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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,450 ✭✭✭LollipopJimmy


    Two people who work on the same level is fine, but CEO and a subordinate is all wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,695 ✭✭✭King of Kings


    Two people who work on the same level is fine, but CEO and a subordinate is all wrong.

    Why?

    Do you not credit adults with the ability to make their own decisions? As was the case here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I work for a company where there are couples employed and it's a nightmare tbh. Granted they were together before they got the jobs and maybe it depends on the industry but I would discourage relationships with colleagues. I don't think anyone should be sacked over it though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,235 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    Two people who work on the same level is fine, but CEO and a subordinate is all wrong.

    Yeah because someone at CEO level should not be associating with someone at pond scum level. Proper order McDonalds, keep the rabble on at floor level where they belong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭racso1975


    Why?

    Because there is a power balance in play and when it all goes tits up then that can be used against one of the party


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  • Posts: 13,688 ✭✭✭✭ Gordon Salmon Mushroom


    "We have commenced an immediate review of our employer/employee relationship policy."

    in 3.....2.....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,474 ✭✭✭jim o doom


    The obvious reason for this kind of policy, is that a person in power, such as a CEO or high level manager, could potentially force a relationship upon a person lower in the organisation, as they have a significant degree of power over that persons future career.

    It may not be the case in this relationship, but if a company has a policy that prevents a manager dating a subordinate for the above reason, and the manager violates the policy, then they must accept the outcome.

    It's not as simple as two consenting adults - it's one adult with a significant degree more power in a company dating a subordinate in the same company.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Non fraternization policies are quite common in the US and are generally legally enforceable as long as they are applied evenly throughout the company. Some states have specific laws that deal with such matters (California as an example)

    Not sure what their legal status would be in Ireland


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,292 ✭✭✭0lddog


    I wondering where that would have left Bill and Melinda


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,969 ✭✭✭✭alchemist33


    Tbf, if the CEO can't have a relationship with any McDonald's employee, that rules out about 40% of the US population


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,430 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Two people who work on the same level is fine, but CEO and a subordinate is all wrong.

    Isn’t that what Louis CK got #metoo’d over? The victims were giving consent but felt they had to as he held a position of power over them.

    It’s best practice not to have work “relationships” between different levels.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    Tbf, if the CEO can't have a relationship with any McDonald's employee, that rules out about 40% of the US population
    40% of the US population are McDonald's employees? Maybe you're confusing "employees" with "customers."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,102 ✭✭✭✭Del2005


    0lddog wrote: »
    I wondering where that would have left Bill and Melinda

    She had to leave the company, otherwise they'd of had to fire Bill. The head of Intel got caught in a similar way and had to leave.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73 ✭✭Robert_Beach


    Not good enough that the CEOs take home mega-pay while the government subsidies their employees, now they feel entitled to take one home with them. Disgusting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 939 ✭✭✭bitofabind


    I'm wondering if there's more to this than meets the eye and that's why he's getting canned and Maccie Dees are releasing a statement before it all blows up.

    Was he shagging his 20 year old PA? Was the relationship becoming an unsustainable secret and they had to sack him before the Daily Mail got their claws into it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 267 ✭✭SnazzyPig


    Not good enough that the CEOs take home mega-pay while the government subsidies their employees, now they feel entitled to take one home with them. Disgusting.

    You make it sound like he took home a puppy from a dog breeding farm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73 ✭✭Robert_Beach


    SnazzyPig wrote: »
    You make it sound like he took home a puppy from a dog breeding farm.

    Is that really a million miles from what happened? A medieval, feudal lord taking one of his serfs as a bedroom plaything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,053 ✭✭✭Eggs For Dinner


    racso1975 wrote: »
    Because there is a power balance in play and when it all goes tits up then that can be used against one of the party

    Is there a ban on doing it tits up as well????


  • Posts: 5,121 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    It makes sense if the no dating subordinates policy is for all levels.

    Imagine a local manager using their position to suit someone they are in a relationship with, rosters, promotions, hours or whatever.

    Pat McDonagh's wife worked for him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,717 ✭✭✭YFlyer


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    40% of the US population are McDonald's employees? Maybe you're confusing "employees" with "customers."

    Most of the employees be customers as well.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,092 ✭✭✭The Tetrarch


    We had it in our contracts - no relationships (married couples ok obv).
    On day a observant colleague pointed out a male colleague wearing a female's colleague's ankle socks, and named the female. :)
    A female asked me what did I sleep in? A bed of course. :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    Non fraternization policies are quite common in the US and are generally legally enforceable as long as they are applied evenly throughout the company. Some states have specific laws that deal with such matters (California as an example)

    Not sure what their legal status would be in Ireland
    It's a ridiculous policy when you consider the workplace culture in the United States, namely that you have to dedicate your entire life to your job and be grateful for the opportunity to do so.

    A single person who probably has to spend twelve hours a day at work, so they couldn't possibly have enough time to develop a social life away from work, can't even "fraternize" romantically with the people they're working with. Not only are you expected to devote your life to your job but they also tell you you can't interact with your co-workers socially.

    It's a horrible society.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,148 ✭✭✭Princess Calla


    bitofabind wrote: »
    I'm wondering if there's more to this than meets the eye and that's why he's getting canned and Maccie Dees are releasing a statement before it all blows up.

    Was he shagging his 20 year old PA? Was the relationship becoming an unsustainable secret and they had to sack him before the Daily Mail got their claws into it?

    I thought the same....like you don't just wake up and resign over a relationship.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,046 ✭✭✭Bio Mech


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    40% of the US population are McDonald's employees? Maybe you're confusing "employees" with "customers."

    Maybe you’re confusing “serious” posts with “jokes”.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    Bio Mech wrote: »
    Maybe you’re confusing “serious” posts with “jokes”.
    That person seems confused as to what a joke is, themselves.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,639 ✭✭✭worded


    Approx 15 - 20% of people meet at work. Sad that you can get fired over it.

    edit - just listened to a news clip. Mc Donalds forbids managers from dating. Thats understandable really ....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 267 ✭✭SnazzyPig


    Is that really a million miles from what happened? A medieval, feudal lord taking one of his serfs as a bedroom plaything.

    Intersesting that you can equate a grown woman with a puppy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,292 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    It makes sense if the no dating subordinates policy is for all levels.

    Imagine a local manager using their position to suit someone they are in a relationship with, rosters, promotions, hours or whatever.

    Pat McDonagh's wife worked for him.

    Totally agree re the power imbalance thing.

    But as well as that, McDonald's have had a "don't screw the crew" policy in place for well over 30 years. There are very good reasons for it: pillow talk in a workplace can cause lots of friction. And suspicion of it when it's not actually happening can be even more damaging.

    It people don't like the policy, they shouldn't work for the company. It ain't rocket science.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73 ✭✭Robert_Beach


    SnazzyPig wrote: »
    Intersesting that you can equate a grown woman with a puppy.

    Who said the employee was a woman?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,450 ✭✭✭LollipopJimmy


    worded wrote: »
    Approx 15 - 20% of people meet at work. Sad that you can get fired over it.

    It's more the fact that this is the CEO, the one person with the most individual power within a company. Given the type of salary he likely had he really should have sucked it up and looked elsewhere. His total package was worth almost $16million per year


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,969 ✭✭✭✭alchemist33


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    40% of the US population are McDonald's employees? Maybe you're confusing "employees" with "customers."

    Or maybe I'm joking

    Edit: oh I see you got a little dig in later too. How cute


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    That's such a stupid post. Do you people really hate America so much that you have to attack it constantly?

    I don’t attack it constantly, far from it. But even if I did, why shouldn’t I?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    Your description of America sounds like a cross between Saudi Arabia and some kind of drone worker society. Do you really think Americans don't have office parties where they get drunk and hook up with each other?
    Saudi Arabia? What are you talking about? You seem more than a little confused. When you have a point, come back to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,435 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Who cares if the boss is sleeping with his secretary?


    But what if the ceo was sleeping with her secretary?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    You described America as a society where people work 12 hour shifts and are forbidden from fraternizing with the opposite sex.
    Yes, this is a discussion about the CEO of a prominent American company losing his job over it. That's kind of what this website is for, a subject is proposed and people talk about it.

    If you have any observations or thoughts of your own, feel free to share them.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭BENDYBINN


    Feels like there's a war on humanity. Everything has to be bland, safe, pc, gender neutral.

    Who cares if the boss is sleeping with his secretary?

    Problem is if she refuses to sleep with him will she get the door?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭BENDYBINN


    No.

    She might


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,435 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Then she can go to hr and complain.


    Come on now, don't be naive


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,435 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Sorry but you're the one being naive. Women are attracted to powerful men.


    Yea we know this, so what


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,609 ✭✭✭stoneill


    Employee relationships are banned as there can be a conflict of interest when it comes to annual reviews.
    1) She got a better review cause she's sleeping with yer man. (Swap genders as appropriate)
    2) You didn't give me a good review cos I'm sleeping with you.
    Both cases can lead to litigation, court cases and so on.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,995 ✭✭✭Ipso


    Woke Hogan wrote: »
    It's a ridiculous policy when you consider the workplace culture in the United States, namely that you have to dedicate your entire life to your job and be grateful for the opportunity to do so.

    A single person who probably has to spend twelve hours a day at work, so they couldn't possibly have enough time to develop a social life away from work, can't even "fraternize" romantically with the people they're working with. Not only are you expected to devote your life to your job but they also tell you you can't interact with your co-workers socially.

    It's a horrible society.

    Wow, shocking statistics. What was the size of your sample?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,203 ✭✭✭partyguinness


    Well you have a mega rich CEO and a subordinate. As the CEO you are walking into trouble- blackmail, extortion, revenge porn etc.

    As the sub ordinate you are risking the wrath of an all powerful CEO who can make your future employment prospects very grim.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,435 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    So if the boss is poking his secretary it's likely consensual.


    How would we actually know this for sure, and again what if she's riding her secretary?


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 17,858 Mod ✭✭✭✭Henry Ford III


    The lady should have gotten a job elsewhere. Couldn't be that difficult surely?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,435 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Because most men aren't that evil. And as for 'her'? Well an American congresswoman was forced to resign recently for seducing a female staffer.


    Evil! Say wha?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    Wouldn't most companies that size have similar policies?

    I doubt if Ahmed the fry cook and Tina drive thru operator are seeing each other it's going to be a problem like, I thought this was very standard in the corporate world though, especially in the states.

    I feel like people are pretending not to understand why such policies would be in place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,639 ✭✭✭worded


    The lady should have gotten a job elsewhere. Couldn't be that difficult surely?

    +1

    That would have been a very good solution to this mess.

    They fall in Love ... in order to proceed they both agree the wisest move is for her to work else where as he is earning approx 150+ times her salary !
    Or he help her start up her own restaurant .. the possibilities were endless with that amount of $ he was earning.

    He ran a business empire but was unable to run his personal life ...

    I think the saddest thing in all this is he publicly said (or was forced to say) he regrets the relationship, good god thats so sad to air that one ...

    In affairs of the heart who knows what went on, only 2 people know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 723 ✭✭✭Lemsiper


    So if my wife and I worked there and she was promoted to a management position we'd either have to get a divorce or one of us leave the company?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,390 ✭✭✭Cordell


    More than likely you will be both passed for promotion in favor of some less problematic candidates.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Lemsiper wrote: »
    So if my wife and I worked there and she was promoted to a management position we'd either have to get a divorce or one of us leave the company?
    well to be fair L, a pre-existing relationship like marriage would have a different dynamic. Though it does raise a debate to a degree. Would someone's potential to rise through a company be hindered if they were married to someone who also works for the company, because of the potential for favouritism and the like?

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