young couple having sex in parents house

mr_fegelien

Is it okay? We're talking about 17+. I was listening on 98fm and most said there isn't a problem with it. I find Ireland relatively liberal in this as I'm from Africa and it would be out of the question unless the person is married.

corner of hells

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Is it okay? We're talking about 17+. I was listening on 98fm and most said there isn't a problem with it. I find Ireland relatively liberal in this as I'm from Africa and it would be out of the question unless the person is married but.

You need to give it a break , you're just going to polish it to a point.

Edgware

Its ok once you let Mammy and Daddy watch. They like to learn new tricks

Mad_maxx

I wouldn't do it in my mums house and my fiancé are together years

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

Depends on the parents and whether they let you call them Sir or Madam.


You need to see the real world. Who gives you these impressions?

Your Face

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Is it okay? We're talking about 17+. I was listening on 98fm and most said there isn't a problem with it. I find Ireland relatively liberal in this as I'm from Africa and it would be out of the question unless the person is married.

That is part of the reason why many consider Africa to be the third-world.

mr_fegelien

Your Face wrote: »

That is part of the reason why many consider Africa to be the third-world.

Well my country is **** no doubt. Planning on renouncing my citizenship once I get €300.

jaxxx

Is it okay? If you're stuck living in the Dark Ages? Probably not. Otherwise: did you REALLY just ask that

biko

Having sex in her parents house = good times

Your Face

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Well my country is **** no doubt. Planning on renouncing my citizenship once I get €300.

Ha. Try harder.

TheValeyard

Why are young people having sex in my parents house?

Church on Tuesday

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Is it okay? We're talking about 17+. I was listening on 98fm and most said there isn't a problem with it. I find Ireland relatively liberal in this as I'm from Africa and it would be out of the question unless the person is married.

:rolleyes:

IAMAMORON

Just try to keep quiet and you should be fine. When I was screwing my then 17 year old girlfriend I would make sure that if her parents were in the house at the time that I never had sex on the same floor, it can get noisy. If they are upstairs then down to the clothes washer towards the back door, throw her up on that and start working away, I would always turn it on, the washing machine that is, then cut loose and shag like rabbits, always with protection, I didn't want no babies.

Likewise the textbook " homework" scenario. If we were horny in the early evening then up to her bedroom for happy times. You soon learn how to be nice and quiet when you are shagging, a bit like a prisoner learns to masturbate silently when he is sharing a cell with other men, for fear of upsetting their sleep.

I have never had sex in Africa though, in saying that I have never been to Africa either. What is sex like in Africa and why is it different to having sex in your parents house, is it because it is nearer the equator?

Yer Da sells Avon

When I had a girlfriend around, my mother's attitude was: "I don't know - or want to know - what you're doing. But whatever you do, be careful."

20Wheel

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Just try to keep quiet and you should be fine. When I was screwing my then 17 year old girlfriend I would make sure that if her parents were in the house at the time that I never had sex on the same floor, it can get noisy. If they are upstairs then down to the clothes washer towards the back door, throw her up on that and start working away, I would always turn it on, the washing machine that is, then cut loose and shag like rabbits, always with protection, I didn't want no babies.

Likewise the textbook " homework" scenario. If we were horny in the early evening then up to her bedroom for happy times. You soon learn how to be nice and quiet when you are shagging

like they didnt know exactly what was going on the whole time.
sorry, youre not a sex ninja.

Ultrflat

biko wrote: »

Having sex in her parents house = good times

Sneaking out of the bedroom window is even more fun

TheFortField

OP, it’s time that your parents turned off the WiFi - we could do with a well earned break from your threads.

listermint

Mad_maxx wrote: »

I wouldn't do it in my mums house and my fiancé are together years

Boring

Leg End Reject

We'd all still be virgins if we hadn't done it.

IAMAMORON

20Wheel wrote: »

like they didnt know exactly what was going on the whole time.
sorry, youre not a sex ninja.

Very judgemental of you. Ninja is an exaggeration, it is all about knowing what programmes her parents like watching on TV. The news is always a good one and in-depth thrillers that keep them on the edge of their seats, so engrossed in the telly that they forget we are even there and that I am balls deep in their daughter upstairs in her bedroom, under their own hard fought for and worked roof. The cheek of me, pumping away as my girlfriend lies squirming in ecstasy on her bedroom floor, carpet burnt and sweating , like a good girl.

banie01

Leg End Reject wrote: »

We'd all still be virgins if we hadn't done it.

Being left to stay over but in the spare bedroom
Getting down to action on the floor so as not to be caught out by the bed banging!

I remember one time me and the original Mrs Banie were studying one time, when my Nana came up the stairs and started banging on the door...
Shouting what'd I do if her father was the one shouting for her?
She wasn't too happy with me when I told her he'd have to knock too :pac:

Mad_maxx

listermint wrote: »

Mad_maxx wrote: »

I wouldn't do it in my mums house and my fiancé are together years

Boring

No, respectful

freshpopcorn

I'm supreiser Ruth Coppinger didn't ring in and say this was happening because of the homeless crisis!

mr_fegelien

Mad_maxx wrote: »

No, respectful

Can I ask why you believe that? Why is having sex considered disrespectful?

GooglePlus

Your Face wrote: »

That is part of the reason why many consider Africa to be the third-world.

No it isn't.

banie01

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I have never had sex in Africa though, in saying that I have never been to Africa either. What is sex like in Africa and why is it different to having sex in your parents house, is it because it is nearer the equator?

I'd say the Coriolas effect plays havoc on ejaculation, imagine being used to a clockwise twist....
Then Boom suddenly your rifling is off! :pac:

eviltwin

My daughter's partner stays over regularly sleeps in her bed and I'm sure they have sex. I'm okay with that once they are discreet. I really don't need to be listening to them at it.

Eggs For Dinner

Wasn’t permitted when I was in my teens in the late 70s (didn’t stop me though) . I had no problem with my children having their girlfriends stay over and I presume they had sex, that’s their own business. I only had one rule, no one-night stands please, I like to know who is in my house

Motivator

Eggs For Dinner wrote: »

Wasn’t permitted when I was in my teens in the late 70s (didn’t stop me though) . I had no problem with my children having their girlfriends stay over and I presume they had sex, that’s their own business. I only had one rule, no one-night stands please, I like to know who is in my house

I broke the one night stand rule quite a few times when I was growing up. I always stayed downstairs as I tried to trick the family into thinking if we stayed in the living room that nothing happened. It seemed to work too until the mother came down one morning & there was a fake tanned shaped outline of a person on her cream living room carpet. Not fun explaining that one.

ILoveYourVibes

Why would kids want to have sex in a parents house?? Awkward.

eviltwin

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Why would kids want to have sex in a parents house?? Awkward.

Where else are they going to do it?

ILoveYourVibes

eviltwin wrote: »

Where else are they going to do it?

Out in the wild like normal teens

They will have to wait for warm weather!

Raconteuse

jaxxx wrote: »

Is it okay? If you're stuck living in the Dark Ages? Probably not. Otherwise: did you REALLY just ask that

listermint wrote: »

Boring

Not everyone's parents would be ok with it so some respect that. It's not that out there. This forum's age group is mostly adult yet this thread has lots of responses as if it's back to rebellious, trying to look cool, teenage years.

Leg End Reject wrote: »

We'd all still be virgins if we hadn't done it.

Of course we wouldn't all!

Raconteuse

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Why would kids want to have sex in a parents house?? Awkward.

Exactly.

eviltwin wrote: »

Where else are they going to do it?

There's nowhere else whatsoever?

If I had a teenage son or daughter I wouldn't care once it's not a one night stand and they're using protection, but for parents of previous generations it's not as straightforward. Plus, I get why people would feel a bit cringey shagging a few rooms away from their parents. Not every family has a new agey, Viz The Modern Parents thing going on (thankfully - parents being lame and uncool seems more the natural order imo).

Mad_maxx

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Mad_maxx wrote: »

No, respectful

Can I ask why you believe that? Why is having sex considered disrespectful?

Almost anything can be disrespectful within the context of a particular situation.

Edgware

Motivator wrote: »

I broke the one night stand rule quite a few times when I was growing up. I always stayed downstairs as I tried to trick the family into thinking if we stayed in the living room that nothing happened. It seemed to work too until the mother came down one morning & there was a fake tanned shaped outline of a person on her cream living room carpet. Not fun explaining that one.

Are you sure it was fake tan?

cruais

TBH you sound like you've been watching too much porn hub.
Cool story tho bro :P

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Very judgemental of you. Ninja is an exaggeration, it is all about knowing what programmes her parents like watching on TV. The news is always a good one and in-depth thrillers that keep them on the edge of their seats, so engrossed in the telly that they forget we are even there and that I am balls deep in their daughter upstairs in her bedroom, under their own hard fought for and worked roof. The cheek of me, pumping away as my girlfriend lies squirming in ecstasy on her bedroom floor, carpet burnt and sweating , like a good girl.

skooterblue2

TheValeyard wrote: »

Why are young people having sex in my parents house?

Cos your parents go to Lidl for the specials on Sunday morning and leave the back door unlocked. I hope you dont mind Me and the missus had a sensual shower together....... nekkid!!!

Das Reich

Your Face wrote: »

mr_fegelien wrote: »

Is it okay? We're talking about 17+. I was listening on 98fm and most said there isn't a problem with it. I find Ireland relatively liberal in this as I'm from Africa and it would be out of the question unless the person is married.

That is part of the reason why many consider Africa to be the third-world.

I thought the reason was because of their poor living standards, resulted from a decolonization and an demographic explosion. And to be honest, I think the OP lied about Africa being not liberal (unless he is from North Africa), being there and people starts their sexual life very young by 17 they have already children.

mr_fegelien

Das Reich wrote: »

I thought the reason was because of their poor living standards, resulted from a decolonization and an demographic explosion. And to be honest, I think the OP lied about Africa being not liberal (unless he is from North Africa), being there and people starts their sexual life very young by 17 they have already children.

That's actually not "liberal", women from tribes tend to get married off early (now with education it's later). But that was the case in pre-historic humans for thousands of years. Women got married when they started puberty at 13-14.

My family back home is African and don't believe in dating until you're 18.

Homelander

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Very judgemental of you. Ninja is an exaggeration, it is all about knowing what programmes her parents like watching on TV. The news is always a good one and in-depth thrillers that keep them on the edge of their seats, so engrossed in the telly that they forget we are even there and that I am balls deep in their daughter upstairs in her bedroom, under their own hard fought for and worked roof. The cheek of me, pumping away as my girlfriend lies squirming in ecstasy on her bedroom floor, carpet burnt and sweating , like a good girl.

This sounds like some neckbeard fantasy erotica you'd find written on 4Chan.

Mulberrytree

mr_fegelien wrote: »

That's actually not "liberal", women from tribes tend to get married off early (now with education it's later). But that was the case in pre-historic humans for thousands of years. Women got married when they started puberty at 13-14.

My family back home is African and don't believe in dating until you're 18.

I registered just to reply to this although I look through boards regularly.

I'm very taken aback that someone claiming to be from "Africa" firstly doesn't name the country or at least identify region.

Because, you know, 54 countries majority of which are multiethnic with varying cultural values and norms simply cannot be lumped as "Africa".

Would you say the same if your parents were from Europe? No. You'd name the location

This kind of thing is why people can post such rubbish as "that's why people think Africa is backwards".

Yeah, a whole continent bigger than the USA and China combined is all the same! We're ALL the same. Not! Why say you have African parents? Do you not see the damage that creating a monolithic version of a billion people does? But then from your question I think you're quite young.

I also come from an African country. One in the South and can unequivocally tell you that plenty of people outside of the unfortunates married off due to living in extremely rural areas or locked into a certain middle Eastern religion or certain parts of the continent have sex freely.

No, it's not respectful to have sex in a parents home, but then, you don't bring casual boyfriends over and certainly not for overnights and that's pretty much also what I found when I moved here to Ireland for most people.

Does that mean people don't date? Of course they do. Does that mean sec doesn't happen? Of course it does.

Also, times are changing, the conservative generations are being replaced by young people who simply don't care for society pressuring then into particular moral positions. I see this all the time on social media and with friends back home who get divorced, have openly loose lifestyles, who reject restrictive roles placed on married women, etc

Maybe you don't understand enough about your parents home country and are only exposed to the culture they have in your own home and that really is no reason to extrapolate to "Africa" as if every home or cultural grouping is the same.

That said, I have teenagers myself and no, they won't be having any sex that I know of in my house. We're a few years away from it but the thought of it is uncomfortable. I'm not a prude, conservative or religious. In fact I'd rather they let me know if they need any help or access to sexual health asap and I've no problem paying for that.

They can have sex, I'd just rather I'm not in the same house it's happening and I think many other parents not "African" would share that position.

suicide_circus

eviltwin wrote: »

My daughter's partner stays over regularly sleeps in her bed and I'm sure they have sex. I'm okay with that once they are discreet. I really don't need to be listening to them at it.

when does a boyfriend become a partner?

the beer revolu

suicide_circus wrote: »

when does a boyfriend become a partner?

Who said anything about a boyfriend?

eviltwin

suicide_circus wrote: »

when does a boyfriend become a partner?

A few months? After I've met them and they become a regular visitor to the house and we get to know each other. My daughter is 23, I respect her relationship and think its only right her partner can stay over. There's no reason for me to say no.

skooterblue2

Raconteuse wrote: »

Exactly.

There's nowhere else whatsoever?

If I had a teenage son or daughter I wouldn't care once it's not a one night stand and they're using protection, but for parents of previous generations it's not as straightforward. Plus, I get why people would feel a bit cringey shagging a few rooms away from their parents. Not every family has a new agey, Viz The Modern Parents thing going on (thankfully - parents being lame and uncool seems more the natural order imo).

Images of Trainspotting with Ewan McGregor are coming to mind

Mister Vain

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Why would kids want to have sex in a parents house?? Awkward.

Awkward is an understatement. I could never do it. Usually it was the back seat of a car or a cheap hotel.

IAMAMORON

Mister Vain wrote: »

Awkward is an understatement. I could never do it. Usually it was the back seat of a car or a cheap hotel.

Difficult to get insurance when your 17... in saying that throwing back the car seat and going for the leg over is almost like a right of passage, seeing paradise by the dashboard lights....

Happy times.

Mister Vain

IAMAMORON wrote: »

Difficult to get insurance when your 17... in saying that throwing back the car seat and going for the leg over is almost like a right of passage, seeing paradise by the dashboard lights....

Happy times.

Or shagging an escort in an escort and someone knocks on the window.

PennyWiseClown

"Sex in your parents house" is very broad OP.

Having a ride in the kitchen while Dad is reading the sunday paper - probably not.
Having a ride in my bedroom door locked and being discrete ? - definitely.

Leg End Reject

PennyWiseClown wrote: »

"Sex in your parents house" is very broad OP.

Having a ride in the kitchen while Dad is reading the sunday paper - probably not.
Having a ride in my bedroom door locked and being discrete ? - definitely.

:D
If I'm honest, I don't think my father would have been overly comfortable with the first option. Just a hunch mind.