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What’s your biggest fear?

  • 02-01-2020 9:47pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4


    My biggest fear would probably get me into the records books.

    Visiting a Dentist :-(

    After numerous visits to the Dentist as a kid, I was left terrified and ultimately abandoned mid treatment.

    Braces on nearly two decades :(


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  • Posts: 5,311 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I have a tremendous fear of stamps.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    Ordering a glass of wine and getting a ribena.















    (This story can't be diluted, can it?)


  • Posts: 7,712 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Heights. Like I can’t even watch a video or play a game where there’s any. Head just goes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭matchthis


    I had to wear braces for ages as a kid, kept getting told I looked cute and no one would notice them. Then I got a belt like the rest and didn’t feel like a hipster before it was a thing


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 470 ✭✭Notdeco


    Being a constant re reg posting ****e and getting banned again and again. And thinking that it's a fun way to spend my time...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 927 ✭✭✭greenttc


    My parents dying, and some day my fear will come true. Awful to think about


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭Duckworth_Luas


    A great white shark breaking into my house and stealing my video player


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,601 ✭✭✭touts


    Snakes! Why did it have to be Snakes!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Lifts.

    I won't get into lifts. You can't make me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭Carodh


    MRI’s. Had one 12 years ago and having never been claustrophobic before I was afterwards. Got goosebumps here & my breathing getting deeper & feeing nauseous as I’m typing this. I dread the future if I ever need one I will not be able to go into one.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,956 ✭✭✭✭Omackeral


    Lifts.

    I won't get into lifts. You can't make me.

    Ah they have their ups and downs


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 186 ✭✭iopener


    water , deep water you when you see a diver on the telly is the sea on their own and the back round changes from light blue to that dark colour inky black. why do they do it. and that's in clear water, imagine a garda diver in some filthy water searching for a body. shivers down me spine.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,380 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    MsLecter wrote: »
    My biggest fear would probably get me into the records books.

    Visiting a Dentist :-(

    After numerous visits to the Dentist as a kid, I was left terrified and ultimately abandoned mid treatment.

    Braces on nearly two decades :(

    Used to be dentists, had a chronic, a majorly chronic fear after having to deal with one absolutely terrible prîck of a violent dentist in my teens ...seeing a completely great guy now years later to sort out my gob..

    Parents dying also, they have been unbelievable parents, like fairytale brilliant and best friends too, they won’t always be here... both in pretty good health and active but getting on...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 324 ✭✭spindex


    Losing my penis to a whore with disease, just kidding losing my life to a whore with disease.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,956 ✭✭✭✭Omackeral


    Another mr fegelian thread


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 470 ✭✭Notdeco


    Omackeral wrote: »
    Another mr fegelian thread

    Naa, he hasn't rereged and made this his first post... Or has he?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Omackeral wrote: »
    Ah they have their ups and downs

    It's when they don't have their ups and downs that worries me.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,253 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    It's when they don't have their ups and downs that worries me.
    :D

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭Snow Garden


    Running out of teabags


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,558 ✭✭✭✭dreamers75


    Dentist


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 470 ✭✭Notdeco


    It's when they don't have their ups and downs that worries me.
    Emergency brakes. Have to admit I laughed out loud at your post


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 48 Joe Kaine


    Getting snared with a bit of aul' of sneachta.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,315 ✭✭✭nthclare


    Being out in the line up on my bodyboard and on a big day and a rogue triple over head line of 7 close out waves start breaking 50 yards in front of me, because at least 4 will get you, unless you can duck dive them all.

    Or else you can just curl up and take one hell of a beating and paddle back to shore with your wetsuit ripped and your ego dented...

    Worse than any dentist


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,503 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    A great white shark breaking into my house and stealing my video player

    What would a shark want with a video player in 2020


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭Duckworth_Luas


    Mad_maxx wrote: »
    What would a shark want with a video player in 2020
    Exactly


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,380 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    If the shark stole the key he wouldn’t have to break in... anyway, they are not as violent as made out, one won’t try and gill you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,967 ✭✭✭D3V!L


    My worst fear is my butler packing up and leaving. I don't know what id do without him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 370 ✭✭KrakityJones


    spindex wrote: »
    Losing my penis to a whore with disease, just kidding losing my life to a whore with disease.

    Excuse me please?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 156 ✭✭LuciX


    Dying

    Flying crockroaches

    Big spiders


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,271 ✭✭✭✭RMAOK


    Fear of body odour - particularly other people's body odour.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,740 ✭✭✭Foweva Awone


    Loss of personal independence. For example if I lost my sight or became a quadriplegic, I don't mean to be melodramatic but I'd probably kill myself (except I'd need assistance to even do that!) I couldn't live a life where I was so dependent on others for every little thing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,772 ✭✭✭byronbay2


    My greatest fear is that I may cease to be, before my pen has gleaned my teeming mind.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Vertigo. Heights by themselves are just uncomfortable... but vertigo, and that sensation of balance rolling backwards.. Ugh. Also the feeling of nothing or a thin floor underneath me... glass floors/elevators on tall buildings are such a horrible idea for someone like me. <shudders>


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,816 ✭✭✭skooterblue2


    Excuse me please?

    Crotch rot, swampy gusset, the clap, rhubarb and custard, Bertie Bassett. How much clearer does it have to be?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    improperly chilled champagne


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 373 ✭✭JMMCapital


    Not reaching my full potential


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,619 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Locked in syndrome.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 295 ✭✭Darksoul


    Liverpool winning the premiership this year and you swear they have been a big team for years when Leicester and Blackburn have already achieved the premiership.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,996 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    That the sky might fall on my head ...









    My lineage goes way back ....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,423 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Feathers and maybe the dentist if he was dressed in feathers.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,423 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    MsLecter wrote: »
    My biggest fear would probably get me into the records books.

    Visiting a Dentist :-(

    After numerous visits to the Dentist as a kid, I was left terrified and ultimately abandoned mid treatment.

    Braces on nearly two decades :(

    My grandfather wore braces for years too.
    If he forgot to put them on , his pants would fall down.
    That was my grandmother's greatest fear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,783 ✭✭✭Dr. Bre


    Big big spiders


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭Alecto


    Dying alone.

    Dying as a failure.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,524 ✭✭✭Gynoid


    Vertigo. Heights by themselves are just uncomfortable... but vertigo, and that sensation of balance rolling backwards.. Ugh. Also the feeling of nothing or a thin floor underneath me... glass floors/elevators on tall buildings are such a horrible idea for someone like me. <shudders>

    Me also. I get terrible vertigo. It is like a visual hallucination in some ways, it is quite overpowering. Being in a car being forced to watch as I am driven down hairpin bends would be a quick way to kill me. I have had to experience such roads but I lie down in the back seat and cover my head with cushions and squeeze my eyes tight closed and mutter like a lunatic. Others being near heights makes me flinch and crouch down, my stomach turns at people being casual in high places.

    But this year I have forced myself to do some heights. I have looked over very high ramparts, unbelievably walked (albeit cringingly) up a glass stair case, one whole floors worth, taken a stroll down a cliff road to a beach, and worst of all gone up in a glass -walled external lift that was 20 floors high. Mind you for that one I had my eyes tight shut, my head buried in my husbands armpit and his jacket almost wrung to a rag by the time the lift door opened. I overcame my fear many years ago too to walk in high mountains, but I still shudder when I think back on it. Must have been insane.

    I have nightmares about high places. About being helpless on soaring ledges. Walking up endless stairs in skyscrapers that then start to sway and crumble revealing vertiginous drops. . It is a strangely powerful fear in some and I dont understand it, I wonder if there is an inner ear issue - I had it as a very small child, since as far back as I have memory, and còuld not go upstairs for many months when we moved from a cottage to a new 2 storey house when I was 6. It literally felt (feels!) like I was (am!) about to fall off the planet to go up high. Must have been thrown off a cliff for being a witch in a past life! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,423 ✭✭✭✭Potential-Monke


    Spiders is my initial thought, have always hated the bastards. Like, who needs 8 legs and eyes? Cop on! The creator fcuking with us there!

    But, to really think about it, I suppose my biggest fear is losing my eyesight, hearing, brain and use of my hands. If I have all them, i'll be content as I can still play games. But losing any of them would make me consider a long walk off a short cliff.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,747 ✭✭✭HBC08


    Carodh wrote: »
    MRI’s. Had one 12 years ago and having never been claustrophobic before I was afterwards. Got goosebumps here & my breathing getting deeper & feeing nauseous as I’m typing this. I dread the future if I ever need one I will not be able to go into one.

    This is a weird one. Never had any sign of claustrophobia before and had an MRI 8 years ago no probs.Had one before Christmas and it was a nightmare.The guy had to slide me out a few times before it started.
    I wonder have i developed claustrophobia now?
    I hope not and i put it down to having a mountain of pints all weekend and the MRI being on the Monday.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I used to have a load of them and they were all very "me" focused and usually quite mundane really.

    But since becoming a dad they all seem to have gone away. Now the only fear I can honestly say I have is failing as a parent - or living long enough to see my own children die or suffer significantly.

    Anything else life can throw at me including pain - no longer seems a concern.
    Omackeral wrote: »
    Ah they have their ups and downs

    That joke was wrong on so many levels.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,231 ✭✭✭Hercule Poirot


    Vertigo. Heights by themselves are just uncomfortable... but vertigo, and that sensation of balance rolling backwards.. Ugh. Also the feeling of nothing or a thin floor underneath me... glass floors/elevators on tall buildings are such a horrible idea for someone like me. <shudders>

    Yeah Vertigo is a strange puppy alright - I've been ok the last twelve months or so but it could come out of nowhere at times. I'd be sitting in the canteen at work and if it got too loud and all of a sudden the room is just lost to me. Horrifying notion that it's spinning even though you are perfectly still. And weird things could set it off; like a kid on the other side of the street bouncing a football as he walks, the repetitive thud thud noise, another one would be when you misjudge a step depth, like a pavement, you suddenly lose yourself and I'd have to sit down for a while and get myself together.

    Went to the doctor who sent me to a physiotherapist as they believed it was a balance issue. Physiotherapist said the best approach was to tackle it head on, induce situations when attacks would occur so I started doing things that would normally trigger it, lifts, escalators, heights (albeit not massive heights) etc and it seemed to have worked, as I said been ok for the last twelve months or so


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,775 ✭✭✭✭_Brian


    Dying while my kids are young.
    My youngest is 11.

    I’ve been on medication for BP and other cardiac issues for a few years now, my dad died young at 66 suddenly with same issues.

    The worry of it keeps me awake at night sometimes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭PhilOssophy


    Being stuck in a lift with a vegan.


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