid in arrears, and the LL may not be paid for a month or two. The LL may not be paid the full amount by HAP. Should the HAP tenant stop paying the contribution, the LL stops getting rent. Due to GDPR, the LL will not be told that they're no longer getting paid.

    Compared to someone who works, and is paying the rent themselves; they pay the rent & deposit up front, and pay the rent at the start of each month. No paperwork needs to be filled out. Also, if they're working, they'll cause less wear & tear on the property.

    Unless the LL is renting the house in an area with very low demand, there is no benefit to the LL to rent to someone on HAP.

    You would be a "gobdaw" to think that a person on HAP is a better pick than a person not on HAP.
    bules wrote: »
    any place we go to view has a crowd of people in attendance all trying to get the same place
    And two people probably have cash for the deposit and rent ready.

    =-=

    Either look for a house in an area where no-one works (and thus the LL will rent to someone on HAP), or work to live in a house surrounded by people who do work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Speaking as LL, unfortunately the truth of the matter is you wouldn't meet any of the criteria of a responsible LL or EA. Sorry but that is the blunt truth.

    Could you clarify ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Yes you are missing a lot I would say.

    Surely the rent being paid is the goal for the LL here, LL is paid surely it doesnt matter how many hours I work???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 411 ✭✭Enter name here


    bules wrote: »
    Could you clarify ?

    Reading between the lines, you have no rental history of payments, you have 2 children under the age of 3 you cant afford and you are reliant on the state for financial support. So as harsh as it sounds as a LL I wouldn't give you a second look. Mainly because there is no way I could have any way of knowing how well you would treat my property and it's a risk as a LL I would never take.

    Sorry for sounding harsh but that is the reality of it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 411 ✭✭Enter name here


    bules wrote: »
    Surely the rent being paid is the goal for the LL here, LL is paid surely it doesnt matter how many hours I work???

    No, the goal of a LL is to have security of tenure on their investment and that would not be the case in your situation. Given the current laws in favour of tenants, if i was to rent a property to you and you decided to stop paying rent it would take me 12 to 18 months of no rent being paid just to get rid of you. Do you think that is an acceptable risk I should take.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 797 ✭✭✭RonanG86


    the_syco wrote: »
    HAP involves the LL filling out paperwork, having a tax cert, and updating the house to whatever random standard that the local CC has.

    A rental property is subject to the Housing (Standards for Rented Houses) Regulations whether it's in HAP or not.

    Now maybe there's an argument that you're more likely to get inspected if you're under HAP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    the_syco wrote: »
    HAP involves the LL filling out paperwork, having a tax cert, and updating the house to whatever random standard that the local CC has.

    Also, HAP is paid in arrears, and the LL may not be paid for a month or two. The LL may not be paid the full amount by HAP. Should the HAP tenant stop paying the contribution, the LL stops getting rent. Due to GDPR, the LL will not be told that they're no longer getting paid.

    Compared to someone who works, and is paying the rent themselves; they pay the rent & deposit up front, and pay the rent at the start of each month. No paperwork needs to be filled out. Also, if they're working, they'll cause less wear & tear on the property.

    Unless the LL is renting the house in an area with very low demand, there is no benefit to the LL to rent to someone on HAP.

    You would be a "gobdaw" to think that a person on HAP is a better pick than a person not on HAP.


    And two people probably have cash for the deposit and rent ready.

    =-=

    Either look for a house in an area where no-one works (and thus the LL will rent to someone on HAP), or work to live in a house surrounded by people who do work.

    I have health issues

    I take your points entirely tho I called that poster a "Gobdaw" because he was being rude

    So it seems to me that the HAP scheme is not working at all for people who need it and it's just massively reduced the amount of people that are now receiving rent allowance payments, I'm sure this was the overall goal of the government,I'd imagine the bill was huge


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 40,800 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gumbo


    bules wrote: »
    Surely the rent being paid is the goal for the LL here, LL is paid surely it doesnt matter how many hours I work???

    No. I would take lower rent with increased security of the property being kept immaculate and in good condition. Not saying you are the opposite, but just pointing out that the rent figure is not the only variable in the formula for picking a tenant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    RonanG86 wrote: »
    A rental property is subject to the Housing (Standards for Rented Houses) Regulations whether it's in HAP or not.

    Now maybe there's an argument that you're more likely to get inspected if you're under HAP.

    Thats an issue for sure, if normal rentals had the same standards as hap it might even the playing field


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Gumbo wrote: »
    No. I would take lower rent with increased security of the property being kept immaculate and in good condition. Not saying you are the opposite, but just pointing out that the rent figure is not the only variable in the formula for picking a tenant.

    Sure I take your point but the decision rests with the LL to take on the tenant following up on references and having a good interview with the tenant will make all the difference in deciding if they can be trusted in the property or not

    I'm sure there are horror story's of tenants who work and pay cash as well as people on hap or rent allowance I've only heard people complain on radio shows etc about hap type people tho, we are not all the same


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 40,800 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gumbo


    bules wrote: »
    Thats an issue for sure, if normal rentals had the same standards as hap it might even the playing field

    They generally do. HAP has one or 2 things more with regards to ventilation, fire safety but it’s required if the state are having an involvement in rental subsidies.

    I had a hap inspection on my rented property a few months back. It’s nothing to be worried about as long as you are a decent LL and not letting the place fall apart.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    A LL could see you work 20hrs and the other works 60 I know who i would take HAP aside

    Why?? My 20 hrs pay is independent of the rent check you receive???

    I dont get that??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,324 ✭✭✭JustAThought


    bules wrote: »
    Why?? My 20 hrs pay is independent of the rent check you receive???

    I dont get that??

    the self entitlement in this theme is huge.

    here’s another question- you say you have health issues and so only work 20 hours a week. You are expecting to get a council house in ten years or so.Why dosnt your wife work? You will be at home and so able to mind the children. With an income from one of the adults in the house you would be a much more attractive candidate to a landlord to rent to.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Reading between the lines, you have no rental history of payments, you have 2 children under the age of 3 you cant afford and you are reliant on the state for financial support. So as harsh as it sounds as a LL I wouldn't give you a second look. Mainly because there is no way I could have any way of knowing how well you would treat my property and it's a risk as a LL I would never take.

    Sorry for sounding harsh but that is the reality of it.

    Your reading between the lines is off,

    I have 3 previous landlords I can get references for my last 2, my self and gf were living in the recent house for just under 2 years, we payed our rent on time every time and when we got pregnant we decided it was nolonger suitable for our needs and we ended our lease shy by a week or 2, our landlord was happy to end it and we handed back his keys with his property intact and there were no issues as he expected

    We cant afford our kids?? Are you for real?? You dont know our circumstances at all,and you cant say anything about it based on what I posted here, My children are provided for and taken care of in a stellar manner,they want nor need for anything, no,we dont have extra money to go drinking on weekends or go on family holidays to foreign destinations but we dont drink and that holiday thing will change in time, we are young and we are both working towards bettering our lives for the future

    We are not "reliant" on the state for financial support because of a lack of trying, I work the hours I can, I have a health issue that prevents me from working the long hours that other people have to work, this will change in time too

    We are a responsible cpl with beautiful and good children we knew things would be a slog but we went ahead and had our boys, life is good for us and we have a lot to offer,, we just dont want to impose on my gfs mother longer than we have to, she is okay about it all but of course we want our own place and to be like the rest of the hard working irish people with homes of our own,right now this is our lot and we are working at making it better for us and our boys.

    All landlords have the right to choose but surely people paying cash bring issues too, doesnt it all come down to the references and the interviews you have with the possible tenant?? We are not all the druggie alcoholic lunatics you hear about, there are good people that need to avail of the services provided by the government too we are some of those people


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    the self entitlement in this theme is huge.

    here’s another question- you say you have health issues and so only work 20 hours a week. You are expecting to get a council house in ten years or so.Why dosnt your wife work? You will be at home and so able to mind the children. With an income from one of the adults in the house you would be a much more attractive candidate to a landlord to rent to.

    Self entitlement??

    You dont know our situation at all you cant make assumptions based on no info

    My gf is training


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 Dan_K


    Bules,

    I rarely post on Boards. In fact, I had to reset my password to log in. I felt I had to in this case because you seem to be in dire need of a reality check.

    To put it bluntly, you're a textbook example of a prospective tenant that any landlord with a modicum of responsibility should avoid. To start, you don't have any recent history of renting, you have a family you cannot afford, and you don't sound like you have a stable job. In other words, you rely on state support. Yet, your posts are oozing with entitlement. Members have tried to explain that to you, again and again, using varying degrees of tact, but you don't seem to get it.

    Please, try to step back and assess the situation from an independent point of view. Perhaps you're not being misunderstood after all. Maybe, just maybe, your story and conduct are really as off-putting as members of the Boards are making them out to be.

    Good luck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    I have 3 previous landlords I can get references for my last 2, my self and gf were living in the recent house for just under 2 years, we payed our rent on time every time and when we got pregnant we decided it was nolonger suitable for our needs and we ended our lease shy by a week or 2, our landlord was happy to end it and we handed back his keys with his property intact and there were no issues as he expected

    We cant afford our kids?? Are you for real?? You dont know our circumstances at all,and you cant say anything about it based on what I posted here, My children are provided for and taken care of in a stellar manner,they want nor need for anything, no,we dont have extra money to go drinking on weekends or go on family holidays to foreign destinations but we dont drink and that holiday thing will change in time, we are young and we are both working towards bettering our lives for the future

    We are not "reliant" on the state for financial support because of a lack of trying, I work the hours I can, I have a health issue that prevents me from working the long hours that other people have to work, this will change in time too

    We are a responsible cpl with beautiful and good children we knew things would be a slog but we went ahead and had our boys, life is good for us and we have a lot to offer,, we just dont want to impose on my gfs mother longer than we have to, she is okay about it all but of course we want our own place and to be like the rest of the hard working irish people with homes of our own,right now this is our lot and we are working at making it better for us and our boys.

    All landlords have the right to choose but surely people paying cash bring issues too, doesnt it all come down to the references and the interviews you have with the possible tenant?? We are not all the druggie alcoholic lunatics you hear about, there are good people that need to avail of the services provided by the government too we are some of those people


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    bules wrote: »
    Surely the rent being paid is the goal for the LL here, LL is paid surely it doesnt matter how many hours I work???
    If you don't pay once, the HAP is stopped, but the LL is not told why it stopped.
    RonanG86 wrote: »
    Now maybe there's an argument that you're more likely to get inspected if you're under HAP.
    You stand a good chance of the house being inspected if you're under HAP. Unless a complaint is brought against the LL when renting privately, I doubt the CC will come out to inspect.
    bules wrote: »
    So it seems to me that the HAP scheme is not working at all for people who need it
    It does if you be realistic. If you try to rent with HAP in an area where's there's a high demand, you're kidding yourself. If you look at the undesirable areas, you've more chance of getting HAP there. But the area would be undesirable for a reason.

    Also, if renting for a few years, and you fall on hard times, HAP will allow you to stay in your current house/apartment.
    bules wrote: »
    Why?? My 20 hrs pay is independent of the rent check you receive???

    I dont get that??
    The person working 60 hours will cause less wear & tear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Dan_K wrote: »
    Bules,

    I rarely post on Boards. In fact, I had to reset my password to log in. I felt I had to in this case because you seem to be in dire need of a reality check.

    To put it bluntly, you're a textbook example of a prospective tenant that any landlord with a modicum of responsibility should avoid. To start, you don't have any recent history of renting, you have a family you cannot afford, and you don't sound like you have a stable job. In other words, you rely on state support. Yet, your posts are oozing with entitlement. Members have tried to explain that to you, again and again, using varying degrees of tact, but you don't seem to get it.

    Please, try to step back and assess the situation from an independent point of view. Perhaps you're not being misunderstood after all. Maybe, just maybe, your story and conduct are really as off-putting as members of the Boards are making them out to be.

    Good luck.


    So are ALL people who need rent allowance or HAP self entitled lay abouts??

    Is it only people who work full time jobs that are allowed to rent in the view of people that have commented on this thread??


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    the_syco wrote: »
    If you don't pay once, the HAP is stopped, but the LL is not told why it stopped.


    You stand a good chance of the house being inspected if you're under HAP. Unless a complaint is brought against the LL when renting privately, I doubt the CC will come out to inspect.


    It does if you be realistic. If you try to rent with HAP in an area where's there's a high demand, you're kidding yourself. If you look at the undesirable areas, you've more chance of getting HAP there. But the area would be undesirable for a reason.

    Also, if renting for a few years, and you fall on hard times, HAP will allow you to stay in your current house/apartment.


    The person working 60 hours will cause less wear & tear.

    Yes I get it but what about his family that isint working 60 hrs??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,584 ✭✭✭✭Creamy Goodness


    bules wrote: »
    So are ALL people who need rent allowance or HAP self entitled lay abouts??

    Is it only people who work full time jobs that are allowed to rent in the view of people that have commented on this thread??

    The system is flawed, it's flawed because it's a landlord's market at the moment due to the lack of supply of properties. The government has enforced strict rules on landlords which rightly/wrongly they do not like.

    anyways.

    given two candidates (and believe me it's much more than two, sometimes even 100's), the landlord will always pick the most attractive. Some landlords here have given you the reasons why they would and I believe it's valuable information for you. It's a safer bet for them and their property. It's not morally right but until there's a vast reform of renting in this country it is what it is

    What you need to focus on, is to up your attractiveness to a potential landlord. Show them that you'll be a good tenant and they will be more likely to consider you, but coming across like you have on some of your posts on this thread will do yourself no favours.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    The system is flawed, it's flawed because it's a landlord's market at the moment due to the lack of supply of properties. The government has enforced strict rules on landlords which rightly/wrongly they do not like.

    anyways.

    given two candidates (and believe me it's much more than two, sometimes even 100's),

    A: Couple with no kids, two working full time 40 hours per week

    or

    B: Couple with kids, one working and receiving state assistance

    The landlord will always pick A regardless. It's a safer bet. It's not morally right but they're going to pick the safest option in their interests.

    What you need to focus on, is to up your attractiveness to a potential landlord. Show them that you'll be a good tenant and they will be more likely to consider you, but coming across like you have on some of your posts on this thread will do yourself no favours.

    Okay thanks

    I didn't think I was coming across as entitled or something like that, I get the sentiment against people in situations like mine, I often hear the radio shows where single mothers get laid into for having children without partners etc it's terrible to hear that the majority of people have this attitude towards them and people in situations like mine, but life is tough and when people perceive others as getting an easier ride than themselves it's easy to see why they get angry life's a bitch and people need someone to blame

    I clearly see that hap is not the way to go anyway what ever I thought about it before I know for sure now that I'm wasting my time

    I guess its gonna have to be down to the country with us

    or covid takes out the mother in law...... a joke I'm sure people will be upset about


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    Unfortunately, you're circumstances are not attractive to a landlord, that's not intended to be a personal attack, just an honest obeservation.

    I don't know what your health restrictions are or if you're willing to expand on them but the more you work and earn the better, for me that's a given. Now obviously that's not possible for everybody and I understand that, but I think it's possible for most people.

    Are you physically or mentally unable to work more than 20 hours a week or do you run the risk of losing certain benefits if you earn too much? (like medical card for example).

    If this is the case then you have to sit down and do the maths on your circumstances and come to a conclusion on your priorities.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,732 ✭✭✭BarryD2


    OP, move down the country - well outside of Dublin. Plenty of housing for rent if you look around.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 bules


    Thanks Barry I'm gonna look into going down to the country for sure I believe there are plenty of nice places with reasonable rents too it might be the best thing we ever do


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    bules wrote: »
    Myself, girlfriend, 2 and a half year old and 9 month old boys
    Luckily you still have time before you have to worry about schools, but it's something you'll need to keep in mind if you do move down the country.
    bules wrote: »
    Thanks Barry I'm gonna look into going down to the country for sure I believe there are plenty of nice places with reasonable rents too it might be the best thing we ever do
    If the health issues that you have depend on visits to the hospital, bear in mind you may still need to come to Dublin.

    =-=

    Also, check if you have to be in the locality for a certain amount of time before you can get HAP there. Finally, HAP amounts will be different.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,813 ✭✭✭Wesser


    Bules..... the problem.isnt that you wouldnt make a good tenant and pay yoir rent etc.

    The problem.is that the landlord has so many tenants to choose from.... tne tenants with full time jobs are just more attractive than you for a variety of reasons which have been explained above.

    If you were in the landlords position.... who would you choose?! If the 2 optios were presented to you.... on paper..... both applicants very nice people... both swear they will pay the rent..... i know who i would choose.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,434 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    Another issue against social welfare tenants is the allowances for the scheme. I had a SW tenant in 2010-2014. 3 times she came back to me saying that the amount the govt will pay has been cut.
    LLs were expected to suck it up with no recourse despite contracts being in place.
    There was always forms and paper work and extra hassles that you just don't get elsewhere.
    House was left in rag order aswell but that is another story.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,627 ✭✭✭Fol20


    bules wrote: »

    we ended our lease shy by a week or 2, our landlord was happy to end it

    We cant afford our kids?? Are you for real?? You dont know our circumstances at all,and you cant say anything about it based on what I posted here, My children are provided for and taken care of in a stellar manner

    We are not "reliant" on the state for financial support because of a lack of trying,

    We are a responsible cpl with beautiful and good children we knew things would be a slog but we went ahead and had our boys, life is good for us and we have a lot to offer,, we just dont want to impose on my gfs mother longer than we have to, she is okay about it all but of course we want our own place and to be like the rest of the hard working irish people with homes of our own,right now this is our lot and we are working at making it better for us and our boys.

    All landlords have the right to choose but surely people paying cash bring issues too, doesnt it all come down to the references and the interviews you have with the possible tenant?? We are not all the druggie alcoholic lunatics you hear about, there are good people that need to avail of the services provided by the government too we are some of those people

    Already telling us you left a lease early would ring alarm bells for me. It costs money to re let. As a ll i would force people to stay throughout their entire agreed tenancy or if i dont like them, im always happy for them to leave.

    Having Kids can be great, this is a life choice and there is an opportunity cost in having kids. Right now you are able to provide for your kids as someone is subsidising your life be it your gf family or the government. If you take this out of the equation, can you provide for your kids?

    You are reliant on the state. The very fact your looking for HAP indicates this. I dont know why you dont agree with this?

    I dont think anyone was saying you were bad parents, im sure your far from it. The issue here is purely cold hearted money and your ability to get money to provide for your family.I understand if you have health issues that can for sure get in the way of potential growth but at the same time. There are people working 60 hours a week who are still struggling to afford a house. In all honesty, you should reap what you sow so i would personally prioritize them more as they are "working harder". Again sorry for your health situation but its my two cents.

    You can have people that are higher earners, it a good profession that can bring about horrible problems for a ll also. Its more about the odds of a profession vs a HAP that LL take on board and unfortunately although 99pc of tenants are good, you are more likely to come across a troublesome HAP tenant and they tarnish the rest of them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 451 ✭✭makeandcreate


    bules wrote: »
    Thats an issue for sure, if normal rentals had the same standards as hap it might even the playing field

    We renovated our house 5 years ago from bare walls to a comfortable family home - I was interested in buying another house and having a HAP tenant in our house for 5 years minimum. One of the regs for HAP here, is for the bathroom to have a window - if we had a window in the bathroom, whoever was in the utility could see you in the shower (even if frosted glass) we have a very efficent suitable extractor and large radiator in the bathroom and no sign of any mould ever.
    Our house is insulated to the last, has a brand new boiler, internal 30mm Kingspan on all external walls, gas and electric, rewired and replumbed. But apparently it's not up to HAP standards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,166 ✭✭✭Still waters


    Move somewhere where you can house your family


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,733 ✭✭✭✭Bass Reeves


    As a landlord too I have to agree. The HAP scheme is a complete nightmare. The requirements they look for are just too high.

    You will end up being a casualty of the system.

    It is not just the HAP scheme extra costs it is also that insurance companies charge extra on insurance premium if you have a HAP tenant. it is interesting that a LL cannot discriminate but gets caught with the extra costs associated with HAP. The insurance premium goes up, the local authorities want to pay in arrears. If these is part payments for a month they use there own calculations. As well they will only pay from start of tenancy and from the start of when they process their part so this means that tenancy will start later than with a private tenant

    Insurance companies are specialist in risk assessment. They consider a HAP tenant a higher risk. If the LL looks for higher rent or deposit to cover the risk factor its discrimination.

    Therefore a LL has two people standing in a row a person with a high income with the deposit ready to go and a tenant looking for him to take HAP. The tenant looking for a LL to take HAP would want the deposit and a month rent up front and the ability to cover another months rent or the shortfall while HAP was being processing. That amounts to a significant sum. In this case a LL would consider a HAP tenant as they see they are responsible and that there own money is at risk in case of default.

    However the Tenant if living in any large urban area in the country would need 2-4K to cover this

    Slava Ukrainii



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38 siobhan2005


    It may be difficult to find somewhere in Dublin. You could try move down the country where rents are more affordable but would that cause issues then with your employment, or your girlfriends training?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,003 ✭✭✭handlemaster


    bules wrote: »
    Your reading between the lines is off,

    I have 3 previous landlords I can get references for my last 2, my self and gf were living in the recent house for just under 2 years, we payed our rent on time every time and when we got pregnant we decided it was nolonger suitable for our needs and we ended our lease shy by a week or 2, our landlord was happy to end it and we handed back his keys with his property intact and there were no issues as he expected

    We cant afford our kids?? Are you for real?? You dont know our circumstances at all,and you cant say anything about it based on what I posted here, My children are provided for and taken care of in a stellar manner,they want nor need for anything, no,we dont have extra money to go drinking on weekends or go on family holidays to foreign destinations but we dont drink and that holiday thing will change in time, we are young and we are both working towards bettering our lives for the future

    We are not "reliant" on the state for financial support because of a lack of trying, I work the hours I can, I have a health issue that prevents me from working the long hours that other people have to work, this will change in time too

    We are a responsible cpl with beautiful and good children we knew things would be a slog but we went ahead and had our boys, life is good for us and we have a lot to offer,, we just dont want to impose on my gfs mother longer than we have to, she is okay about it all but of course we want our own place and to be like the rest of the hard working irish people with homes of our own,right now this is our lot and we are working at making it better for us and our boys.

    All landlords have the right to choose but surely people paying cash bring issues too, doesnt it all come down to the references and the interviews you have with the possible tenant?? We are not all the druggie alcoholic lunatics you hear about, there are good people that need to avail of the services provided by the government too we are some of those people


    Must have been a very small house if you gave up the lease to move back with the parents.

    Lots of property outside of Dublin to rent. Particularly as working is not high on the priority. Some of the small town would still have good facilities also. How far from Dublin would you move ?

    Eg https://touch.daft.ie/for-rent/house-millmount-mullingar-co-westmeath/2308878


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