Asked to leave premises over wheel chair user

Fiddlesticks99

I go to a local coffeehouse 2 or 3 mornings a week to read the papers and generally take it easy for an hour or two. On one of the mornings, I got up to use the bathroom, however there was a small Que for the men's toilet so I decided to pop into the disabled toilet because they are always empty. When I finished up and exited the toilet, there was a wheelchair user outside waiting to use the toilet.


The wheelchair person was very irate and quickly confronted me. He accused me of being inconsiderate a*hole, and said typical behavior from the likes of myself. He said he was now late for some appointment and just carried on giving out. Initially, i tried to explain that its tough sh*t that the toilet is occupied and that he had to wait. I understand that toilet is designed to facilitate wheelchair users but it doesn't entitle a person to skip the Que per se. Everybody has to Que dont they? wheelchair or not.



Anyway, when i pointed that out he went ballistic and asked to see a manager, he then started to complain to the manager about how this is unacceptable and that I should have more respect. The manager agreed with the wheelchair user and said if I cant follow the rules I wasn't welcome. I argued that there was no rule but i was eventually asked to leave.


I don't think this was fair, I didn't do anything wrong. If anything the wheelchair user was being obnoxious to me and the manager was afraid to disagree. Has anyone had similar experiences?

jam_mac_jam

Maybe if you had apologized instead of being so rude then you wouldn't have been barred. He doesn't have a choice of toilet like you do. Just wait for the other one, especially if its a small queue.

Omackeral

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

I don't think this was fair, I didn't do anything wrong. If anything the wheelchair user was being obnoxious

Wheelie?

thomas anderson.

Talk about ****ting where you eat....

Endaaaagh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDZzl9AyXeg

Fiddlesticks99

Apologize for what exactly?

Omackeral

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

The wheelchair person was very irate and quickly confronted me.

Probably cos you called him a wheelchair person.

Stevieluvsye

You should have wiped your unwashed piss* hands all over his face. The cheek of him being all disabled and looking to use the toilet specifically designed for one's such disabilities

super_furry

You're a weirdo and you seem to get off on making up stories about people in wheelchairs. What your deal?

https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=110838154

Salary Negotiator

If you're not disabled you shouldn't use the disabled toilets, or if you do use them just apologise and say it was an emergency.

OP is a troll, just look at his previous threads.

smilerf

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

I go to a local coffeehouse 2 or 3 mornings a week to read the papers and generally take it easy for an hour or two. On one of the mornings, I got up to use the bathroom, however there was a small Que for the men's toilet so I decided to pop into the disabled toilet because they are always empty. When I finished up and exited the toilet, there was a wheelchair user outside waiting to use the toilet.


The wheelchair person was very irate and quickly confronted me. He accused me of being inconsiderate a*hole, and said typical behavior from the likes of myself. He said he was now late for some appointment and just carried on giving out. Initially, i tried to explain that its tough sh*t that the toilet is occupied and that he had to wait. I understand that toilet is designed to facilitate wheelchair users but it doesn't entitle a person to skip the Que per se. Everybody has to Que dont they? wheelchair or not.



Anyway, when i pointed that out he went ballistic and asked to see a manager, he then started to complain to the manager about how this is unacceptable and that I should have more respect. The manager agreed with the wheelchair user and said if I cant follow the rules I wasn't welcome. I argued that there was no rule but i was eventually asked to leave.


I don't think this was fair, I didn't do anything wrong. If anything the wheelchair user was being obnoxious to me and the manager was afraid to disagree. Has anyone had similar experiences?

I'm sorry but he was right. You were inconsiderate and your justification is pretty lame

That's your que to take a permanent hiatus from boards.

Fiddlesticks99

his disability is not the issue here, don't straw man the point please

Stevieluvsye

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

Apologize for what exactly?

Apologise for posting this kind of ****e first of all

Somedaythefire

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

his disability is not the issue here, don't straw man the point please

You aren't even a good troll. Of course that's the issue, you used the disabled toilets.

Bob Harris

Is that you Larry David?

Fiddlesticks99

No....its just a toilet. That happens to facilitate the disabled.

Franz Von Peppercorn II

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

Apologize for what exactly?

Being in the disabled jacks when not disabled.

Anyway i saw this on Larry David. You need to break your leg or something and then that guy will get cured miraculously and you can get your own back.

fryup

c'mon now OP...did this really happen??

Raconteuse

The OP knows that they shouldn't have used the disabled customer's toilet.

It may not even have happened.

Don't take the bait.

Coffee house? Cafe or coffee shop.

Queue.

Fin.

wiggle16

super_furry wrote: »

You're a weirdo and you seem to get off on making up stories about people in wheelchairs. What your deal?

https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=110838154

OP's on a roll!

I'll get my coat and exit via the ramp.

Fiddlesticks99

But that was one of my points? Why do i HAVE to be disabled to use it. Its just a toilet

riffmongous

Fair play for keeping all your trolls consistent at least, every one is a "I did something shi'tty but it was the other person's fault, woe is me"

Franz Von Peppercorn II

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

Initially, i tried to explain that its tough sh*t that the toilet is occupied and that he had to wait. I understand that toilet is designed to facilitate wheelchair users but it doesn't entitle a person to skip the Que per se. Everybody has to Que dont they? wheelchair or not.

He’s in the Q for the disabled toilet. It would make no sense to wait for other queues.

bear1

If there are no free parking spots apart from a disabled one, would you use it?
Tbh you come across as a bit of a dick here.
The person is in a wheelchair and needed to use a toilet specially designed for someone in a wheelchair.
Why didn't you just wait like all the other able bodied people?
Gob****e of a thing to do.

D3V!L

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

But that was one of my points? Why do i HAVE to be disabled to use it. Its just a toilet

We can arrange a disability for you if you continue with these stupid threads.

super_furry

riffmongous wrote: »

Fair play for keeping all your trolls consistent at least, every one is a "I did something ****ty but it was the other person's fault, woe is me"

There's some decent detail in there as well. Always alluding to the fact that he's on the dole too - going for 'sure they take everything Joe' angle.

Need to mix it up more though.

wiggle16

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

But that was one of my points? Why do i HAVE to be disabled to use it. Its just a toilet

Bit like you have to be a woman to use the women's toilets and a man to use the men's.

He had to wait for his toilet because you wouldn't wait for yours.

banie01

Surely this thread is proof enough that the OP has at the very least a significant intellectual disability?
That'd qualify him to shít anywhere?

Forty Seven

but it doesn't entitle a person to skip the Que per se. Everybody has to Que dont they?

You don't see the contradiction in using the disabled toilet to skip a queue and then telling him he has to wait?

Deebles McBeebles

There's this girl that's been on my mind
All the time, Que-Que-Quedio oh oh
Now she don't even know my name
But I think she likes me just the same
Que-Que-Quedio oh oh

riffmongous

super_furry wrote: »

There's some decent detail in there as well. Always alluding to the fact that he's on the dole too - going for 'sure they take everything Joe' angle.

Need to mix it up more though.

Pity he didn't mention his ADHD kid again as well to really tie it all together

Franz Von Peppercorn II

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

But that was one of my points? Why do i HAVE to be disabled to use it. Its just a toilet

Some of them are changing rooms right enough.

There is another reason to not use the disabled toilets. If you get stuck then they’ll think you’re disabled when they get you out, and eventually you will end up on a trip back to Manchester with the gay disabled group who were on a day out, some of whom will be handsy.

the_pen_turner

Obviously the op is playing with us

But this was genuine I would just say that not all disabilities are visual and tell him to cop on. He would have no right to know what your disability is .

Fiddlesticks99

No hang on, if a car park is full, what does anybody have to do? What if the disabled space is occupied by another disabled user? Its tough crap.

My point is these inconveniences apply to everybody.

Same with the toilet, if it was occupied by another wheelchair user then the result is the same, the next user has to wait.

Franz Von Peppercorn II

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

Same with the toilet, if it was occupied by another wheelchair user then the result is the same, the next user has to wait.

It wasn’t though. It was you.

Stevieluvsye

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

No hang on, if a car park is full, what does anybody have to do? What if the disabled space is occupied by another disabled user? Its tough crap.

My point is these inconveniences apply to everybody.

Same with the toilet, if it was occupied by another wheelchair user then the result is the same, the next user has to wait.

Is this a form of counselling for your disability?

Fiddlesticks99

yeah but the result is the same, why are you splitting hairs? Outrage is it?

Feisar

OP, all you needed to do was say, "not all disabilities are visible".

Dick move but it gets you out of the situation.

You told the disabled person that every one has to que and its though s**t but you used the disabled toilet so you didn't have to que...why doesn't queuing apply to you?

El Tarangu

Should have said:

"Oh yeah? Well,

(•_•)

I have

( •_•) >⌐■-■

Crohn's"

(⌐■_■)

*guitar strumm*

Yyyyeaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!!

Fiddlesticks99

At least there's one objective person in here

The Tetrarch

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

At least there's one objective person in here

The word is objectionable.

Alun

Que?

Fiddlesticks99

I didnt skip any Q, I just used a different toilet.

muckwarrior

Disabled toilets aren't just for wheelchair users. They're also for people with medical conditions which mean they sometimes need to go to the toilet with very little warning. That's why they should be kept free wherever possible. Most people can wait in line to use the jacks, but some cant.

Tasfasdf

What if he didn't have visual disability , could the cafe for slandering him in front of people.

bear1

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

I didnt skip any Q, I just used a different toilet.

Which isn't designed for people like you...

Feisar

OP on hols:

Franz Von Peppercorn II

Fiddlesticks99 wrote: »

I didnt skip any Q, I just used a different toilet.

That was skipping the abled toilet.

You wait. You wait.

Fiddlesticks99

Because the toilet was free