What do I do??

Dual wheels

Romancegirl28 wrote: »

Thanks guys.
I don’t have a lot of experience with men 😂

If he’s usually a confident go getter and he started talking gibberish to you, take it from me luv, he’s into you big time! Often guys in work seem confident but that’s their work, he may be shy when it comes to a girl he fancies and he clearly fancies you. Another thing to consider is that it’s difficult asking a girl out at work because all the girls at work gossip and if you reject him he will look like an idiot so sometimes it’s easier to ask a girl out if she’s a stranger
My advice, chat to him some more, find out where he goes for a drink say ‘might see you there this weekend’ then turn up with a mate ‘bump into him’ oh hey how ya doing bla bla he will offer to buy you a drink and before you know it you will be shifting the face off him, go for it girlfriend and best of luck!

tara73

do you not have a tea kitchen, lunch room or anything like that where you can meet him 'accidentially'?:) Seriously, that would be the way to go for me, meet him there while making a coffee preparing some food etc. and maybe get a bit flirty if you're able to. Best place to start a casual talk and I would say you should see from his reaction if there's an interest on his part or not. maybe not after the first time talkig to him but after a few times.

The asking him directly out for a coffee without ever talking a bit first is indeed awkward and I wouldn't do it.

Shefwedfan

Man asks you out or acts in way you suggest = sexual harassment if you don’t reciprocate....man loses job/references etc.....

Ask him out yourself

bucketybuck

Romancegirl28 wrote: »

What do I do? I’m really into him.. I’ve never felt this strongly about any man in my life!

Romancegirl28 wrote: »

I feel like rubbish cause I just can’t stop thinking about him.

Ask him out or don't ask him out, its up to you.

But this is a guy you barely have any interaction with and effectively know nothing about, it really seems like you have built him up to be something he is not.

I would have a think about that, both because the reality might not meet the fantasy you may have created, and because feeling so strongly about a guy you barely know could well just drive him away should you ever actually go out.

Nothing wrong with being attracted to somebody, but a bit of perspective does no harm either.

Irish_rat

I wonder did the OP give up!

wiggle16

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Hi Irish_rat

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