Anyone else fed up of dating apps?

BorneTobyWilde

ChikiChiki wrote: »

Just deleted it. **** it. For me Bumble is 10x better anyway. The women seem more genuine.

Isn't that just for women to contact men, a guy can't contact a lady.. That is even worse I'd imagine. All based on looks.

Mister Vain

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

Isn't that just for women to contact men, a guy can't contact a lady.. That is even worse I'd imagine. All based on looks.

I think its better. It saves you messaging loads of women that aren't going to reply.

Taeholic

It's tough out there. In the past 24 hours on pof I've gotten one unwanted photo, one conversation initiated by him with 2 word replies to my questions of trying to get to know him better and one offer to buy me clothes for my next date with someone in my league. His words not mine. And several other weird messages. Some people expect you to have your phone in your hand 24/7 or you get an abusive message. One potential date though, we'll see.
On tinder also, which is better in the sense you have to match to message but its still very difficult to get more than a few word reply. And I'd talk the legs off a donkey I ask questions. What's the point if you're not trying to get to know each other.
I'm sure its equally difficult for men, maybe you guys have the same problems. Rant over

Dial Hard

Allyson Curved Celebration wrote: »

lot similar but i found POF to be more filled with spam accounts and pickier than other...got more dates off tinder and bumble(bumbles problem is theres a lack of a distance filter -im down in cork but i keep getting matches up in Galway/Donegal)

Bumble added a distance filter about a month ago.

Earthhorse

Taeholic wrote: »

I'm sure its equally difficult for men, maybe you guys have the same problems. Rant over

I think we have the opposite problems.

Lots of messages sent with very few replies even if you keep it relevant and polite.

nthclare

I'm a right divel, when I smell a rat or someone who's just plain full of ****.

I tell them I've most of my life in order, all that's missing is someone to share good times with...

What can you bring to my life that might not be there already ?

They usually bolt or tell me I'm a knob lol

ArchXStanton

Earthhorse wrote: »

I think we have the opposite problems.

Lots of messages sent with very few replies even if you keep it relevant and polite.

Some of them expect some grand elaborate opener... Meanwhile a simple hello will suffice for a man

nthclare

ArchXStanton wrote: »

Some of them expect some grand elaborate opener... Meanwhile a simple hello will suffice for a man

I seen some of those headlines looking for an elaborate opening line....

you wouldn't meet a friend and think, hold on I'll have to impress this person now.

imagine dealing with someone who's looking for someone who's exceptionally sharp with an opening line... goes down hill after that lol

Raconteuse

S.G.M. wrote: »

No, I know you're not. Just curious as to how you felt that the narrative was that we will go for any woman we see.

Guys on this thread saying it.

JohnnyFlash

I thought Bumble was just for the B’s? Turns out it’s all C’s and D’s.

Taeholic

ArchXStanton wrote: »

Some of them expect some grand elaborate opener... Meanwhile a simple hello will suffice for a man

The hi/hello messages don't bother me. If I like your profile and location is somewhat close, I'll reply. But literally answering questions with one/two words is painful. And the "You?" replies get boring very quickly.

nthclare

Taeholic wrote: »

The hi/hello messages don't bother me. If I like your profile and location is somewhat close, I'll reply. But literally answering questions with one/two words is painful. And the "You?" replies get boring very quickly.

More tea vicar:)

ebbsy

Ficheall wrote: »

I just ask out everyone who thanks my posts on boards and seems female and intelligent.

Trollop.

Mister Vain

I think they should make an app that involves no messages at all. Just swipe and meet.

ArchXStanton

nthclare wrote: »

I seen some of those headlines looking for an elaborate opening line....

you wouldn't meet a friend and think, hold on I'll have to impress this person now.

imagine dealing with someone who's looking for someone who's exceptionally sharp with an opening line... goes down hill after that lol

I've lost count of the amount of profiles I've seen with "if we match don't message Hi" "if we match you message first"


And here's me thinking we were in the age of equality...

Taeholic

nthclare wrote: »

More tea vicar:)

Haha can't resist a good cuppa

Mister Vain

When a man talks dirty to a woman its sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man its £2.99 a minute.

ILoveYourVibes

Mister Vain wrote: »

When a man talks dirty to a woman its sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man its £2.99 a minute.

Its more than 2.99 a minute. Wut you think i am cheap??

JohnnyFlash

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Its more than 2.99 a minute. Wut you think i am cheap??

How much is it per minute to ring the Headmelter Hotline?

Taeholic

Mister Vain wrote: »

When a man talks dirty to a woman its sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man its £2.99 a minute.

Well if it's your first message it could be a problem alright 😄

Taeholic

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

How much is it per minute to ring the Headmelter Hotline?

Oh we do that for free haha

JohnnyFlash

Taeholic wrote: »

Oh we do that for free haha

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S.G.M.

Do any other guys literally never match with a woman they really want to match with?

ILoveYourVibes

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

How much is it per minute to ring the Headmelter Hotline?

I wouldn't accept your calls so i don't know why you're asking.

Taeholic

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

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If you want to pay for it, fair enough 45p is pretty cheap

Rufeo

Does anyone go for those international dating sites. I went on an Asian one lately and can't stop chatting women up on it. Great action all together.

Mister Vain

S.G.M. wrote: »

Do any other guys literally never match with a woman they really want to match with?

I'm not sure. I mean I sometimes match with a girl who looks great in the first few photos but then looks dreadful in the rest so I can't make my mind up. Or sometimes I match with a girl who could be attractive but they have silly filters with dogs ears and glasses. Theses wouldn't be young girls either.

ArchXStanton

Mister Vain wrote: »

I'm not sure. I mean I sometimes match with a girl who looks great in the first few photos but then looks dreadful in the rest so I can't make my mind up. Or sometimes I match with a girl who could be attractive but they have silly filters with dogs ears and glasses . Theses wouldn't be young girls either.

:pac:

All the better to deceive you with my dear

NewMan1982

Had anyone else been catfished?
Happened me twice last year. Took a few months break after it. Such a waste of a Saturday night.

BorneTobyWilde

If it was me I'd create a dating app call Stuck On You , when two people message and reply, then you are now '' Stuck On You'' , and it takes 20 messages each, back and forward to break the '' Stuck '' and each message needs to be 10 lines at least.
That would get people talking at least.